Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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met a girl last week that was down to smash/kick it after ramadan which ended today. Last spoke to her last thursday and i hit her up bout 3 hours ago asking her what her schedule was this week. She said she wasn't sure then asked why? told her i wanted to scoop her up and kick it. No reply. :manny:.

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@Asantehene that ghanian chick got cut too. I guess she couldn't wait till after ramadan or perhaps its because i said ass and titties in a text convo and she got offended. She told me lets keep it pg :comeon:told her we're both adults here, especially her seein as how she's over 30. :mjlol:

These girls love to friendzone you with the te other dudes they are talking to, have you as atext buddy. YOu hit them up they reply instantly. You act them to meet up something comes up. I remember talking to this chick awhile ago who worked in brampton like 5 minutes away from me. I asked hey we should do lunch :shaq:, shes like sure. Did we nope she just tried to make me a text buddy friend or tried and make me work for an outing :dahell:, like I said before I don't have that within me to do that ish. I just stopped initiating the texts and she never contacted me again :manny:


lol at keep it pg, guarantee some trey songz cat be getting azz and titty shots.


my god, how everything in this thread is fukkin golden. :wow:The symptoms of a flaky chick. :wow:

Something deep down inside me is saying stop going after women and refocus that energy on yourself. Time and time again, when i feel something might happen, it tends not to. I have 1 homegirl who lives all the way out in the Bay and i'm in Canada....and that girl is just :wow: Her insight, personality, charm. Never forgets a nikka even if i forget her. We be havin phone convo's till 4am talkin about life and shyt (and the odd sexual convo :takedat:). This is the prototype woman every nikka wants...but most in here don't have. :mjcry:

flaky chicks always mostly follow the same patterns, comes down to basically if your not a chicks number 1 FLAKES. Things rarely happen the way you want to. Sadly it seems when I have no epectation or expect the worse it always seems to go better. Instead of getting a chicks number, and getting ahead of myself usually ends in :snoop: . Man no one wants to hear me but I keep repeating how horrible and trash the toronto market is. And isn't it amazing just look with that chick a womn that is into you doesnt matter where she lives the distance the time zone differences, she will still remember you, whiel a woman can live up the street and puts no effort into you.

But basically, what i'm trying to say is, everytime i deal with a woman, i almost feel like i'm putting myself in a position where i have to be chosen, rather than choose. Funny thing 9/10 times, these ain't even women of quality yet i allow myself to get "silenced" all cuz i want to get my nut off. :snoop: I've never ever simped, acted desperate or done none of that corny/extra shyt. I'm a simple and straight forward nikka. I holla, say a few words (might even call) and set something up. But even doing that, loses me the women i thought i had.

maybe its my mindset still. I honestly think i need to once and for all kill that emotion i have with women. Sad that it got to this point, but it is what it is.

that the mindset you develop in toronto or this generation because of knowing how many simps are out there, how many guys women are talking to, you feel like you cant be yourself and have to always be super saiyan 3 or some ish. Watching what you say what you do, have to pounce right away can't be laid back cant come on to strong. Treating these average brehettes like there frigging queens when there bringing nothing to the table.

It's not that I don't have emotion I just don't care. The majority of these women aren't precious ala how you have to dig hard for gold and diamond because they are not at the surface, the majority of these women are low hanging fruit.
 

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Lol what's funny is i showed my niece that japanese girl a while ago online and they used to always talk and ask for each other. Now I'm not talking with her anymore but my niece(2yrs) still asks for her. :laugh:
:manny: I just tell her "I dunno."
 

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Lol what's funny is i showed my niece that japanese girl a while ago online and they used to always talk and ask for each other. Now I'm not talking with her anymore but my niece(2yrs) still asks for her. :laugh:
:manny: I just tell her "I dunno."

lol you love asians eh
 

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Got a tinder date on Sunday, baby steps I guess.

it's crazy how as soon as I set it up, a rush of negative thoughts flooded in almost instantly.

