I know it's hard but you must have discipline and cut contact if you want a fighting chance at her. I know it sounds counter productive but it works. They always come back.
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if they want to
if not then it wasnt meant to be
I went to a wedding last week thursday and my friend married this guy who she knew 7 years ago but they drifted apart but she always remembered him. REconnected on fb as he lived in another province dude moved 3000miles they got married.
was literally like 7 years with a few contact here and there, the gist of what im saying is if soemone wants you and your in their heart, time distance etc :manny; if its gonna be its gonna be, even if you drift away.
She won't forget about you
Smh looks like I'm really gonna have to go cold turkey with her.Totally agree but I've found they do return even if it's for just a short period of time and I've seen your story happen before as well. But true if it's really meant to be then nothing will stand in the way.
I'll be honest for myself, I'm not into the "drifting away" and letting fate bring them back. Once a person is gone they're gone to me. This might sound harsh but it's why I don't have male friends because I don't keep my ex around once we're over the number is deleted and blocked. So I don't know who's tried coming back. That works better for me keeps me sane and ends the cycle of rehashing the same problems.
I gave the no contact because I have seen that work many times on female family and friends.
I literally just texted her goodnight and I love her. If I vanished now it would totally throw her off. Because to this point I've been a puppy dog crying and begging
It would throw her off and that's the point if you want her back. Cease contact and go for a jog or something, try to release the built up tension. Have fun and enjoy your life and let the chips fall into place.
Lol what ever happen to fighting for what you love ? Lmao
Nah I feel you. I'm really considering just vanishing on her. Just gotta smoke this blunt and think about it.
The more you fight the more she runs.
Why is that tho?
She most likely feels she has the upper hand now with you chasing her and what not. That's a turn off because we want to feel protected and connected to our man. We want to know and feel he's a provider/protector, it's partly biology. You're not acting like a protector and have also given up your power in this situation. She most likely feels she holds the power right now and that's not good. You won't be respected and cutting contact helps you to gain a more real perspective of the relationship and person. I know you've blamed yourself for messing things up but maybe you should ask yourself why you did what you did. Look within like do some soul searching and I'll bet you'll find the answers you need.
It's because I'm very insecure. And other women were into me without knowing my flaws and issues.
R&b songs and movies will feed you that jargon.
The only chick who never tried to come back info my life at one point is the first chick who dumped me and I begged and pleaded did the cards,poems etc.
You look weak and they lose respect
The only chick who never tried to come back info my life at one point is the first chick who dumped me and I begged and pleaded did the cards,poems etc.
You look weak and they lose respect
That's another question. Dig deeper ask yourself why you're insecure and, how do you know they didn't see your flaws and all. Usually how we view ourselves isn't how others see us. Dig deeper some more.
it was just a joke, try to have a lil fun
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Its crazy how women&people in General treat you when money and fame come into the picture