Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

My thing is that if you have that suspicion to snoop then there is probably toxic behavior in the relationship already that demands it be ended, no?

You snoop, find nothing, you telling me that relationship will go back to being normal? I don't buy it.

If men snoop out of possessiveness and paranoia and women do it for "get back" then those are feelings harbored in a relationship headed for self-destruction anyways.

My ex was a so called good girl, we were actually doing great, than I look through her phone and see her talking spicy with another nicca and her telling him to please bring condoms because she didn't want him to nut in her, all the while telling him that this is only going to be a one time thing because she truly loves her boyfriend (me). I stopped that bytch in the middle of the shower and kicked her out the crib.

These heauxs can't be trusted, it doesn't take a rocky relationship for you to consider checking up, even when shyt is going good you still need to check.

 

[Poitier]

My ex was a so called good girl, we were actually doing great, than I look through her phone and see her talking spicy with another nicca and her telling him to please bring condoms because she didn't want him to nut in her, all the while telling him that this is only going to be a one time thing because she truly loves her boyfriend (me). I stopped that bytch in the middle of the shower and kicked her out the crib.

These heauxs can't be trusted, it doesn't take a rocky relationship for you to consider checking up, even when shyt is going good you still need to check.

We just got different philosophies about this and that's cool. I don't need that paranoia and stress in my life.

 

[360dagod]

We just got different philosophies about this and that's cool. I don't need that paranoia and stress in my life.

The more relationships these women get into, the less fukks they give and the more "maintenance"they require as they get older...
Your like the 5th boyfriend competing against the other 4 and dealing with potential hangups they caused...

It's like getting a pitbull that's been in the animal shelter...you don't what the fukk it's been thru and how traumatized it is...

If you deal with these 25 and up women, you pretty much gotta hedge your bets and keep something on the side

 

[Astroslik]

Lol:. Dudes in here advocating looking through a women's shyt.


You can look through a women's shyt and find nothing, yet she could still be getting her back blown out by some other nikka..

Women are masters at deception and trickery, and with this new age of technology the deception is so much easier..

If she wants to cheat, she will cheat and can cheat. And there's nothing you can do about it, and you most likely won't know

 

[360dagod]

Lol:. Dudes in here advocating looking through a women's shyt.


You can look through a women's shyt and find nothing, yet she could still be getting her back blown out by some other nikka..

Women are masters at deception and trickery, and with this new age of technology the deception is so much easier..

If she wants to cheat, she will cheat and can cheat. And there's nothing you can do about it, and you most likely won't know

I had this app where if a chick who number I had hidden texted me, it would show up as a stock exchange ad

 

[MikelArteta]

@TRUEST dont mean to dive into your private life

but how old are you breh?
what was your longest relationship?
you ever been in love and thought about marriage?

 

[MikelArteta]

Lol:. Dudes in here advocating looking through a women's shyt.


You can look through a women's shyt and find nothing, yet she could still be getting her back blown out by some other nikka..

Women are masters at deception and trickery, and with this new age of technology the deception is so much easier..

If she wants to cheat, she will cheat and can cheat. And there's nothing you can do about it, and you most likely won't know

NO DUH, would you rather be cheated on and not know and continue being treated like a fool or would you rather know?

Because no woman in a good relationship will tell you she's cheating she wants the thrill and she wants you.

 

[MikelArteta]

The more relationships these women get into, the less fukks they give and the more "maintenance"they require as they get older...
Your like the 5th boyfriend competing against the other 4 and dealing with potential hangups they caused...

It's like getting a pitbull that's been in the animal shelter...you don't what the fukk it's been thru and how traumatized it is...

If you deal with these 25 and up women, you pretty much gotta hedge your bets and keep something on the side

good analogy its also why no one wants to adopt older kids and teenagers because of no offense the baggage and emotional trauma and why little babies get snapped up left and right.

 

[TRUEST]

My ex was a so called good girl, we were actually doing great, than I look through her phone and see her talking spicy with another nicca and her telling him to please bring condoms because she didn't want him to nut in her, all the while telling him that this is only going to be a one time thing because she truly loves her boyfriend (me). I stopped that bytch in the middle of the shower and kicked her out the crib.

