Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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thats the beauty of breakups man, at the moment your
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, but as time goes on its truly a blessing in disguise. Once the fog is removed and you can loook back and see hte person for who they are faults and all you will realize you dodged a bullet. You'll realize what no to put up with, when to walk away, how to recover,you become stronger in so many ways not just dealing in relationships but as a man.everyone has insecurities, staring at yourself in the mirror will make you look at every little thing your nose, structure of your face etc., this is the wy you were made regardless of how you think you look others dont see you,the way you see yourself. Everyone has feelings of doubt its how you eradicate them or push them to the back of your mind what helps. I used to think I was ugly or no one would want me growing up, had no success with women then like a flood it overran. One woman can find yu hideous the next can find you the hottest man to ever walk the world. I'm 5'11 155 A xxl shirt looks
on me, but a xxl shirt will fit someone else, get in where you fit in, just like with women one may think your , one might be the medium 
that fits.life is what you make it, everyone has a different level of sex drive, or morals, or rules and standards. Some dudes cant function without a woman in thier life at all. Break up with suzy on monday, by friday they are in a relationship with nancy because they just can't be alone. It's when people try and shame you especially in this generation if your not some sexual vagina hound dog. In ife there will always always be women, if thats one ting ive learned throughout the years there will always be women especially now whne relationships are so transient, so why stress it. Enjoy your situation rebuild, recover, when your ready there will be a chick.
The key is to work on yourself for you, not for anyone else. A woman or a relationship will not bring you happiness, and even if you trick your mind to thinking it will, when it ends you'll be at a darker place than beforehand.
Stop comparing your life to others, who cares if your boys are sleeping with every chick on the block while you jerking off at night, everyone again has their own life and their own standards, find yours. Comparison will never lead to fulfillment.
The mindset that develops if you want a woman so bad you'll settle for the first one regardless of her standards. It's like when your unemployed for awhile even if you have a masters degree you'll lower your pride if time goes on and accept that min wage dishwasher job because its a job, thast the danger zone in terms of dealing with women when you reac that point where you will accept anything even though your a man of value you'll accept some ratchet with two kids with a high body count because at least shes something.
What are your hobbies, your passions engage in those, volunteer, travel. The best women I ever met in my life is when I was satisfied with the life I was living and just came across them, what I mean I was out there doing what I love, living life and out paths just crossed.
Stop comparing your life to others, who cares if your boys are sleeping with every chick on the block while you jerking off at night, everyone again has their own life and their own standards, find yours. Comparison will never lead to fulfillment.
The mindset that develops if you want a woman so bad you'll settle for the first one regardless of her standards. It's like when your unemployed for awhile even if you have a masters degree you'll lower your pride if time goes on and accept that min wage dishwasher job because its a job, thast the danger zone in terms of dealing with women when you reac that point where you will accept anything even though your a man of value you'll accept some ratchet with two kids with a high body count because at least shes something.
What are your hobbies, your passions engage in those, volunteer, travel. The best women I ever met in my life is when I was satisfied with the life I was living and just came across them, what I mean I was out there doing what I love, living life and out paths just crossed.
damn fam , this is literally me like word for word
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TheArchitect
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This is another of my issues. The only long "relationshyt" I was in was about a year, and I didn't even really like her like that. I suppose I just wanted to be with somebody for once. shyt was terrible. Sex was HORRIBLE, she was annoying, dumb, disrespectful, and just not worthwhile in any form. I've pretty much never been with anyone I was ever attracted to. IDK, I guess I'm just sick of disappointment after disappointment while everyone else gets to eat.....
Bless't
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thats the beauty of breakups man, at the moment your
everyone has insecurities, staring at yourself in the mirror will make you look at every little thing your nose, structure of your face etc., this is the wy you were made regardless of how you think you look others dont see you,the way you see yourself. Everyone has feelings of doubt its how you eradicate them or push them to the back of your mind what helps. I used to think I was ugly or no one would want me growing up, had no success with women then like a flood it overran. One woman can find yu hideous the next can find you the hottest man to ever walk the world. I'm 5'11 155 A xxl shirt looks
life is what you make it, everyone has a different level of sex drive, or morals, or rules and standards. Some dudes cant function without a woman in thier life at all. Break up with suzy on monday, by friday they are in a relationship with nancy because they just can't be alone. It's when people try and shame you especially in this generation if your not some sexual vagina hound dog. In ife there will always always be women, if thats one ting ive learned throughout the years there will always be women especially now whne relationships are so transient, so why stress it. Enjoy your situation rebuild, recover, when your ready there will be a chick.