I guess I've done it so much that it's second nature.

sad how it is nowadays knowing she prob talking to 10-15 other dudes and prob got a date tonight, tom night/

And she will jsut show up and you gotta be the dude to take the "wheel" and be a man and pay and watch what you say and make her life and try to have "chemistry" an dall that
 

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thing is I'm not even better :heh:. Think of a situation with woman and I've been there, i've seen it all and dealt with it all. Tht's why I know how it is, we all think what we have is special and were the outlier. But more than likely most women follow the same script. Ive wasted so many days, months, weeks and years stuck in the ame place before and im happy those days are over.
But I met her Mom thousand of miles away and me and her Mom's still cool mayne :mjcry:
 

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When I was talking with her she seen them in a picture and always asked about them(My nieces). Now this little girl keeps asking me about her
I mainly am interested in Japanese chicks since I'm learning the language Might as well PAAG on the way :shaq:.

should mve to japan you'd be eating.

The joys of being single with no kids is your not tied to any location.

All you need is a job that can cover rent and food
 

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But I met her Mom thousand of miles away and me and her Mom's still cool mayne :mjcry:

means nothing, my exes mom thought of me as a son, and she would always email me or text me, when i was finally done with my ex I had to cease that communication :manny:

Moms sit through all the losers their daughters date and when they finally find a good one, means nothing though. Older women can spot decent individuals
 

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should mve to japan you'd be eating.

The joys of being single with no kids is your not tied to any location.

All you need is a job that can cover rent and food
That's why I'm learning Japanese. I know English speakers with fluency in Japanese are in demand over there so I'd like to land a gig there and do things on the side possibly.

means nothing, my exes mom thought of me as a son, and she would always email me or text me, when i was finally done with my ex I had to cease that communication :manny:

Moms sit through all the losers their daughters date and when they finally find a good one, means nothing though. Older women can spot decent individuals
Yeah.. She never knew I was dating her Daughter so I just kept things simple. I'll just send a what's up and greeting here and there. She doesn't mention her daughter when she talked to me.
 

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That's why I'm learning Japanese. I know English speakers with fluency in Japanese are in demand over there so I'd like to land a gig there and do things on the side possibly.

Yeah.. She never knew I was dating her Daughter so I just kept things simple. I'll just send a what's up and greeting here and there. She doesn't mention her daughter when she talked to me.

beauty of life man when your single and childess, i want to move to the westcoast. All I need is a job that pays like 2000 a month after taxes
 

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These broads are something else. One thing I refuse to be is a 2nd string ass nikka. I hit this shorty up about possibly linking up. She talked about wanting to link up but I never had time to get her number so she came to my job and I went for the kill. I gave her my number and she texted me mins later to save it.

So I hit her up and talking about possibly hitting a movie, bowling or something and she gonna hit me up all of a sudden talking about "I'm currently dating someone so I have to be particular on what we do" I'm like why hit me up on some "Yeah we should link up" sh*t and you dating someone on the side?

I'm gonna still roll the dice and try her out for this week to see if she wanna go with me to see Southpaw. If she aint with it, :camby:
 

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Never be alex smith in San Fran when you can start elsewhere.

To many dudes accept that backup role


These broads are something else. One thing I refuse to be is a 2nd string ass nikka. I hit this shorty up about possibly linking up. She talked about wanting to link up but I never had time to get her number so she came to my job and I went for the kill. I gave her my number and she texted me mins later to save it.

So I hit her up and talking about possibly hitting a movie, bowling or something and she gonna hit me up all of a sudden talking about "I'm currently dating someone so I have to be particular on what we do" I'm like why hit me up on some "Yeah we should link up" sh*t and you dating someone on the side?

I'm gonna still roll the dice and try her out for this week to see if she wanna go with me to see Southpaw. If she aint with it, :camby:
 
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