Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

True Blue Moon

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@True Blue MoonB any books you can suggest for this warrior path that worked for you? :lupe:

I just feed my brain on the daily. Me and my lady only have streaming service logins and no cable, so I'm on audiobooks and helpful YouTube channels all day every day while I work from home.

I'll list some off the top of my head that I've taken in the past few years. Live with them and play around with the info, testing it out, as opposed to locking down one belief without experimentation. Make it a lifestyle of always perfecting your flaws until you die, as opposed to just some quick, gimmicky self help.

But anyway, here's some good books off the top of my head.

  • The Alchemist
  • The Way of the Superior Man
  • No More Mr. Nice Guy
  • Blue Truth
  • Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It
  • Think and Grow Rich
  • The Way of the Peaceful Warrior
  • You Are a Badass
  • You Are a Badass at Making Money
  • The Universe Has Your Back
  • The Art of War
  • The War of Art (not a double/typo. They're two different books)
  • The Kyballian
  • The 50th Law
  • The 48 Laws of Power
  • The Art of Seduction
  • Mastery
  • Black Privilege (Charlamagne's new book)
  • The 5 Second Rule
  • Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: Lose Your Mind and Create a New One
  • Pimp by Iceberg Slim
  • Rosebudd Bitterdose
  • Mating in Captivity
  • My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
  • The Upside of Your Dark Side
  • Ego is the Enemy
  • The Obstacle is the Way
  • The Power of Vulnerability
  • The Tao Te Ching
  • The Bible (Step out of the way we've been taught for a second and look up some people who take a more mental/esoteric interpretation on YouTube. Watch some videos by Rev. Ike and Neville Goddard and then go back and read the same scriptures. Let your life experience, gut, spirt and intuition live with it for a while and use the teachings in any way that makes sense to you as a human)
  • The King Within: Access the King in the Male Psyche
  • Wild at Heart
  • Relentless by Tim S. Grover (He trained Michael Jordan, Kobe and other top athletes. Touches on their mental and drive)
  • Enlightened Sex by David Deida
Some of the YouTube channels you should check out include Elliott Hulse, RSD Tyler, rsdfreetour, JulienHimself, Aubrey Marcus, Tom Bilyeu, Brandon Carter and Eric Thomas (etthehiphoppreacher).

Just dabble man. Have fun with it and get hype over how much your life is about to change :blessed:
 
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Man, make sure you never regret any of this. Life is like a video game and we get to create and experience whatever we want. You gotta have some stories.
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Breh I've a life most can't even achieve besides celebrities and rich people all cuz I stayed true to who I am and keeping it 100 and putting myself first when I should
People assume the Ls granted when u read them sound massive regret But they aren't for me

Ex: I could be a millionaire but I cut things off with Sony exec daughter in Japan

Could be with a lawyer who told me just stay home and take care of kids in her big ass house in Florida she will do it all for me

Famous jap singer i could of dated had 2nd chance after first time my friend fukked that up I didn't even bother cuz I just wanted to enjoy single jap singer was really feelin me but I shot it down

Model chic who is semi known I cut off cuz I just wanted to enjoy life

These things I didn't go for cuz I just wasn't ready
I'm 33 gonna be 34 and a father of 5 now married for 7 plus years with no regret

Cuz I refuse to give a female something she wants that I can't give if i don't want to or I'm not ready she deserves better than that and I told them all straight up that just like I'm writing now
 

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Gonna start bringing some of these chicks home to meet the family. So they could give Me an Opinion on the type of women I'm dating
 

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Yall think its bad ive been talking to this chick for like 3 years and ive never made a move on her? Alright lemme not say i havent made a move cus ive told her i like her couple times and she said she does too but the thing is i dnt kno if she thinks that i mean it in a friendly way or not...and crazy thing is she is moving canada next month to go to school :mjcry: ive also asked her out as well but we never actually got to go out because i dnt have a car...yall think i shud give up on her or what?
If You Like Her And She Like You Then What The Problem Is? She Probably Waiting On You To Make The First Move You Gotta See Her At Least One More Time Before She Go Away. Matta Fact Next Time You See Her You Gotta Grab Her Titty Cuz If She :hamster: And You :hamster: Ain't Nothing Gonna Happen One Of Y'all Need To Be :takedat: If She Shy/Ladylike/A "Good Girl" Then Most Likely That's Your Shot To Take. Pay Attention To Her Reaction When You Do It If She Say Stop And Slap Your Hand Away But She Like:noah::youngsabo: When She Say It Then That's A Good Sign Keep Being A Gentleman And Show This Lovely Young Woman A Good Time If She Do It Like:picard::childplease::ufdup: Well shyt At Least You Know Where You Stand.
 