But it can also help you develop as a person as well. Take what you did wrong in said relationship and work on those things to better yourself as friend/lover/companion.
Not everyone gets to eat many people are starving and have never even received a kiss.
My last relationship I was with a dime, but she drained me and almost ruined me life in every capacity. What I mean is this, you can be unhappy and lonely in a relationship just as if your single .
Disappointment only has a spark when there is expectations.
Your expectations are I need a girl I'm attracted to, to want me and be with me if not I'm sad. And once that's not met in a timeframe you feel sad
Have to turn that around and say regardless this is my life and I'm going to enjoy it whether alone or with someone.
Look I've been there on the 1 yard line first down and couldn't punch it in,fumbling throwing ints being stopped on fourth and short. Settling for field goals. Sometimes you just have to settle it all down and be focus and see what's around you and punch it in
My last relationship I was with a dime, but she drained me and almost ruined me life in every capacity. What I mean is this, you can be unhappy and lonely in a relationship just as if your single .
Disappointment only has a spark when there is expectations.
Your expectations are I need a girl I'm attracted to, to want me and be with me if not I'm sad. And once that's not met in a timeframe you feel sad
Have to turn that around and say regardless this is my life and I'm going to enjoy it whether alone or with someone.
Look I've been there on the 1 yard line first down and couldn't punch it in,fumbling throwing ints being stopped on fourth and short. Settling for field goals. Sometimes you just have to settle it all down and be focus and see what's around you and punch it in
Even the worst relationships are the equivalent of some call center outbound job you had before. Or working at McDonalds or retail, you learn customer service experience and working with a bunch of people in a fast pace environment.
It's like rotting in jail you can sit and do nothing and do your time, or you can read books work out and come out a stronger wiser man.
In every situation you can learn, and either be positive or negative its up to you.
It's like rotting in jail you can sit and do nothing and do your time, or you can read books work out and come out a stronger wiser man.
In every situation you can learn, and either be positive or negative its up to you.
fkthisgaysite
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I fully agree with this. That relationship showed me how soft I was in general. Not only will I not chase or require someone else for happiness, I will never let another person have that much control (or any at all) over me again. I mean, I wasn't simping too hard as in buying her shyt and taking orders from her but I let her get away with some shyt because of my feelings. Gonna adopt that 1 chance rule of yours, it's a good one.thats the beauty of breakups man, at the moment your
I learned to accept my insecurities (or flaws) instead of fighting them. Staring at myself helped a lot with that because I eventually began to like what I was looking at (everyone has insecurities, staring at yourself in the mirror will make you look at every little thing your nose, structure of your face etc., this is the wy you were made regardless of how you think you look others dont see you,the way you see yourself. Everyone has feelings of doubt its how you eradicate them or push them to the back of your mind what helps. I used to think I was ugly or no one would want me growing up, had no success with women then like a flood it overran. One woman can find yu hideous the next can find you the hottest man to ever walk the world. I'm 5'11 155 A xxl shirt looks
). I never thought I was ugly, just nothing special. But like I said, I started to notice how much attention I get from females and the way I'm treated by the majority of them which led to my confidence. I suppose that's more of a blessing, though. Women really don't care too much about your looks if your personality is magnetic. shyt, I'm 5'7'' 122-24lbs and I do just fine. Lil nikka no body guard.I've noticed the dudes who are most adamant about "not needing a bytch and jus wanna fuqqqq" are the same ones who are constantly talking about chicks, talking to them, etc. The idea of a girlfriend is slowly starting to sound like more of a nuisance than anything else...
It's another person you're obligated to talk to and all that shyt. At least that's the way I'm personally starting to look at it. Why do that when you can stay single and go anywhere/do anything you want without having to consult someone or "make sure it's ok". Nah b...
