Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Deafheaven]

Saw a chick downtown on her phone..black chick with glasses. I was waiting for a friend so said fukk it and set my sights on sitting near her....

As I got close that phone left her ear I knew what it was then..we chatted for awhile and she has the same interest such as history. she works nearby and said she likes to comminucate in person rather than text. But I got her number..I asked first she was ..dropped it kept chatting then asked again mainly to let her know I want her..I hate texting to so i'm with it .

Plan on stopping by her job tomorrow since she nearby.

Summertime

Please don't do this. You already framing that you gonna chase the fukk out of here doing shyt like this. Even if you do bag her it won't bode well for your future power struggle in the relationship if you out the gate running after her. Ask her out for drinks and go from there. If she interested she'll make it easy if not then you cut your losses. But just showing up to her place of work is a weird move to me.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Please don't do this. You already framing that you gonna chase the fukk out of here doing shyt like this. Even if you do bag her it won't bode well for your future power struggle in the relationship if you out the gate running after her. Ask her out for drinks and go from there. If she interested she'll make it easy if not then you cut your losses. But just showing up to her place of work is a weird move to me.

*Iight I got you

But I feel like I gotta hit up her atleast once this week

We really do work across the street from each other.

I do know she was into me though

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Women don't owe you shyt. Always be ready for her to break it off even if you think shyt is going great in your opinion. Always be ready for then to never reply to your call or text. People have the potential to be great just like they have the potential to be messed up. And just because she's always been great with you doesn't mean she won't switch on you out of nowhere. Just gotta charge it to the game and keep it pushing. Don't get too attached and that goes for anything (job, friends, material, women, etc). You're not entitled to it and don't own any of it. The only way to happiness is to become as independent as you can and always work towards it.

I had to quote this. This shyt right here is what gets so many dudes stuck in a bad frame of mind. You can't get too caught up in the "why" when a shorty goes cold on you. All you can do is accept it and keep going on with your life. It sucks but it happens to everyone. The only person you can control is yourself. Accept that. Don't chase her, build yourself, and replace her. I'll say this again, NEVER and I mean NEVER need a woman more than she needs you.

 

[Deafheaven]

*Iight I got you

But I feel like I gotta hit up her atleast once this week

We really do work across the street from each other.

I do know she was into me though

Then let her come see you

Plant the seed with the phone sow it in a date. randomly showing up her to her job no matter how close it is just shows how much shes on your mind regardless of distance. I've been dating a girl for like 5 months now and know where she works and shes enamored with me and I wouldn't just show up to her job unannounced

You have to put in some inital effort to get them after you but the end goal is have them chasing you because its much much easier to dictate the direction of the relationship. It might seem like a small thing now but small things snowball if you ever get seriously involved with someone. thats why you do simple ass dates to start because even if shes a simple ass girl if you start out blowing bank on her out the gate shes going to expect it and now you stuck.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Then let her come see you

Plant the seed with the phone sow it in a date. randomly showing up her to her job no matter how close it is just shows how much shes on your mind regardless of distance. I've been dating a girl for like 5 months now and know where she works and shes enamored with me and I wouldn't just show up to her job unannounced

You have to put in some inital effort to get them after you but the end goal is have them chasing you because its much much easier to dictate the direction of the relationship. It might seem like a small thing now but small things snowball if you ever get seriously involved with someone. thats why you do simple ass dates to start because even if shes a simple ass girl if you start out blowing bank on her out the gate shes going to expect it and now you stuck.

I feel you...I must say I'm proud of myself picking up her signs...

She was sitting in the middle of downtown hoping for a breh to talk to her..she wasn't fooling me.


And I was saying going to her job because my job dumbass put the wrong number in her phone #bryan:

I sent a text from her phone to mine..si she could remember my number but when I checked after she left it wasnt received on my end so I must've hit a wrong digit

Either way i'm not sweating it ... my confidence is up so

 

[Youseenmywork]

Women don't owe you shyt. Always be ready for her to break it off even if you think shyt is going great in your opinion. Always be ready for then to never reply to your call or text. People have the potential to be great just like they have the potential to be messed up. And just because she's always been great with you doesn't mean she won't switch on you out of nowhere. Just gotta charge it to the game and keep it pushing. Don't get too attached and that goes for anything (job, friends, material, women, etc). You're not entitled to it and don't own any of it. The only way to happiness is to become as independent as you can and always work towards it.

Been awhile since I've been in this thread I see you still drop gems

 

[Silkk]

not sure why ur wasting energy even being mad at a chick like that. a chick like that is the type that act like a dude, and behaves like a dude. u need to run for ur life from these chicks.

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this is the type of chick that if yall were to ever be on a break, even if its just for like 2 weeks, she'd have no issues hopping on a brand new d1ck or any d1ck for that matter.

Some women actually wear that like a badge of honor now. "I think/act just like a guy" Oh word? Is that right? Whenever I hear that now I'm more than likely tossing her in the bushes either immediately or after the first smash. Huge red flag. Why the fukk would I want a woman who tries to be something she isn't, and is proud of that? Most women are more trouble than they're worth but these types are the worst of the bunch.

Maaaaaaaan yall not fukking lying at all. Run far and fast from them type of women

Question for everyone:

You have a child with an exgf, she has another kid from a previous relationship. Your relationship with the exgf overall is fine...no fights between the 2 of you and y'all are able to parent without issues

She gets a job offer in a new city that is 4-5 hrs away by car that pays her more money and something she really wants. Before she takes the job she talks to you first to let you know what the offer is and so the 2 of you can figure out potential plans....what do you do?

