Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[True Blue Moon]

Wow breh... Just wow. Too much sauce, as per usual.

Wanna list, say 5 books one would do best to read first?

I'm now done with The Superior Man and god daaamn it's litttt! Big up yourself breh!

I'm in action mode right now, so the 5 books I would currently recommend are going to reflect that. With that in mind, I'd probably go with these five, because they get you in touch with yourself, so that you then have the tools to feel your way toward which areas of weakness you need to strengthen or which direction you want to head:

The Alchemist

Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It

The 5 Second Rule

Ego is the Enemy

The Obstacle is the Way

And then that can probably help drive you toward which of the other 20 books you go toward next. Appreciate the love homie.

 

[DCSpinerz]

What's making u doubt her

Eh.. Bullshyt ass lies breh. Trying to spend time with her and she turned a nikka down. Asking me questions about certain women I vibe with even though they are good friends of mine but she's the jealous type. Even though I asked her the same questions about who she vibes with she dodges my questions. I had a dream about her stabbing me in her crib and shyt. All these bad gut feelings breh.

So I'm like fukk it. I'm not gon answer her texts, phone calls, etc. Just gonna do me. . I'm tired of the lies breh.

 

[MikelArteta]

Glad you like it man. What parts are resonating with you so far?

I loved the spend one hour every day doing something you love.

Its crazy considering how old this book it, it also mentioned its only version of no fap how only to release when your having sex as masturbating makes you scared to take chances.

Also the tips on women are gold, basically dont worry about what a woman is saying or doing, worry about yourself if shes aggravating you, show love and kindess and if she is then toss her in the trash

 

[MikelArteta]

i have the nice guy great book by dr. glover

id also recommend the predatory woman and the manipulated man

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I loved the spend one hour every day doing something you love.

Its crazy considering how old this book it, it also mentioned its only version of no fap how only to release when your having sex as masturbating makes you scared to take chances.

Also the tips on women are gold, basically dont worry about what a woman is saying or doing, worry about yourself if shes aggravating you, show love and kindess and if she is then toss her in the trash

never looked at it this way

 

[MikelArteta]

never looked at it this way

You won't be willing to bypass ejaculation until you have experienced the much greater pleasures which lie beyond it. In the meantime, notice how you feel in the minutes and days following ejaculation. If you have accumulated a lot of tension in your daily life, ejaculation will afford you with temporary release and relaxation. But as you live your life with more and more true purpose, you won't accumulate so much tension during the day. T.hen, you will discover that ejaculation, for the most part, actually depletes and weakens you It feels great for a few moments, but the price you pay for the genital sneeze of ejaculation is a much higher level of mediocrity in your daily life. You will find that you just don't have the extra gusto necessary to live your life with utter impeccability. Excess ejaculations pave the road to living a good life, but not a great life. In a subtle way, excess ejaculations will diminish your courage to take risks, professionally and spiritually. You will settle for doing enough to get by, to be comfortable, but you will find that you would rather watch TV than write your novel, meditate, or make that important phone call. You will have enough motivation to live a decent life, but ejaculations drain you of the "cutting through" energy that is necessary to pierce your own wall of lethargy and slice through the obstructions that arise in the world. Your gift will remain largely ungiven

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

never looked at it this way

It's really a crutch breh. When you KNOW your only chance of sexual gratification is to go out and hunt, you become something different. Your mentality changes and you're just a straight up shooter from that point.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

It's really a crutch breh. When you KNOW your only chance of sexual gratification is to go out and hunt, you become something different. Your mentality changes and you're just a straight up shooter from that point.

About to see whats to this self improvement journey

 

[Marci-Senpai]

I feel like im never gonna find a girlfriend...and its crazy cus companionship is the only thing i want outta this life y am i so cursed with bad luck man

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I feel like im never gonna find a girlfriend...and its crazy cus companionship is the only thing i want outta this life y am i so cursed with bad luck man

What's making u think this?

 

[CityGuy]

Been talking to this one woman for a week. She's 28, we been flirting like crazy, facetime the whole bit. schedules conflicted and today we were suppose to link up.

We were suppose to meet at 2, I get there 15 min early bc I value my time and others. She's running late from work. Minor nuisance but aight cool.

It's 2:20 I hit her up with the "are you close". 10 min later she says "im 24 away, sorry im rushing"

I took my ass home and hit her with the "take your time im going home"

My logic is women like like that who dont value your time will walk all over you if you let them. Would she show up an hr late to a date with Trey Songz? Could I have waited, chilled and prob and smashed? most def. I just value myself more than that so I dipped

Update:

We spoke for like 10 min today, she said she's still tight bc I just went home and she drove by me for no reason and I didnt try and see her after she showed up an hr late.

"I was coming from work and didn't even know how long it would take. I was looking forward to it and I had to drive hella long you coulda at least made plans when i got there."


Thank god I dodged this bullet,
fam how you have a date at a set time and have no clue how long it take to get there

Like we aint got smart phones

I'm just mad I didn't holla at any females at the bar while I waited

in my years i've met 1 woman with any sense of self accountability. says something about someone they can just talk only about their perspective

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

I feel like im never gonna find a girlfriend...and its crazy cus companionship is the only thing i want outta this life y am i so cursed with bad luck man

What kind of bad luck?

 

[MisterMajesty]

It's really a crutch breh. When you KNOW your only chance of sexual gratification is to go out and hunt, you become something different. Your mentality changes and you're just a straight up shooter from that point.

and with that, no fap week has begun

 

[Marci-Senpai]

What's making u think this?

Cus i aint shyt...basically

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

and with that, no fap week has begun

If you're gonna really do it you gotta think much longer term than a week. A week is fine for the short term to pace yourself but think bigger fam. I'm at 70+ days now and for me, there's no going back. Remember: only forward never backward.