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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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NeilCartwright
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Shyt is crazy these days bc im 23, coming into my own, feeling my confidence rise, money and career are going well. Im still looking for a lil baby who gon listen
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
people keep saying do me (keep lifting, stack $$) but in my mind this would be the best place to meet quality black women.
I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
not sure if thats a sign or if im just in my feelings
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
people keep saying do me (keep lifting, stack $$) but in my mind this would be the best place to meet quality black women.I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
not sure if thats a sign or if im just in my feelingsDreamzeedream
Banned
I would just keep doing the bold, eventually, you a run into a Lil baby thats gone listenShyt is crazy these days bc im 23, coming into my own, feeling my confidence rise, money and career are going well. Im still looking for a lil baby who gon listen
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Shyt is crazy these days bc im 23, coming into my own, feeling my confidence rise, money and career are going well. Im still looking for a lil baby who gon listen
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
There is no "one" y'all gotta stop fooling yourselves. There are many yes, and you will have many.
Types U dont deal with
A few of these I learned the hard way
Disclaimer: I realize u can ignore some of these and find a gem but odds are these types cant be saved and isnt worth the trouble. But if u found one and lived happily ever after then congratulations, nikka. U won the lottery
Heres the ones i learned to NOT fukk with no matter how cool, how bad, how many degrees she has once she has these to me its a dealbreaker.
The fukkgirl list
Any type of substance abuse (drinks more than 2x a week, smokes alot of weed, does ANY party drugs molly coke ex ). Pothead chicks will fukk their dealers and soak up ur money. If she works and enjoys a toke on the weekends shes cool but if its every other day? Dealbreaker
Single mom-self explanatory
Any type of sex worker (stripper, pornstar etc)
Any girl who works as a :bartender/club promoter/Dj
Any girl who works in a majority male profession: cop,military, sports
Any girl who has majority or all male friends
Any girl who goes out to the club more than once a month without u
Any girl who makes a habit of approaching men
Any girl who has been in an abusive relationship
Any girl whose been raped/molested
Any girl who doesnt know their father or has a weak relationship with him
Any girl who even if they did have a dad growing up, doesnt respect him. If u ask ur girl hey can I spend the night at ur house if she doesnt say let me ask my father first since I dont wanna bring another man in the house she doesnt respect him. I think its sexy when a woman respects the #1 man in her life.
Any girl with a selfish princess mentality/spoiled rotten
Any attention starved woman
Any low self esteem woman/ or self deprecating woman
Any girl who goes for a specific type and ur not it (she usually dates thugs and ur not one)
Any girl who if shes non black, only dates black guys and not her own. These types of women are always trash. If she bashes her own and says she only dates black men, its a fetish and best beleive u aint the only bbc shes taking.
Any girl who doesnt align with ur interests (religion, politics etc)
Any girl who doesnt have a healthy hobby other than reality tv shopping and clubs
Any woman who doesnt work out/take care of herself
Any girl who bad talks her ex.
Any girl who brings up their ex alot.
Any girl whose been dogged out/cheated on in alot or all of relationships esp if she never takes blame for any of them
Any girl who generalizes men "all nikkas aint shyt/men are dogs". These bitter bytches say that but aint shyt themselves and cheat as much with the excuse that men do it. Think of Rihanna and her bitter bytch memes.
Any girl who is a bad communicator. Watch how she acts when things are going bad or after arguments. If shes the type to stay mad, watch her.
Any girl who has a bunch of selfies on any social media site especially revealing ones. No more than 500 followers.
Any girl whose under 25 with more than 10 partners and over 25 with more than 15 (and im being nice about it)
Any girl who has sexual hang ups like she wont give head or only wants to fukk with the lights off (prolly a deeper issue there)
A bytch who cant cook
A woman who tries to act like a man or says she acts like a guy in dating
Long list huh? I know some of yall like "dam, thats like 90% of women", or "young savage why u going on them so hard". Because if u go by this list u can still get fukked over. But the odds of that happening cutting these typa chicks out ur dating pool cuts it down like a 10% chance of happening damn near. If u wanna take the risk on some of these women its cool but ur increasing ur odds. If u cut off women on this list the odds are lower. I seen dudes wife strippers and live happily ever after but can the next man do with another stripper and not get fukked over? Probably not.
