Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm anti ex, but why not what do you have to lose. Have no expectations and keep your emotions in check


Long story short...She's no longer talking to the guy she was interested in and now that they're done, she's calling you again. Ifor you choose to hang out with her, don't take her seriously. She probably would hit you with the "I have a lot on my plate right now" aka "I have a lot of dikks on my plate right now" again, as soon as she finds another guy she's interested in.

Yeah i figured that was the real reason. Well i'm going to take her up on her offer for this weekend since it shouldn't hurt anything with my other options at the moment but being taken seriously is over with.
 

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Yeah i figured that was the real reason. Well i'm going to take her up on her offer for this weekend since it shouldn't hurt anything with my other options at the moment but being taken seriously is over with.

yeah it is, whenever a woman is to busy or communication ceases another dude takes your spot, like i said im anti ex, but if oyu dont care meet up just dont fall for her ive been thinking about you for months but, and do you still have feelings for me bla bla
 

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Yeah i figured that was the real reason. Well i'm going to take her up on her offer for this weekend since it shouldn't hurt anything with my other options at the moment but being taken seriously is over with.

i'm with @Emperor_ReinScarf i would never meet an ex, let alone communicate with her regardless on how our relationship ended. What's in the past stays there. Imagine you are in a better position now then you were 7 months ago...she prolly gonna be like :gladbron:and try to jump back in your good graces.

reinscarf said it best and i'll never forget this...why give a same girl another chance when there is a girl out there that hasn't even gotten her first. :ufdup:
 

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i'm with @Emperor_ReinScarf i would never meet an ex, let alone communicate with her regardless on how our relationship ended. What's in the past stays there. Imagine you are in a better position now then you were 7 months ago...she prolly gonna be like :gladbron:and try to jump back in your good graces.

reinscarf said it best and i'll never forget this...why give a same girl another chance when there is a girl out there that hasn't even gotten her first. :ufdup:

:ehh:Yeah i'm not completely where i want to be but i'm definitely doing better than i was 7 months ago. This girl made me break my rules about exes which already is a sign of trouble to me. It's like i can't resist her once she turns on the charm, ya'll ever go through that?. i have a lot to learn that's for sure. I already have a girl that told me " it's yours when you want it :shaq:" and i'm here wasting time with an ex:heh: :snoop:
 

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Her: *Sends picture with headscarf on and overgrown T-shirt*, am I sexy?

Me: You Look good.

Her: That's not what I asked, am i sexy??

Me: :patrice: That's not my definition of Sexy, but you look good though.

Her: Whatever, That's not what I wanted to hear, I'm going to bed, I'll talk to you whenever.



:deadmanny: She already just a strong 7, but for her to catch an attitude for me not telling her a lie is hilarious.

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Sometimes man... sometimes. I, I just... I dunno.


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Prob posted that on Instagram with 50 thirst comments




Her: *Sends picture with headscarf on and overgrown T-shirt*, am I sexy?

Me: You Look good.

Her: That's not what I asked, am i sexy??

Me: :patrice: That's not my definition of Sexy, but you look good though.

Her: Whatever, That's not what I wanted to hear, I'm going to bed, I'll talk to you whenever.



:deadmanny: She already just a strong 7, but for her to catch an attitude for me not telling her a lie is hilarious.
 

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....WTF is wrong with me?????

So today I'm shopping, and I see one of the chicks I was actually fairly attracted to (I used to work the store I was shopping in, I'm a vendor). I don't know why, but I have quite a strong attraction to her, though I've only briefly spoke her twice. I really wanted to try and start a convo, but all I could really get out was a half-assed "how are you" or some shyt like that. I felt so damn awkward....It's like everytime I try and start convo with someone I'm attracted to or whatever, shyt never works. I can't get it to flow naturally like others. I talk to any other person it's fine....It's like I get this BLOCK that gives me this "fukk it, it ain't gonna work anyway" feeling. I don't know how other people think, but I know that shyt ain't natural AT ALL....

I don't know how much longer I can take this by myself shyt. I guess it's true what they say about people being lonely for too long; it fukks with your mental well-being. It's sort of like I notice myself growing number and number...I just don't want to get pushed over the edge. I can go on and on about what lead up to these thoughts, but I'll just say this: Of all My 31 and a half years on this planet, I've been alone for about 30....and the year I wasn't wasn't even worth remembering....
 

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....WTF is wrong with me?????

So today I'm shopping, and I see one of the chicks I was actually fairly attracted to (I used to work the store I was shopping in, I'm a vendor). I don't know why, but I have quite a strong attraction to her, though I've only briefly spoke her twice. I really wanted to try and start a convo, but all I could really get out was a half-assed "how are you" or some shyt like that. I felt so damn awkward....It's like everytime I try and start convo with someone I'm attracted to or whatever, shyt never works. I can't get it to flow naturally like others. I talk to any other person it's fine....It's like I get this BLOCK that gives me this "fukk it, it ain't gonna work anyway" feeling. I don't know how other people think, but I know that shyt ain't natural AT ALL....

I don't know how much longer I can take this by myself shyt. I guess it's true what they say about people being lonely for too long; it fukks with your mental well-being. It's sort of like I notice myself growing number and number...I just don't want to get pushed over the edge. I can go on and on about what lead up to these thoughts, but I'll just say this: Of all My 31 and a half years on this planet, I've been alone for about 30....and the year I wasn't wasn't even worth remembering....
Random question. You know dodgeball right?
 

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bet. So imagine you've got a dodgeball in your hand, and you're in between 2 walls; 1 behind you, 1 in front of you. They're 20 feet away from each other and you're dead center.

2 questions:

  1. What would happen if you slam the ball into the wall ahead of you?
  2. What would happen if you did the same thing, but the walls were only 5 feet apart?
 

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bet. So imagine you've got a dodgeball in your hand, and you're in between 2 walls; 1 behind you, 1 in front of you. They're 20 feet away from each other and you're dead center.

2 questions:

  1. What would happen if you slam the ball into the wall ahead of you?
  2. What would happen if you did the same thing, but the walls were only 5 feet apart?
1. It would hit the wall then ricochet back towards me, or directly at me.
3. It would do the same as above, except the ball would probably hit me.
 

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....WTF is wrong with me?????

So today I'm shopping, and I see one of the chicks I was actually fairly attracted to (I used to work the store I was shopping in, I'm a vendor). I don't know why, but I have quite a strong attraction to her, though I've only briefly spoke her twice. I really wanted to try and start a convo, but all I could really get out was a half-assed "how are you" or some shyt like that. I felt so damn awkward....It's like everytime I try and start convo with someone I'm attracted to or whatever, shyt never works. I can't get it to flow naturally like others. I talk to any other person it's fine....It's like I get this BLOCK that gives me this "fukk it, it ain't gonna work anyway" feeling. I don't know how other people think, but I know that shyt ain't natural AT ALL....

I don't know how much longer I can take this by myself shyt. I guess it's true what they say about people being lonely for too long; it fukks with your mental well-being. It's sort of like I notice myself growing number and number...I just don't want to get pushed over the edge. I can go on and on about what lead up to these thoughts, but I'll just say this: Of all My 31 and a half years on this planet, I've been alone for about 30....and the year I wasn't wasn't even worth remembering....

Damn man. I hate to hear anyone sound this down. You have to ignore everything in your mind that's telling you your mouthpiece won't work. TAKE YOUR SHOTS! At the end of the day, even if you aren't successful, what have you really lost? Nothing. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Always keep that in mind. It isn't healthy for any man to be so trapped in his own mind that it keeps him from living his life.
 
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