We just got different philosophies about this and that's cool. I don't need that paranoia and stress in my life.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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We just got different philosophies about this and that's cool. I don't need that paranoia and stress in my life.
The more relationships these women get into, the less fukks they give and the more "maintenance"they require as they get older...
Your like the 5th boyfriend competing against the other 4 and dealing with potential hangups they caused...
It's like getting a pitbull that's been in the animal shelter...you don't what the fukk it's been thru and how traumatized it is...
If you deal with these 25 and up women, you pretty much gotta hedge your bets and keep something on the side
Lol:. Dudes in here advocating looking through a women's shyt.
You can look through a women's shyt and find nothing, yet she could still be getting her back blown out by some other nikka..
Women are masters at deception and trickery, and with this new age of technology the deception is so much easier..
If she wants to cheat, she will cheat and can cheat. And there's nothing you can do about it, and you most likely won't know
You can look through a women's shyt and find nothing, yet she could still be getting her back blown out by some other nikka..
Women are masters at deception and trickery, and with this new age of technology the deception is so much easier..
If she wants to cheat, she will cheat and can cheat. And there's nothing you can do about it, and you most likely won't know
I had this app where if a chick who number I had hidden texted me, it would show up as a stock exchange ad
NO DUH, would you rather be cheated on and not know and continue being treated like a fool or would you rather know?
Because no woman in a good relationship will tell you she's cheating she wants the thrill and she wants you.
good analogy its also why no one wants to adopt older kids and teenagers because of no offense the baggage and emotional trauma and why little babies get snapped up left and right.
about the same age. early thirties.
1.5 years longest relationship
have i been in love? not really. have i been infatuated with a chick? yup. i can think of 3 off the top of my head. and the love most guys think they feel for their girlfriends isnt really love. its an infatuation.
the concept of marriage scares me personally. unless ur girlfriend worships the ground u walk on, that marriage is doomed to fail. and her friends matter. if shes friends with unscrupulous folks, thats a recipe for disaster.
the ex i told yall about a couple of years ago was the perfect woman, behavior wise. i have anger problems and there were so many times i could see the fear in her eyes when she sees im in a bad mood. i never put a finger on her. but she made sure she served me in everyway possible. she didnt want to see me angry. nothing i asked of her got a "no". if i were to ever love a woman, it'd be someone like her. she was so submissive, it actually made me less angry in general. and whenever i blew up on her, id catch myself minutes later and apologized. to her. im a great dude with a great heart and with good intentions. so i guess she sees past it. if u guys marry anyone, she better be like her.
Lord Bison
Superstar
Sounds like she was a keeper. I don't advocate marriage really in 2017, but decent women are rare. If I do run across a decent chick, I won't mind cuffing up at all. @TRUEST What was the reason yall split? She sounds like a chick a nikka can build something with
she was 14 years older than me. no kids. so that made it very easy to date. but i had to break it off cause she started thinking marriage and all that stuff and i knew i just wasnt ready for that.
like ive said in other posts, if im dating a girl and i know i have no serious intentions for her, i like to dead things fast. usually within days of fuccking or weeks, at the most. in my exes case it was over a year we dated. it was difficult extricating myself from someone i vibed with so much. someone i know for a fact would never entertain the idea of being with another guy (Yeah i know , but in her case, id bet money she aint thinking of no one but me lol).
Lord Bison
Superstar
Damn breh. I know that feeling. That's like an NBA veteran trying to seek out that last max contract before their stock plummets all the way down. I had an ex that was similar. Relationship was cool but then she started put pressure on me to let her move in my crib. Eventually she started acting out in frustration and I had to dump her.
Older women are cool to sport fvck but once they start with all that commitment talk, it's time to bail. Older women and commitment is the equivalent of the thirsty nikkas that be sliding in the DM's.
She was so shocked, she tried to lie and say those text messages wasn't for her and that she was talking to him for her friend
, I kept yelling "get your shyt and get the fukk out", she said those messages meant nothing, I made her call that nikka in front of me and say that, and she did. The nicca tried to be all cool and say "man we was just talking, it wasn't nothing". I told him "fukk that, you violated when you started talking real spicy with her knowing she got a nicca, but you can have her now though" and I hung up the phone and proceeded to help her get her shyt and get her the fukk out.
Her best friend called me the next day basically saying she's in distraught, and about to have a mental break down.
Idgaf though
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
I love how mature this thread has become. Real dudes chopping up game & swapping experiences.
I remember there used to be a lot of lame posts like "how do I get my co-worker to like me" etc
Since most of us here are early thirties & our dating pool shrinks by the day. How do you feel about dating single mothers?
I remember there used to be a lot of lame posts like "how do I get my co-worker to like me" etc
Since most of us here are early thirties & our dating pool shrinks by the day. How do you feel about dating single mothers?
U played it perfectlyShe was so shocked, she tried to lie and say those text messages wasn't for her and that she was talking to him for her friend
I kept yelling "get your shyt and get the fukk out", she said those messages meant nothing, I made her call that nikka in front of me and say that, and she did. The nicca tried to be all cool and say "man we was just talking, it wasn't nothing". I told him "fukk that, you violated when you started talking real spicy with her knowing she got a nicca, but you can have her now though" and I hung up the phone and proceeded to help her get her shyt and get her the fukk out.
Her best friend called me the next day basically saying she's in distraught, and about to have a mental break down.
Idgaf though