Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:wow: I have about 2/3 of these on my bookshelf. they're invaluable. a lot of them i copped years ago and didnt read them because i knew i wasnt ready to, but i knew i would be in due time.

i wouldnt be who i am today without those books. :mjcry:

the way of the superior man is an essential read. essential.

You hit the nail on the head. Sometimes a book isn't going to resonate for you when you first look at it. It may be a few months or even a few years, but when you finally pick it up and it has just what you needed :wow:

I'd definitely advise re-reading or re-listening to the must-have books time and time again because they'll have different meaning and depth each time and you'll catch stuff you didn't.

I love life breh and these books are a big part of that. I don't take that lightly :wow:
 

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I tired telling my boy that fukking a bunch of women wont heal his broken heart.... Only time and self improvement will..... That nicca has been a track star lately running through hoes back to back....

I had to sit him down last night and tell him he's fukkin up :francis: ....


My nicca cried yall :mjcry: He misses his kid and the family life.
 

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I tired telling my boy that fukking a bunch of women wont heal his broken heart.... Only time and self improvement will..... That nicca has been a track star lately running through hoes back to back....

I had to sit him down last night and tell him he's fukkin up :francis: ....


My nicca cried yall :mjcry: He misses his kid and the family life.

Did something with first love was running thru girls like elliott from Dallas with me being my own o line
When I laid there naked next too that dime I realized only time could heal my wounds and it did :mjcry:
Swagboyz 4 life :to:
 

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Did something with first love was running thru girls like elliott from Dallas with me being my own o line
When I laid there naked next too that dime I realized only time could heal my wounds and it did :mjcry:
Swagboyz 4 life :to:
We all we got :mjcry:

That baby did my dawg dirty though man.... She's in his chest but with time he can shake that.
 

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I tired telling my boy that fukking a bunch of women wont heal his broken heart.... Only time and self improvement will..... That nicca has been a track star lately running through hoes back to back....

I had to sit him down last night and tell him he's fukkin up :francis: ....


My nicca cried yall :mjcry: He misses his kid and the family life.


doesn't help
i did that after the second time i got my heart broken, smashed like 10 girls in a few months. Some people use alcholol, some use drugs i used sex
 

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Another thing is men shouldn't allow the shyt they read from these bitter femanizis to discourage them.
"Don't hit on me at the club, I'm with my girls!"
"Don't talk to me at the store, I'm shopping!"
"Don't talk to me at the book store, I'm reading!"
"Don't talk to me at the Gym, I'm working out!"
Don't bother me or hit my DM, Men are too thirsty!"
"Don't look to hook up on Tender, I'm not looking"

Ignore that shyt.. You spend your life listening to bytches, You'll die alone and starving. They don't even stay consistent with what they say on a daily basis let alone making demands
 

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Another thing is men shouldn't allow the shyt they read from these bitter femanizis to discourage them.
"Don't hit on me at the club, I'm with my girls!"
"Don't talk to me at the store, I'm shopping!"
"Don't talk to me at the book store, I'm reading!"
"Don't talk to me at the Gym, I'm working out!"
Don't bother me or hit my DM, Men are too thirsty!"
"Don't look to hook up on Tender, I'm not looking"

Ignore that shyt.. You spend your life listening to bytches, You'll die alone and starving. They don't even stay consistent with what they say on a daily basis let alone making demands

Hahahah yeah breh.

The facts is. If a woman is feeling you, she's feeling you. At that point, where y'all are at or what y'all are doing is fully irrelevant.

Trusss. Digits will be exchanged, along with bodily fluids. Hahaha
 

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Her lack of communication, consideration, and respect will only continue if you don't bush her. Of course she's going to continue and text like nothing ever happened. Don't fall for it. Either read her her rights on how she had you fukked up the other day, demote or bush her, or don't say shyt which shows her you have no backbone and poor boundaries. The choice is yours.
This is A1 advice
 

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Man, make sure you never regret any of this. Life is like a video game and we get to create and experience whatever we want. You gotta have some stories.



