Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CityGuy]

Went on a couple dates this week with a 23 yr old (i'm 28). Thing were hot and heavy until she texts after the date that we're on a diff wave length.

Dont know, how are yall not just mentally unavailable 24/7


Same dance and act with all these broads, you can be a good dude with all your shyt together and fun but you can't be TOO available or treat them with any kinda esteem or else they get bored easy

Couple of my boys dogging these females out are

I'm sitting here just looking for a connection with one and to check out the game



hopeless

 

[Swagaveli]

glad you're eating good off the book

Not only off the book, but for a couple years now off this thread as a whole.

As someone here said, it's a very powerful thing, when men speak free of egos and shame, with the only intent to analyze and better themselves and eachother.

I was seeing this shorty for a couple months, and I kept seeing so many good traits, that I decided to go lock her down and actually make her my girl. I'm definitely gonna keep advice from this book in the back of my mind, and see what types of reactions and outcomes will come from approaching situations with shorty, when applying some of the book's methods.

More life... more wins, brethren!

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Went on a couple dates this week with a 23 yr old (i'm 28). Thing were hot and heavy until she texts after the date that we're on a diff wave length.

Dont know, how are yall not just mentally unavailable 24/7


Same dance and act with all these broads, you can be a good dude with all your shyt together and fun but you can't be TOO available or treat them with any kinda esteem or else they get bored easy

Couple of my boys dogging these females out are

I'm sitting here just looking for a connection with one and to check out the game



hopeless

She talking about a mental level

 

[Dreamzeedream]

she asked if I had "whiskey dikk"? I mean we did drink and smoke weed all night leading up to this. We ended up cuddled up in bed for a few hours. She dozed off I stared at the wall in shame lol after a while I couldn't take it anymore I hailed an uber, agree walked me to the door and went home to revel in my misery before work.

Its still yours breh. Just dont get to fukked up

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Went on a couple dates this week with a 23 yr old (i'm 28). Thing were hot and heavy until she texts after the date that we're on a diff wave length.

Dont know, how are yall not just mentally unavailable 24/7


Same dance and act with all these broads, you can be a good dude with all your shyt together and fun but you can't be TOO available or treat them with any kinda esteem or else they get bored easy

Couple of my boys dogging these females out are

I'm sitting here just looking for a connection with one and to check out the game



hopeless

Here's the truth: There is no checking out of the game. Ever. You're gonna have to drop that mentality. Well you could check out of the game and become one of those dudes who never dates or has any kind of meaningful interaction with women ever but you wouldn't be in here if that were the case.

Even if you meet a woman you "connect" with, how do you think you'll be able to keep that connection strong? That's a game in and of itself. You'll never be able to get away from it as a man. Sorry to say it but it is what it is. A lot of dudes meet a shorty they're feeling, then get lazy and think "she's really into me, I got a good one" then next thing they know, she's popping smoke on that ass.

Your boys are eating better than you because they probably already know there's no end in sight to this so I might as well play to win. Do the same.

 

[TRUEST]

Here's the truth: There is no checking out of the game. Ever. You're gonna have to drop that mentality. Well you could check out of the game and become one of those dudes who never dates or has any kind of meaningful interaction with women ever but you wouldn't be in here if that were the case.

Even if you meet a woman you "connect" with, how do you think you'll be able to keep that connection strong? That's a game in and of itself. You'll never be able to get away from it as a man. Sorry to say it but it is what it is. A lot of dudes meet a shorty they're feeling, then get lazy and think "she's really into me, I got a good one" then next thing they know, she's popping smoke on that ass.

Your boys are eating better than you because they probably already know there's no end in sight to this so I might as well play to win. Do the same.

it all boils down to some simple things. do you prefer to be the one being fuccked, or do u want to do the fuccking? there is no middle ground. those are ur options. the sooner u realize this, the better.

and the girl who is really urs will remain after all the others fall off.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

So she texted me "good morning, I hope you have a great day" like she usually does and she just sent me a text asking me how my day went and that she wants to go out with me tomorrow or Monday. I haven't responded to either text but I don't know if I can cut her off. I really do like her. We talk everyday and I was over by her house just 2 days ago.

