Thank you so much Kevm3, your advice is awesome and on point. I'll admit women have a hard time admitting when they are wrong, I've seen it too many times. I'm willing to look at the issues from all angles and soul searching. Thank you once again.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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This is so true. Women want to purposely put in as little work as possible while hoping for that diamond today. The guy I was dating told me that I'm a good woman and was talked about us marrying in the future, but hed met a lot of selfish women. There was no reciprocity.
My one coworker told me men are good for two things; sex and money. This woman is still single but complains about there not being any good men. I told her to be positive and tone down the attitude and selfishness. She refuses to listen. This generation and so forth seems doomed.
It's sad that a lot of men and women can't see the forest from the trees. You have a lot of women who were never taught that they have to put some actual work into a relationship and the dude isn't just there to siphon money off of and to entertain her, and then you have dudes who have a great woman but decide to play with her and sleep around. Relationships have turned into competition instead of cooperation. Both sides are watching to see who is getting the best end of the deal, as if a relationship consists of two different businesses doing a transaction with each other. I seriously hope things turn around, because a society with no lasting families is something I find very hard to fathom.
i may have had an epiphany on thursday evening leaving class. Brehs, look at your surroundings. These girls ain't nothing special and trust me when i say that. For those of you that don't know, Toronto is a very multicultural, massive and metropolitan city. So you can pretty much imagine the amount of attractive women roaming these streets. However, being downtown that night....i saw something that stood out to me and made me stop and think. In almost every direction there was a woman wearing almost identical clothing or had the same dress style as the next. So there i was...standing on the sidewalk of one of the most busiest intersections in the city...thinking to myself..."are these the women that me and thousands of other men sweat and get worked up over?" The same women that literally copy one another. Same pictures and poses, same outfits, same hairstyles, same attitude and personality....these are the people that have made this thread reach 2182 pages?
that night made me see the bigger picture. Since then, I've seen chicks with they asses sticking out, titties poppin out, make up all over and yet i feel nothing for them. Complete indifference. Prior to thursday evening, i would've been like DAMN to every fine thing but tonight i'm like. That shyt don't impress me no more and i'm happy it doesn't.
I urge every breh next time they step out to observe their surroundings and i can guarantee you all will agree with me.
reclaim your power back and move onto bigger and better things brehs.
p.s. if a girl wants to be in your life, allow her to but ALWAYS navigate the relationship.
the only difference is the emotional connection, if there are two identical twins and your dating one, you have no bond with the other one. its the emotional connection that has us caught up.
Just think if you went on a date and you never heard back form that woman yeah it stings but shortly thereafter its meh who cares, now if your with a woman for years and years and you break up it stings and lasts more because of the emotional connection built.
Any woman that walks out of your life or doesnt want to be with you is not special in my opinion
Many women were brought up being told they were princesses, or brought up being told to be independent feminist bla bla, and if they look beautiful or even average with the amount of simps out there they can get away with anything as spineless men will accept anything. The more i've dated in life and just loking back at my life and all the things ive sacrificed I sometimes life and cringe I literally brought everything to the table and women just showed up with a pretty face or fat ass. I accepted so litte
I was friends with my exe's family on facebook I talk to them pretty regularly and we are or were really cool and yesterday I noticed I wasn't friends with one of them anymore, then I noticed another and another.
I was like ok.... thats random. Turns out one of my exes is getting married. Idc about her getting married, but I thought me and her fam were cooler than that.
Kinda been bugging me. At the sametime
I was like ok.... thats random. Turns out one of my exes is getting married. Idc about her getting married, but I thought me and her fam were cooler than that.
Kinda been bugging me. At the sametime
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I was friends with my exe's family on facebook I talk to them pretty regularly and we are or were really cool and yesterday I noticed I wasn't friends with one of them anymore, then I noticed another and another.
I was like ok.... thats random. Turns out one of my exes is getting married. Idc about her getting married, but I thought me and her fam were cooler than that.
Kinda been bugging me. At the sametime
I wouldn't take it personally. Yeah it's unfortunate but you would want your family to respect your wishes (even if you wouldn't have your family do something similar..not saying your ex did but you know what I mean breh)
Nah I understand it, it's just we have been cool for years. It's like damn really?
I was friends with my exe's family on facebook I talk to them pretty regularly and we are or were really cool and yesterday I noticed I wasn't friends with one of them anymore, then I noticed another and another.
I was like ok.... thats random. Turns out one of my exes is getting married. Idc about her getting married, but I thought me and her fam were cooler than that.
Kinda been bugging me. At the sametime
when its over its better to just cut all connections esp if there arent any kids. Families will always stick to their own, my ex fiance mom used to send me bday and christmas cards then it stopped
, my last ex her mom and I used to e-mail all the time, used to be close considered me like the son she never had, havent heard from her in years. My mom still tries to keep in touch with that ex who she considered a daughter but now that shes pregnant and prob getting married my mom finally realized everything ive been saying for years and gave up.I don't know where in America I could find a decent black chick brehs
I've been out the game for a while, but just thinking over some things it ain't going to be easy. I'm not trying to date or get married at this moment as I'm still building my self (my shyt gon be A1 assuming things work out
), I still would like to fukk with black women who respect themselves. Bunch of hoes running around my age fukking on any nikka with a Odell type haircut and shyt
edit: no I'm not saying its impossible, but ratio is fukked and I'm not the type of nikka to furiously search for a needle in a haystack.
I've been out the game for a while, but just thinking over some things it ain't going to be easy. I'm not trying to date or get married at this moment as I'm still building my self (my shyt gon be A1 assuming things work out
), I still would like to fukk with black women who respect themselves. Bunch of hoes running around my age fukking on any nikka with a Odell type haircut and shytedit: no I'm not saying its impossible, but ratio is fukked and I'm not the type of nikka to furiously search for a needle in a haystack.
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I don't know where in America I could find a decent black chick brehs
I've been out the game for a while, but just thinking over some things it ain't going to be easy. I'm not trying to date or get married at this moment as I'm still building my self (my shyt gon be A1 assuming things work out
edit: no I'm not saying its impossible, but ratio is fukked and I'm not the type of nikka to furiously search for a needle in a haystack.
Best thing to do is not limit yourself to the states. If you find one in the states, great... if you can't, you may have more luck exploring different cultures.
Who says u dont?
I don't know where in America I could find a decent black chick brehs
I've been out the game for a while, but just thinking over some things it ain't going to be easy. I'm not trying to date or get married at this moment as I'm still building my self (my shyt gon be A1 assuming things work out
edit: no I'm not saying its impossible, but ratio is fukked and I'm not the type of nikka to furiously search for a needle in a haystack.
its like kevm3 said sometimes you hve to look elsewhere. The great thing is as a single man, no kids and with education nothing is stopping you from packing up and going elsewhere. All you need is a decent paying job and thats it. And nothing is stopping you from travelling. Especially now with all these dating sites dating apps you can put yourself anywhere in the world and just see the response you will get.
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It's the inner strength..
People are shyt. I wouldnt be surprised if my best friend stops speaking to me tomorrow...it just wouldnt phase me...ive learned that people can and will do things thats best in their interest
Shoulder shrug and carry on friend
its sad to say but its true, the people I thought would be in my life and that I could trust are the ones who are no where to be seen and betrayed that trust, the people I never thought I could count on some are still around.
people at their core are selfish