Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yall think its bad ive been talking to this chick for like 3 years and ive never made a move on her? Alright lemme not say i havent made a move cus ive told her i like her couple times and she said she does too but the thing is i dnt kno if she thinks that i mean it in a friendly way or not...and crazy thing is she is moving canada next month to go to school :mjcry: ive also asked her out as well but we never actually got to go out because i dnt have a car...yall think i shud give up on her or what?
 
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mlk45buretta said:
Yall think its bad ive been talking to this chick for like 3 years and ive never made a move on her? Alright lemme not say i havent made a move cus ive told her i like her couple times and she said she does too but the thing is i dnt kno if she thinks that i mean it in a friendly way or not...and crazy thing is she is moving canada next month to go to school :mjcry: ive also asked her out as well but we never actually got to go out because i dnt have a car...yall think i shud give up on her or what?
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3 years breh:gucci:, leave it alone. There clearly is no interest. She probably had multiple guys in those 3 years. If things between a guy & woman dont advance in less than two weeks, there is no hope
 
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GreatestLaker said:
So she texted me "good morning, I hope you have a great day" like she usually does and she just sent me a text asking me how my day went and that she wants to go out with me tomorrow or Monday. I haven't responded to either text but I don't know if I can cut her off. I really do like her. We talk everyday and I was over by her house just 2 days ago.
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She insecure and playing these games she testing to see how you feel about her. You getting mad or not texting back says it all.

She has a very passive aggressive behavior, scared to be direct with you
 
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mlk45buretta said:
Yall think its bad ive been talking to this chick for like 3 years and ive never made a move on her? Alright lemme not say i havent made a move cus ive told her i like her couple times and she said she does too but the thing is i dnt kno if she thinks that i mean it in a friendly way or not...and crazy thing is she is moving canada next month to go to school :mjcry: ive also asked her out as well but we never actually got to go out because i dnt have a car...yall think i shud give up on her or what?
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twan83 said:
My life is a story shyt can be made into a damn movie I get that all the time :mjlol:

I'll drop the yakuza story later cuz done it several times on site but more or less she dated one of the bosses from them I got involved when she was getting jump ended up with a bounty on my head cuz of it she got it off and we ended up dating for a bit found out she did some porn in between while dating
She always got in fights with guys and girls and beat they ass literally KO guys like Tyson
Sex was :whew: but how much was :wow: never in my life till this day have I met anyone like her wifey is 2nd but even then her drive compared to jap girl has a gap
She was dime status had phat ass well shaped to her body
Had a big dragon tattoo on her back got breast implants after I:camby: her
She wanted a kid I didn't at that time
She wanted marriage I didn't at that time
Some sucker wifed her up cuz every guy she messed with after I bushed her she was still trying to let me hit
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Man, make sure you never regret any of this. Life is like a video game and we get to create and experience whatever we want. You gotta have some stories.

Actually6Foot3 said:
Brehs I need help :mjcry:

I couldn't get it to stay up last night :mjcry:

Date with this new chic went well. Cabbed back to her place. Dixk was hard on the date, dixk was hard in the cab Fooled around exchanged pleasantries which I was standing tall for(head was A1) and she was as wet as the Nile River but when I went to reach for a condom....My dixk was like "nah boy wyd" :mjcry:

Quitting porn, team no fap fukk it

But how do I salvage this? shyt was embarrassing this never happeneed before I need to redeem myself but I'm trying angle a text to suggest so. I'll need about a week for my dixk to reset most likely but I can't go out like this brehs:mjcry: she needs to feel this full rod. What should I text her for another shot?
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Welcome to the path:

Fellow warrior on the path :salute:

Pushing your mind and body is so crucial because they're one and the same. The body leads the mind and vice versa. When you have good info and a strong body, you'll have the confidence and will to both remember and put the knowledge you learned into action with a clear mind.

Trusting the intelligence in your body (i.e. your feelings and gut instincts) is definitely the way to become the total package as a man. Aligning those energies to serve you makes you feel like you can do anything.

Off the top of my head, when I'm doing the following, I feel like the world is mine and I can do anything:

  • Reading and listening to quality self-development content
  • Eating clean -- lean meats, smoothies with kale/spinach, avocado, bananas and other good nutrients
  • Regular meditation
  • Jiu-jitsu, yoga and pushups (haven't gotten back to the weights yet, but I'm going to)
  • Cold showers multiple times per day
  • Journaling to organize my thoughts, dump the brain clutter and review the things that are important for me to remember
  • Cutting porn out completely
  • Deep breathing exercises
There's so much we're not taught about our minds, bodies, testosterone and sexuality. When your life becomes about being the highest version of yourself in all of these ways, you'll feel like a king no matter what path you're taking :blessed:

I invite you and everyone else to keep dropping literature that you're reading or that has helped you.

You're right about this thread being powerful. We need time apart from women to sharpen each other up as men with no ego involved.

You see, @Dmitri , you might have felt alone in what you're going through, but because you had a safe place to put your ego aside and share with your brothers, you can quickly see that it's not just you. Me, @Mister_DoItNice and probably a hundred other dudes in this thread have similar experiences.

We can only be so vulnerable around our women, so I don't take these kinds of conversations lightly, because we can become better men instead of suffering by ourselves.
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Swagaveli said:
Not only off the book, but for a couple years now off this thread as a whole.

As someone here said, it's a very powerful thing, when men speak free of egos and shame, with the only intent to analyze and better themselves and eachother.

I was seeing this shorty for a couple months, and I kept seeing so many good traits, that I decided to go lock her down and actually make her my girl. I'm definitely gonna keep advice from this book in the back of my mind, and see what types of reactions and outcomes will come from approaching situations with shorty, when applying some of the book's methods.

More life... more wins, brethren!
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When you make your life about setting goals, but at the same time, staying in the moment and making the process and the journey the most important priority, you're invincible. This whole thread, book and path are all about living a life of higher principle and cultivating some disciplines in the name of always doing your best in the name of nothing but high vibration, dope experiences based on the life you envisioned for yourself.

It hurts to kill your ego, burn out your weakness and move toward your fear but the power and adventure is what life is all about. My physical, mental and love life are on point right now. I'm carrying this energy into building my dreams and career, while also getting my short-term money right so I can build a solid foundation to really get my money right.

This manhood path is universal to all of those things too, which is why you were so on point saying that the title should be called "Quick lil gems on dealing with life on a higher level''.

It's a lot of love and motivation going in this thread. Let's keep building and getting better.

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Oh and breh, congrats on locking down a good girl :salute:

As a man who has been married for 8 years, TRUST ME, the game only BEGINS once you get serious with a woman. Once she knows your stuff you gotta keep it sexy and mix it up. And your woman knows all your little weaknesses so you're going to get tested the second you're not on point. Use her women's intuition and tests as a barometer for places where you're slacking. Since women are emotional, she'll feel you softening from being the man on your purpose before you even know you're slipping.
 
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