Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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if you say so

i guarantee you that dude has thought about you sexually

Whether he has or not is neither here nor there for me.[/QUOTE]
And lets be honest. most women just don't make good friends anyway. If one my brehs fell on hard times and needed a place to crash for a bit even if I aint have much I'd roll out the couch for that nikka and tell my chick to fall in line on it. But you think you could ever go to your female friend with some shyt like that :mjlol:

breh: damn man thats fukked up, my girl gon trip but fukk it come through we'll figure something out...
Brehette: Damn thats really unfortunate...so what you gonna do :ld:

They make horrible friends for more than the most cursory of friendships. If I want to stupid gossip I can go to a barbershop. I cook better than every woman I know. They horrid gamers. no reason to be close friends with one if they not like your homies wife for a long time. And don't take it that I'm like women interaction is worthless or w/e. But a man/woman relationship works because it is built on her idolizing you to an extent. She'll do shyt for you she'd never do for a friend. women don't idolize male friends and if they do they plotting on when he single or something and they both get tipsy and fall into each others bed.

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Question for everyone:

You have a child with an exgf, she has another kid from a previous relationship. Your relationship with the exgf overall is fine...no fights between the 2 of you and y'all are able to parent without issues

She gets a job offer in a new city that is 4-5 hrs away by car that pays her more money and something she really wants. Before she takes the job she talks to you first to let you know what the offer is and so the 2 of you can figure out potential plans....what do you do?
 

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:ohhh:I think I use to talk myself out of p*ssy


We all have at one point. Some people learn to shut up and some don't.

Another girl I was talking to played the shyt out of me. Was talking to another nikka and spent the day with him. Was going to take her out for her birthday, but that's definitely not happening now.
 

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We all have at one point. Some people learn to shut up and some don't.

Another girl I was talking to played the shyt out of me. Was talking to another nikka and spent the day with him. Was going to take her out for her birthday, but that's definitely not happening now.
Y'all was together?
 

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Again, theres no reason for females to be in this thread they don't add to it at all.

You don't turn to a woman when you need advice on dealing with women...

i agree to a degree. but over the last few pages, they've been able to (unwittingly) draw out or shall i say highlight the weak links in this thread. through their input and the responses to it, there's a few posters ive come to conclude are idiots. its good to know who these people are so u dont waste ur time responding to them when they come crying over the same exact foolishness they were warned about.

but overall, i wouldnt rule out a woman's advice completely. there are gems in there, believe it or not. but most of the gems usually show a window into another side that should have u shook...i.e. the outlandish justifications for bad behavior. the irrational thinking. the selfish mentality. its all there if u read carefully the things they say. but not all women are like this. but just sit and read what they say. think about it. u'll understand sooner or later.
 
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So im walking downtown and I notice a chick with bangs do the :queen:while talking on the phone...it wasn't hair there to do it with..so anyway she walks by but my senses told me otherwise that she was nervous and perhaps wanted me to approach...so I turn around and eventually see her at her stop..

I say hey..she says hey
(Guys if she acknowledges you while on the phone keep going)
..I said I'm off work and she said me too and yea I went off from there...she canceled her "phone call" with quickness.

Talking to her right now..fukk tinder:ahh:
 

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learn how to listen without actually listening


ex:

girl: [insert some irrelevant babble]
you: *playing Madden 2012* :takedat:
girl: [insert more irrelevant sh*t]
you: "that's crazy" :dwillhuh:
girl: [says a statement that seeks affirmation from you]
you: word? :leon:
girl: i know right? :krs:
girl: [continues to go on & on about more irrelevant sh*t]
you: [rephrases the last few things she said into a question to make her think IGAF :jawalrus:]
girl: :krs: exactly!!!
girl: [talks for the next 20 minutes]

:lolbron:

its a skill brehs....
So true. Women get uncomfortable when they don't hear themselves speak for more than 10 minutes.
 

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Its funny how girls be so hurt when they ghost on you then finally pop out the cut and you hit them with a "who is this?" text :mjlol:

If i don't talk to you for a whole 24 hours your # getting deleted, much less days :camby:
 

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Women don't owe you shyt. Always be ready for her to break it off even if you think shyt is going great in your opinion. Always be ready for then to never reply to your call or text. People have the potential to be great just like they have the potential to be messed up. And just because she's always been great with you doesn't mean she won't switch on you out of nowhere. Just gotta charge it to the game and keep it pushing. Don't get too attached and that goes for anything (job, friends, material, women, etc). You're not entitled to it and don't own any of it. The only way to happiness is to become as independent as you can and always work towards it.
 
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