Welcome to the path:





When you make your life about setting goals, but at the same time, staying in the moment and making the process and the journey the most important priority, you're invincible. This whole thread, book and path are all about living a life of higher principle and cultivating some disciplines in the name of always doing your best in the name of nothing but high vibration, dope experiences based on the life you envisioned for yourself.

It hurts to kill your ego, burn out your weakness and move toward your fear but the power and adventure is what life is all about. My physical, mental and love life are on point right now. I'm carrying this energy into building my dreams and career, while also getting my short-term money right so I can build a solid foundation to really get my money right.

This manhood path is universal to all of those things too, which is why you were so on point saying that the title should be called "Quick lil gems on dealing with life on a higher level''.

It's a lot of love and motivation going in this thread. Let's keep building and getting better.

EDIT:

Oh and breh, congrats on locking down a good girl :salute:

As a man who has been married for 8 years, TRUST ME, the game only BEGINS once you get serious with a woman. Once she knows your stuff you gotta keep it sexy and mix it up. And your woman knows all your little weaknesses so you're going to get tested the second you're not on point. Use her women's intuition and tests as a barometer for places where you're slacking. Since women are emotional, she'll feel you softening from being the man on your purpose before you even know you're slipping.

This is what I'm struggling with now.

I'm read some those books u named to
 

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Maybe I should take up my brehs advice and see if she really feeling me or wasting my time. :patrice:. So you know what I'll just play it smooth and not give her any attention and see where it goes. :ehh:

I have a gut feeling she's courting other nikkas but I'll play it cool.
 

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I just feed my brain on the daily. Me and my lady only have streaming service logins and no cable, so I'm on audiobooks and helpful YouTube channels all day every day while I work from home.

I'll list some off the top of my head that I've taken in the past few years. Live with them and play around with the info, testing it out, as opposed to locking down one belief without experimentation. Make it a lifestyle of always perfecting your flaws until you die, as opposed to just some quick, gimmicky self help.

But anyway, here's some good books off the top of my head.

  • The Alchemist
  • The Way of the Superior Man
  • No More Mr. Nice Guy
  • Blue Truth
  • Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It
  • Think and Grow Rich
  • The Way of the Peaceful Warrior
  • You Are a Badass
  • You Are a Badass at Making Money
  • The Universe Has Your Back
  • The Art of War
  • The War of Art (not a double/typo. They're two different books)
  • The Kyballian
  • The 50th Law
  • The 48 Laws of Power
  • The Art of Seduction
  • Mastery
  • Black Privilege (Charlamagne's new book)
  • The 5 Second Rule
  • Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: Lose Your Mind and Create a New One
  • Pimp by Iceberg Slim
  • Rosebudd Bitterdose
  • Mating in Captivity
  • My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
  • The Upside of Your Dark Side
  • Ego is the Enemy
  • The Obstacle is the Way
  • The Power of Vulnerability
  • The Tao Te Ching
  • The Bible (Step out of the way we've been taught for a second and look up some people who take a more mental/esoteric interpretation on YouTube. Watch some videos by Rev. Ike and Neville Goddard and then go back and read the same scriptures. Let your life experience, gut, spirt and intuition live with it for a while and use the teachings in any way that makes sense to you as a human)
  • The King Within: Access the King in the Male Psyche
  • Wild at Heart
  • Relentless by Tim S. Grover (He trained Michael Jordan, Kobe and other top athletes. Touches on their mental and drive)
  • Enlightened Sex by David Deida
Some of the YouTube channels you should check out include Elliott Hulse, RSD Tyler, rsdfreetour, JulienHimself, Aubrey Marcus, Tom Bilyeu, Brandon Carter and Eric Thomas (etthehiphoppreacher).

Just dabble man. Have fun with it and get hype over how much your life is about to change :blessed:

Wow breh... Just wow. Too much sauce, as per usual.

Wanna list, say 5 books one would do best to read first?

I'm now done with The Superior Man and god daaamn it's litttt! Big up yourself breh!
 
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