Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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@Supreme Leader Reinscarf are you gonna jump back in the game or you gonna chill from the dating game for a while?

Whats your dating strategy going forward? Hit the clubs to meet chicks or internet dating? What age range & type of woman are you gonna go for??
 
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@Supreme Leader Reinscarf are you gonna jump back in the game or you gonna chill from the dating game for a while?

Whats your dating strategy going forward? Hit the clubs to meet chicks or internet dating?

Honestly i'm just taking this time to relax and become a better person all around. I've been reading my bible more and working on my relationship with God. And plus I don't even care to date because I'd never string along someone just for the sake of it.

Going forward who knows, but for now just working on me. Plus I'll only date a strict christian woman with no kids

The great thing is that when I'm ready I know it'll be great
 

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Been talking to this one woman for a week. She's 28, we been flirting like crazy, facetime the whole bit. schedules conflicted and today we were suppose to link up.

We were suppose to meet at 2, I get there 15 min early bc I value my time and others. She's running late from work. Minor nuisance but aight cool.

It's 2:20 I hit her up with the "are you close". 10 min later she says "im 24 away, sorry im rushing"

I took my ass home and hit her with the "take your time im going home"

My logic is women like like that who dont value your time will walk all over you if you let them. Would she show up an hr late to a date with Trey Songz? Could I have waited, chilled and prob and smashed? most def. I just value myself more than that so I dipped:yeshrug:


if she had a job interview she wouldnt have been late
 

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Been talking to this one woman for a week. She's 28
:camby:

My homie told me I was too hard on her. Said Portuguese people from the island are never on time for anything. F that. At the end of the day, as a man, if you don't stand by your principles then you'll accept anything. I'm not with it.

Depends how fresh off the boat she is....

Brazilians are like this too. It's annoying AF
 

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Been talking to this one woman for a week. She's 28, we been flirting like crazy, facetime the whole bit. schedules conflicted and today we were suppose to link up.

We were suppose to meet at 2, I get there 15 min early bc I value my time and others. She's running late from work. Minor nuisance but aight cool.

It's 2:20 I hit her up with the "are you close". 10 min later she says "im 24 away, sorry im rushing"

I took my ass home and hit her with the "take your time im going home"

My logic is women like like that who dont value your time will walk all over you if you let them. Would she show up an hr late to a date with Trey Songz? Could I have waited, chilled and prob and smashed? most def. I just value myself more than that so I dipped:yeshrug:
you shouldn't have let her know you were going home. should've let her arrive and ask where you were
 

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If you have a chick whom is always on some "adventure" shyt. Meaning she's always at a party, club, some exotic vacation, having girls night out and can't seem to ever be still.. Consider that a red flag because she's doing some hoeing, low down kitty licking or getting flown out to these different spots on the expense of a trick. You be surprised of how much bread these trick nikkahs are putting up to fly bytches out
 

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One of the girls I was talking to, posted a video on Facebook of messages of me ahd her, asking(begging) :francis: her to come back along with a video of me in the hospital after my car crash( last year) with another chick she didn't like(long story, she also was the one who let me know)
I just dropped her after too much immaturity ahd a few other things on her end a few days ago. My number and everything is on there. :dame:


I told her keep the video and bless up after calling/texting. I panicked when i first saw it because I was still half sleep. But I realize Reacting would only make it worse. Can't wait to everybody wakes up and see it :aicmon:


Stay away from women under 25 brehs
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  • The Alchemist
  • The Way of the Superior Man
  • No More Mr. Nice Guy
  • Blue Truth
  • Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It
  • Think and Grow Rich
  • The Way of the Peaceful Warrior
  • You Are a Badass
  • You Are a Badass at Making Money
  • The Universe Has Your Back
  • The Art of War
  • The War of Art (not a double/typo. They're two different books)
  • The Kyballian
  • The 50th Law
  • The 48 Laws of Power
  • The Art of Seduction
  • Mastery
  • Black Privilege (Charlamagne's new book)
  • The 5 Second Rule
  • Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: Lose Your Mind and Create a New One
  • Pimp by Iceberg Slim
  • Rosebudd Bitterdose
  • Mating in Captivity
  • My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
  • The Upside of Your Dark Side
  • Ego is the Enemy
  • The Obstacle is the Way
  • The Power of Vulnerability
  • The Tao Te Ching
  • The Bible (Step out of the way we've been taught for a second and look up some people who take a more mental/esoteric interpretation on YouTube. Watch some videos by Rev. Ike and Neville Goddard and then go back and read the same scriptures. Let your life experience, gut, spirt and intuition live with it for a while and use the teachings in any way that makes sense to you as a human)
  • The King Within: Access the King in the Male Psyche
  • Wild at Heart
  • Relentless by Tim S. Grover (He trained Michael Jordan, Kobe and other top athletes. Touches on their mental and drive)
  • Enlightened Sex by David Deida

:wow: I have about 2/3 of these on my bookshelf. they're invaluable. a lot of them i copped years ago and didnt read them because i knew i wasnt ready to, but i knew i would be in due time.

i wouldnt be who i am today without those books. :mjcry:

the way of the superior man is an essential read. essential.
 

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Well I'm no longer engaged brehs, fiance said she has alot of doubts and returned the ring to me.

Came out of nowhere :snoop:.

Then days later she wanted to talk I went to the washroom and she went through my phone and found a convo with one of my friends who is a girl telling her that she returned the ring to me and I feel so embarrassed. And my friend said she feels like slapping her for wasting my time and I said lol She blew up at me for "discussing our issues with others" yet she's been messaging her sister about us all the time.

Won't lie it stings, I love her but such is life.
So sorry to here breh. God bless.
 
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