Her lack of communication, consideration, and respect will only continue if you don't bush her. Of course she's going to continue and text like nothing ever happened. Don't fall for it. Either read her her rights on how she had you fukked up the other day, demote or bush her, or don't say shyt which shows her you have no backbone and poor boundaries. The choice is yours.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Y'all Be right about alot of things when it comes to these womeb

 

[PLK]

Bro, bless you for being real with yourself. I say that because what you described is a problem I've had to work on overcoming and that 90% of dudes deal with in some form or fashion.

We're problem solvers and women are all about the experience. So we get caught up in how far to the left the last stroke was, how many to administer before changing positions and completing the mission until she orgasms. That's counterproductive to the way women's sexuality works, because while we're in our head, they're in their body and in the moment.

They want to feel like you're devouring them like a juicy ass piece of fruit with juice dripping everywhere and like you just can't get enough, while we get caught up in making sure that we're slicing the fruit up neatly and in even pieces.

If you couple that with pressure to live up to expectations, it's going to be work and not fun. The thing we have to overcome is to get to the point that it's an open ended experience of enjoying feelings and sensations and not a performance you're putting on for her.

When women say they don't feel it, it's not always or only some dikk size stuff. If you go into autopilot, their pussies will literally get numb. There has to be a good mixture of teasing and not hitting the spot she likes, pounding it relentlessly, taking it away to build up anticipation, etc.

But it's all in the mind.

If you're interested

Spoiler

Find a PDF of "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose. Great book but he's charging like $100 or something stupid for it on Amazon. Most people just find a download. I can send you a copy if you need it.

Also check out "Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. You can buy it, find a PDF and/or find the teaching sessions/audiobook on YouTube.

There's a lot to discuss and take in with those books, so if you end up checking them out, definitely put some stuff out on the discussion table in this thread. Because while you feel fukked up about it now, TRUST ME, nearly every dude is going through their version of this in this day and age. We've all kind of been left to fend for ourselves when it comes to sexuality so either we learn or get stuck in destructive loops.

Breh, can you pass the mustard on the DR book?

 

[Mr210]

Y'all Be right about alot of things when it comes to these womeb

Yep, it took me awhile to see that, but once I opened up my eyes and smarten up, things have better...come out of the dark folks...the truth is being spit

 

[VFib]

So she texted me "good morning, I hope you have a great day" like she usually does and she just sent me a text asking me how my day went and that she wants to go out with me tomorrow or Monday. I haven't responded to either text but I don't know if I can cut her off. I really do like her. We talk everyday and I was over by her house just 2 days ago.

I'm not into game playing so all this put her on the back burner and talk to other women to piss her off crap is a waste of time to me.

Tell her what she did was unacceptable to you, as you two planned that time together and she cancelled just for a non emergency.


Communication > playing games.

 

[GreatestLaker]

I'm not into game playing so all this put her on the back burner and talk to other women to piss her off crap is a waste of time to me.

Tell her what she did was unacceptable to you, as you two planned that time together and she cancelled just for a non emergency.


Communication > playing games.

That's exactly what I'm going to do. If she was any other girl I would have already cut her off.

 

[RealAssanova]

That's exactly what I'm going to do. If she was any other girl I would have already cut her off.

i'd chill on that. I'd understand if ya'll were in a relationship this would be more appropriate and important....but if its just a slam piece, i'd fall back till she gets the message and leaves you alone or she notices something is off and steps up her game.

girls ain't stupid breh. They know exactly what they be doing.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

i'd chill on that. I'd understand if ya'll were in a relationship this would be more appropriate and important....but if its just a slam piece, i'd fall back till she gets the message and leaves you alone or she notices something is off and steps up her game.

girls ain't stupid breh. They know exactly what they be doing.

You're making too much sense. Seems like homie was just waiting for the first piece of advice he actually agreed with. Basically so he could keep talking to her.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

That's exactly what I'm going to do. If she was any other girl I would have already cut her off.

Y'all serious?
How long y'all been talking?