Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Don't sweat these hoes for getting love-struck so quick over a new nikka because that energy just doesn't last in the 2010's, mane. My mom was born in 1949. Pops was from 1953. That being said, people from those times could have lasting marriages or even relationships back then....

There's TOO much shyt out here these days getting women's attention.

Facebook. Twitter. IG. Snapchat. There's not ONE woman these days (Of course there's exceptions) that doesn't have all 4 of them app on their phone running simultaneously. While you could be smashing, she could be posting heart emoji's on nikkaz comments AND she could be responding to them shyts. If that's really what you consider "Bae" then your standards gotta be fukked up...Cause if that's really "BAE", she's going to reject ANY nikkaz advances and not just advertise online to hang out with some other nikkaz.

Mfs could go from a month, maybe a few months and boom, the break-up happens and mfs are in their feelings (as usual). Usually a nikka gets juiced of their $, connections and so forth and that's that....then a nikka looking like :mjcry:
 

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Don't sweat these hoes for getting love-struck so quick over a new nikka because that energy just doesn't last in the 2010's, mane. My mom was born in 1949. Pops was from 1953. That being said, people from those times could have lasting marriages or even relationships back then....

There's TOO much shyt out here these days getting women's attention.

Facebook. Twitter. IG. Snapchat. There's not ONE woman these days (Of course there's exceptions) that doesn't have all 4 of them app on their phone running simultaneously. While you could be smashing, she could be posting heart emoji's on nikkaz comments AND she could be responding to them shyts. If that's really what you consider "Bae" then your standards gotta be fukked up...Cause if that's really "BAE", she's going to reject ANY nikkaz advances and not just advertise online to hang out with some other nikkaz.

Mfs could go from a month, maybe a few months and boom, the break-up happens and mfs are in their feelings (as usual). Usually a nikka gets juiced of their $, connections and so forth and that's that....then a nikka looking like :mjcry:
I swear God be talking too me :wow:
 

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She pushed up on me. Been talking to her for a few weeks and I smashed 3 times.

So I'm starting to wonder lol
Legit bad chick too

dont be blinded by that. many will try to pin a baby on the first naive financially stable dude they can come across who isnt completely hideous. nevermind the potential std risks. nah man. but its good to have her in ur roster though. u can get more women through them seeing her with u.

but i doubt u'll listen to this. sounds to me u already know what u gon do. but i recommend u think about ur bank account.
 

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dont be blinded by that. many will try to pin a baby on the first naive financially stable dude they can come across who isnt completely hideous. nevermind the potential std risks. nah man. but its good to have her in ur roster though. u can get more women through them seeing her with u.

but i doubt u'll listen to this. sounds to me u already know what u gon do. but i recommend u think about ur bank account.
Oh im gonna listen. Im not one of those cats who learn the hardway. I took enough ls with women. Thanks for the advice
 

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So i've been single for a month... and on Friday after work, a homeboy (who's been divorced for 3 years - but he got bamboozled by a bytch looking for a green card and hasn't dated since he split with ex wife) brought to my attention that i'm too anxious/rushing to get into another relationship.


We weren't even drinking, just a casual homie night out/dinner and i was like, "Shiit, you're right!"



But since I cut off ties with my ex girlfriend, i've been on this rampage of approaching women, putting myself out there and even contacting old flames on my contact list.


It's been straight misses so far, no dates yet... but i bumped into this vivacious latina thang last night.


She's a realtor and seems really down to earth. She told me it was her bday so i opted to buy her a drink (i know the rules on this, but she didn't ask or insinuate it, and didn't ask her girls to come along, so i felt it was genuine).


After several minutes of chatting and getting familiar, I also told her that I was also out for a bday and she was adamant about meeting somebody who had the same bday as her so i introduced her to the homie and the rest of the crew. She was mad unpretentious, unassuming and down to earth.



I finally texted her a bit ago and things went extremely well. She wants to keep in touch and i'm working on asking her out for some chill time.



Wish me luck brehs. I feel so rusty. LOL>



Dating sucks breh. Also started reading MODERN ROMANCE and i can relate to this book so much. As another minority man who goes through the same kinds of dating and relationship and courtship woes as Aziz... the material hits me to the core.



Man, us generation x/millennials are fukked. LOL.




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Saw a chick downtown on her phone..black chick with glasses. I was waiting for a friend so said fukk it and set my sights on sitting near her....

As I got close that phone left her ear:steviej: I knew what it was then..we chatted for awhile and she has the same interest such as history. she works nearby and said she likes to comminucate in person rather than text. But I got her number..I asked first she was :usure: ..dropped it kept chatting then asked again mainly to let her know I want her..I hate texting to so i'm with it .

Plan on stopping by her job tomorrow since she nearby.

Summertime :ahh:
 

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Man my friend dates a legit bytch. he been dating her for about 3 years now. And she just always ruins the mood.
She's pregnant now too so its ten times worse.
She just always so dramatic and extra and whenever I want to hang with him its just like damn i wanna cuss her out.
He's been my best friend since middle school but we barely hang now but when we do i gotta deal with her.
just gonna cut my ties. :mjcry:
 
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