Yep looking back I was a simp, the signs were there I knew she wasnt good for me but I was a simp. Now im totally stronger, not afraid to walk away from anyone regardless of how they look or what they offer if necessary. I keep saying if a woman wants to be wit you, you will know and she will make herself known. YOu never have to fight to be in somoenes life and you never have to "impress" or sell yourself for a woman whose into you
I learned to accept my insecurities (or flaws) instead of fighting them. Staring at myself helped a lot with that because I eventually began to like what I was looking at (
we all have flaws, im 5'11 154lbs on a good day, skinny, bald, few grey specks, but ive never had a problem attracting beautiful women. The thing with women is that everone is different which is the good thing. its like i always say you can think a woman is a 10m she can think she is a 5 and think you are a 10, you can think a woman is a 1 she thinks shes a 10 and thinks your a 1.Women do care about looks its just that many men underestimate their looks, a woman basis if shes attractive by how many guys hoot their horn at her etc., a man basis his on the type of woman he can attract.
I remember being in relationships and wanted to be single and vice versa, now i take the mindset just enjoy what I have for however it last, if im single till i die enjoy my life, i fi get in a relationship enjoy it till it ends, no need to stress
all i know ill never be in a relationship again where im stressed out, checking a facebook and instagram, wondering who this and that is NAH if it aint smooth and effortless im not interested
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just from alot of personal experience in the past few years, if you got a strong enough personality and you don't take any shyt (crushing their bs mind games, calling em out on their bullshyt, pushing them to better themselves) alot of these women tighten up real quick and turn out to be good people 
alot of their problems and flaws come from the fukkboys who came before you who didn't have backbone most of the time
that or their parents filled their heads with some bullshyt fantasy, pull em back to reality and you won't have half the problems most dudes have
obviously it's common sense but some of you nikkas might wanna try being blunt and upfront with the women the same way you would ya homeboys, shyt been working for me to the point where even if we break up i still have girls tellin me how much an impact i had on their lives and all i do is just treat them like equal human beings
edit: get off the He-man woman hater shyt too
yall nikkas aint perfect either, makes yall look like immature lil boys when yall do that
alot of their problems and flaws come from the fukkboys who came before you who didn't have backbone most of the time
that or their parents filled their heads with some bullshyt fantasy, pull em back to reality and you won't have half the problems most dudes haveobviously it's common sense but some of you nikkas might wanna try being blunt and upfront with the women the same way you would ya homeboys, shyt been working for me to the point where even if we break up i still have girls tellin me how much an impact i had on their lives and all i do is just treat them like equal human beings
edit: get off the He-man woman hater shyt too
yall nikkas aint perfect either, makes yall look like immature lil boys when yall do that
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Well a few pages back i made a few post about my ex that popped back into my life and whether i should take her offer to hang out over the weekend. Well i chose not to and when she asked why i told her that maybe it's best that we not even try to rebuild what we had and keep it moving. I was expecting her to accept that but nope she starts asking me questions, leads to an argument and afterwards talking about she's sorry for leaving like she did and all of that. Told her it's okay i forgive you but that's it.
As you may have already guessed
she's blowing my phone up now. Calling me the a$$hole and saying i'm unfair, i'm playing mind games, "why can't we" and other stuff 
I'm guessing i should just stop answering and let it cool down and she'll give up?
As you may have already guessed
she's blowing my phone up now. Calling me the a$$hole and saying i'm unfair, i'm playing mind games, "why can't we" and other stuff I'm guessing i should just stop answering and let it cool down and she'll give up?
Well a few pages back i made a few post about my ex that popped back into my life and whether i should take her offer to hang out over the weekend. Well i chose not to and when she asked why i told her that maybe it's best that we not even try to rebuild what we had and keep it moving. I was expecting her to accept that but nope she starts asking me questions, leads to an argument and afterwards talking about she's sorry for leaving like she did and all of that. Told her it's okay i forgive you but that's it.
As you may have already guessed
women cant handle rejection for the most part. LIke I said I don't associate with exes or allow them to even contact me in any capacity. I did say go why not but im happy you didn't, know your value!! amazing how she tosses you to teh trash and discard you and you werent a priority and good enough back in the day now .
now the rejection ah it just turns on her emotions the opposite of hate and angry is love, you could prob say sure this friday and beat if you wanted to but why go back when you can go forward. She had her chance
More than likely she wont give up till you say something ive been there, posted texts here somewhere in this thread a chick i was messing with lied to me and i cut her off for like 8 months on and off she would message me over and over and over and over again even when I wouldn't reply,