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Here's the truth: There is no checking out of the game. Ever. You're gonna have to drop that mentality. Well you could check out of the game and become one of those dudes who never dates or has any kind of meaningful interaction with women ever but you wouldn't be in here if that were the case.

Even if you meet a woman you "connect" with, how do you think you'll be able to keep that connection strong? That's a game in and of itself. You'll never be able to get away from it as a man. Sorry to say it but it is what it is. A lot of dudes meet a shorty they're feeling, then get lazy and think "she's really into me, I got a good one" then next thing they know, she's popping smoke on that ass.

Your boys are eating better than you because they probably already know there's no end in sight to this so I might as well play to win. Do the same.

it all boils down to some simple things. do you prefer to be the one being fuccked, or do u want to do the fuccking? there is no middle ground. those are ur options. the sooner u realize this, the better.

and the girl who is really urs will remain after all the others fall off.

 

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Brehs I need help :mjcry:

I couldn't get it to stay up last night :mjcry:

Date with this new chic went well. Cabbed back to her place. Dixk was hard on the date, dixk was hard in the cab Fooled around exchanged pleasantries which I was standing tall for(head was A1) and she was as wet as the Nile River but when I went to reach for a condom....My dixk was like "nah boy wyd" :mjcry:

Quitting porn, team no fap fukk it

But how do I salvage this? shyt was embarrassing this never happeneed before I need to redeem myself but I'm trying angle a text to suggest so. I'll need about a week for my dixk to reset most likely but I can't go out like this brehs:mjcry: she needs to feel this full rod. What should I text her for another shot?
Here's your problem right here playboi :ufdup:
 

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If You Like Her And She Like You Then What The Problem Is? She Probably Waiting On You To Make The First Move You Gotta See Her At Least One More Time Before She Go Away. Matta Fact Next Time You See Her You Gotta Grab Her Titty Cuz If She :hamster: And You :hamster: Ain't Nothing Gonna Happen One Of Y'all Need To Be :takedat: If She Shy/Ladylike/A "Good Girl" Then Most Likely That's Your Shot To Take. Pay Attention To Her Reaction When You Do It If She Say Stop And Slap Your Hand Away But She Like:noah::youngsabo: When She Say It Then That's A Good Sign Keep Being A Gentleman And Show This Lovely Young Woman A Good Time If She Do It Like:picard::childplease::ufdup: Well shyt At Least You Know Where You Stand.
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How was the trip?

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I love how mature this thread has become. Real dudes chopping up game & swapping experiences.

I remember there used to be a lot of lame posts like "how do I get my co-worker to like me" etc

Since most of us here are early thirties & our dating pool shrinks by the day. How do you feel about dating single mothers?
I'm currently in a relationship with a single mother of a daughter who is 17. So, it's not exactly difficult at this point because she's getting ready for her senior year and then she's off to college. I decided to get serious with her simply because her daughter is that old and I dont have to do anything but be a good man to her mom and be respectful.
 

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Man, make sure you never regret any of this. Life is like a video game and we get to create and experience whatever we want. You gotta have some stories.



Welcome to the path:





When you make your life about setting goals, but at the same time, staying in the moment and making the process and the journey the most important priority, you're invincible. This whole thread, book and path are all about living a life of higher principle and cultivating some disciplines in the name of always doing your best in the name of nothing but high vibration, dope experiences based on the life you envisioned for yourself.

It hurts to kill your ego, burn out your weakness and move toward your fear but the power and adventure is what life is all about. My physical, mental and love life are on point right now. I'm carrying this energy into building my dreams and career, while also getting my short-term money right so I can build a solid foundation to really get my money right.

This manhood path is universal to all of those things too, which is why you were so on point saying that the title should be called "Quick lil gems on dealing with life on a higher level''.

It's a lot of love and motivation going in this thread. Let's keep building and getting better.

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Oh and breh, congrats on locking down a good girl :salute:

As a man who has been married for 8 years, TRUST ME, the game only BEGINS once you get serious with a woman. Once she knows your stuff you gotta keep it sexy and mix it up. And your woman knows all your little weaknesses so you're going to get tested the second you're not on point. Use her women's intuition and tests as a barometer for places where you're slacking. Since women are emotional, she'll feel you softening from being the man on your purpose before you even know you're slipping.

God damn... good ass post.
 
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