Tell her she not going...

 

[Silkk]

Man my friend dates a legit bytch. he been dating her for about 3 years now. And she just always ruins the mood.
She's pregnant now too so its ten times worse.
She just always so dramatic and extra and whenever I want to hang with him its just like damn i wanna cuss her out.
He's been my best friend since middle school but we barely hang now but when we do i gotta deal with her.
just gonna cut my ties.

Been there.

Homie ended up moving 10 states away for her, giving her 3 kids, breaking up, and then undergoing depression therapy.

 

[Deafheaven]

Its important to stand your ground brehs. Chick I'm dating said I half assed the plans last time and it irritated her (I'm a introvert and a loner just leaving the house to do some differnt shyt is a push for me) and I had to tell her in so many words that for one you can't talk to me in that fashion because I don't, and two I fukks with you obviously but you aren't irreplaceable. She went from harping on me to do some gallery like bullshyt to can I just come over and we watch a movie . Brehs let these women know they can't get over on you with the fukk shyt. @twan83 stay preaching that "I love you but I don't need you" steeze and its the truth. They'll love and respect you far more for saying "Aww hell nah you better get in line or get back" than "okay baby I'll be better with the date plans next time". You hold the cards brehs act like it. I used to be the nikka who would apologize for every thing and I thought thats what women wanted but they want a man not a doormat so act accordingly.

 

[twan83]

Man my friend dates a legit bytch. he been dating her for about 3 years now. And she just always ruins the mood.
She's pregnant now too so its ten times worse.
She just always so dramatic and extra and whenever I want to hang with him its just like damn i wanna cuss her out.
He's been my best friend since middle school but we barely hang now but when we do i gotta deal with her.
just gonna cut my ties.

That's ur friend fault for 2 reasons
1. Not keeping In her line with her bullshyt I get it if cuz she preggo but sound like she always like that
2. He let's her not hang out with u is his fault grow a pair of balls and hang out with u

Man I swear soft ass dudes nowadays wish my wife tell me NO be like hell u talking too I'm a grown ass man and I'm leaving with my boy unless she got a legit reason need to sit her ass down with that shyt

I get it if hanging out all the damn time and u a family man but every so often miss me with that shyt I wouldn't even be with someone like that

I let my wife go with her girls every so often and I go out when I feel like it

 

[twan83]

Question for everyone:

You have a child with an exgf, she has another kid from a previous relationship. Your relationship with the exgf overall is fine...no fights between the 2 of you and y'all are able to parent without issues

She gets a job offer in a new city that is 4-5 hrs away by car that pays her more money and something she really wants. Before she takes the job she talks to you first to let you know what the offer is and so the 2 of you can figure out potential plans....what do you do?

Here's the reality unless he got a legit reason to keep her from leaving he shyt outta luck he can go to attorney general and see what they say or ask a lawyer doubt he get answer he wants unless he disable
Also take the L and just be constant contact with his kid and enforce the visitation duties they gave him when she gets out of line with seeing the kid which tends to happen eventually and then get a lawyer to get new visitation outline that can favor him more days due to her not following the rules but have proof she isn't following the rules with a police report

 

[aboss4real24]

Any interracial dating sights take know of ?

Specifically for bm ww?

 

[Swagaveli]

This one might be too much info

But I just took steps in a new journey, I guess you could call it tantric/taoist sex. Or at least the part of it involving a man's ability to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

I've only discovered this power on solo missions thus far, but brehs

They say a guy won't develop the willpower to bypass his ejaculation and become multi-orgasmic until he feels how insignificant the ejaculation orgasm feels comparatively. I finally got the timing down during meat beat sessions and there is absolutely, positively no comparison

I legit don't want to nut anymore outside of the occasional sex visual. Dudes can stack 50 orgasms if they want during sex this way, and it's an intense, total body orgasm that opens up your brain and carries over power and energy into the rest of your life. Mix that with workouts, clean food and meditation and it's a wrap. And my erection quality and frequency legit shocks me.

Haven't had sex in a week or two so can't wait to try these new powers in the bedroom. Very deeply rooted in the Way of the Superior Man philosophy, so I'm bout to give my wife the best and most amazing sex of both of our lives

Life is responding to me right now in amazing ways.

Ok breh, do elaborate on this

I'm having a bit of a hard time with the actual physical method described on the Way of the Superior Man (which btw is simply a fukkin AWESOME book with so much truth )

As I understand it, the said method is doing reverse kegels combined with deep breathing?

 

[True Blue Moon]

Ok breh, do elaborate on this

I'm having a bit of a hard time with the actual physical method described on the Way of the Superior Man (which btw is simply a fukkin AWESOME book with so much truth )

As I understand it, the said method is doing reverse kegels combined with deep breathing?

I'm new on this so give me a bit to put my thoughts and info together for you breh. I've listened to the Way of the Superior Man teaching sessions more frequently than I've read the literature, so it'll be good to get that refresher also.

And I'm at the beginning of this journey so we're gonna be exchanging notes and learning together.

I'll give you a proper response soon breh

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

oh girl told me to stay the night this week.
I thought about shaving down there. but lol nah I'm good.
I'm a grab some beers drink em and fukk her all night.
I'm a need the beers cause she ain't that attractive
Ya boy need some tho