These heauxs can't be trusted, it doesn't take a rocky relationship for you to consider checking up, even when shyt is going good you still need to check.

did she say anything when u confronted her? oh did she just timidly run out of there

 

[TRUEST]

@TRUEST dont mean to dive into your private life

but how old are you breh?
what was your longest relationship?
you ever been in love and thought about marriage?

about the same age. early thirties.
1.5 years longest relationship
have i been in love? not really. have i been infatuated with a chick? yup. i can think of 3 off the top of my head. and the love most guys think they feel for their girlfriends isnt really love. its an infatuation.
the concept of marriage scares me personally. unless ur girlfriend worships the ground u walk on, that marriage is doomed to fail. and her friends matter. if shes friends with unscrupulous folks, thats a recipe for disaster.

the ex i told yall about a couple of years ago was the perfect woman, behavior wise. i have anger problems and there were so many times i could see the fear in her eyes when she sees im in a bad mood. i never put a finger on her. but she made sure she served me in everyway possible. she didnt want to see me angry. nothing i asked of her got a "no". if i were to ever love a woman, it'd be someone like her. she was so submissive, it actually made me less angry in general. and whenever i blew up on her, id catch myself minutes later and apologized. to her. im a great dude with a great heart and with good intentions. so i guess she sees past it. if u guys marry anyone, she better be like her.

 

[Lord Bison]

about the same age. early thirties.
1.5 years longest relationship
have i been in love? not really. have i been infatuated with a chick? yup. i can think of 3 off the top of my head. and the love most guys think they feel for their girlfriends isnt really love. its an infatuation.
the concept of marriage scares me personally. unless ur girlfriend worships the ground u walk on, that marriage is doomed to fail. and her friends matter. if shes friends with unscrupulous folks, thats a recipe for disaster.

the ex i told yall about a couple of years ago was the perfect woman, behavior wise. i have anger problems and there were so many times i could see the fear in her eyes when she sees im in a bad mood. i never put a finger on her. but she made sure she served me in everyway possible. she didnt want to see me angry. nothing i asked of her got a "no". if i were to ever love a woman, it'd be someone like her. she was so submissive, it actually made me less angry in general. and whenever i blew up on her, id catch myself minutes later and apologized. to her. im a great dude with a great heart and with good intentions. so i guess she sees past it. if u guys marry anyone, she better be like her.

Sounds like she was a keeper. I don't advocate marriage really in 2017, but decent women are rare. If I do run across a decent chick, I won't mind cuffing up at all. @TRUEST What was the reason yall split? She sounds like a chick a nikka can build something with

 

[TRUEST]

Sounds like she was a keeper. I don't advocate marriage really in 2017, but decent women are rare. If I do run across a decent chick, I won't mind cuffing up at all. @TRUEST What was the reason yall split? She sounds like a chick a nikka can build something with

she was 14 years older than me. no kids. so that made it very easy to date. but i had to break it off cause she started thinking marriage and all that stuff and i knew i just wasnt ready for that.

like ive said in other posts, if im dating a girl and i know i have no serious intentions for her, i like to dead things fast. usually within days of fuccking or weeks, at the most. in my exes case it was over a year we dated. it was difficult extricating myself from someone i vibed with so much. someone i know for a fact would never entertain the idea of being with another guy (Yeah i know , but in her case, id bet money she aint thinking of no one but me lol).

 

[Lord Bison]

she was 14 years older than me. no kids. so that made it very easy to date. but i had to break it off cause she started thinking marriage and all that stuff and i knew i just wasnt ready for that.

like ive said in other posts, if im dating a girl and i know i have no serious intentions for her, i like to dead things fast. usually within days of fuccking or weeks, at the most. in my exes case it was over a year we dated. it was difficult extricating myself from someone i vibed with so much. someone i know for a fact would never entertain the idea of being with another guy (Yeah i know , but in her case, id bet money she aint thinking of no one but me lol).

Damn breh. I know that feeling. That's like an NBA veteran trying to seek out that last max contract before their stock plummets all the way down. I had an ex that was similar. Relationship was cool but then she started put pressure on me to let her move in my crib. Eventually she started acting out in frustration and I had to dump her.

Older women are cool to sport fvck but once they start with all that commitment talk, it's time to bail. Older women and commitment is the equivalent of the thirsty nikkas that be sliding in the DM's.

 

[Atlrocafella]

did she say anything when u confronted her? oh did she just timidly run out of there

She was so shocked, she tried to lie and say those text messages wasn't for her and that she was talking to him for her friend ,

I kept yelling "get your shyt and get the fukk out", she said those messages meant nothing, I made her call that nikka in front of me and say that, and she did. The nicca tried to be all cool and say "man we was just talking, it wasn't nothing". I told him "fukk that, you violated when you started talking real spicy with her knowing she got a nicca, but you can have her now though" and I hung up the phone and proceeded to help her get her shyt and get her the fukk out.

Her best friend called me the next day basically saying she's in distraught, and about to have a mental break down.

Idgaf though

 

[International Playa]

I love how mature this thread has become. Real dudes chopping up game & swapping experiences.

I remember there used to be a lot of lame posts like "how do I get my co-worker to like me" etc

Since most of us here are early thirties & our dating pool shrinks by the day. How do you feel about dating single mothers?