So heres the deal. If u still wanna companion but u feel like ull be missing out on alot of women then just date these women short term (3 months to a year, maybe 2), dont get emotionally attached, cheat on them and have options open, and the second they start affecting ur quality of life check them or drop em. There damaged women anyways so there used to it, dont feel bad for em. Besides the more u dog em the more they pine for u. If u treat these women good and with respect they will resent u. Save that for the 10% of women worth a dam. These women also make good side chicks/FWBs.
If u actually have morals disregard that and just weed out these women thru trial and error until u can find a woman who appreciates a good man and doesnt need to be cheated on 10X and knocked upside the head to fall in love.These types of women i listed are only attached to the emotional highs and lows aint shyt nikkas give them so ur better off waiting. The only thing with this option is ull be single for a loooong time.
Ive done both . A better quality is more fufilling like a home cooked meal while the bytches are like fast food. Quality or Quantity
A few of these I learned the hard way
Disclaimer: I realize u can ignore some of these and find a gem but odds are these types cant be saved and isnt worth the trouble. But if u found one and lived happily ever after then congratulations, nikka. U won the lottery
Heres the ones i learned to NOT fukk with no matter how cool, how bad, how many degrees she has once she has these to me its a dealbreaker.
The fukkgirl list
Any type of substance abuse (drinks more than 2x a week, smokes alot of weed, does ANY party drugs molly coke ex ). Pothead chicks will fukk their dealers and soak up ur money. If she works and enjoys a toke on the weekends shes cool but if its every other day? Dealbreaker
Single mom-self explanatory
Any type of sex worker (stripper, pornstar etc)
Any girl who works as a :bartender/club promoter/Dj
Any girl who works in a majority male profession: cop,military, sports
Any girl who has majority or all male friends
Any girl who goes out to the club more than once a month without u
Any girl who makes a habit of approaching men
Any girl who has been in an abusive relationship
Any girl whose been raped/molested
Any girl who doesnt know their father or has a weak relationship with him
Any girl who even if they did have a dad growing up, doesnt respect him. If u ask ur girl hey can I spend the night at ur house if she doesnt say let me ask my father first since I dont wanna bring another man in the house she doesnt respect him. I think its sexy when a woman respects the #1 man in her life.
Any girl with a selfish princess mentality/spoiled rotten
Any attention starved woman
Any low self esteem woman/ or self deprecating woman
Any girl who goes for a specific type and ur not it (she usually dates thugs and ur not one)
Any girl who if shes non black, only dates black guys and not her own. These types of women are always trash. If she bashes her own and says she only dates black men, its a fetish and best beleive u aint the only bbc shes taking.
Any girl who doesnt align with ur interests (religion, politics etc)
Any girl who doesnt have a healthy hobby other than reality tv shopping and clubs
Any woman who doesnt work out/take care of herself
Any girl who bad talks her ex.
Any girl who brings up their ex alot.
Any girl whose been dogged out/cheated on in alot or all of relationships esp if she never takes blame for any of them
Any girl who generalizes men "all nikkas aint shyt/men are dogs". These bitter bytches say that but aint shyt themselves and cheat as much with the excuse that men do it. Think of Rihanna and her bitter bytch memes.
Any girl who is a bad communicator. Watch how she acts when things are going bad or after arguments. If shes the type to stay mad, watch her.
Any girl who has a bunch of selfies on any social media site especially revealing ones. No more than 500 followers.
Any girl whose under 25 with more than 10 partners and over 25 with more than 15 (and im being nice about it)
Any girl who has sexual hang ups like she wont give head or only wants to fukk with the lights off (prolly a deeper issue there)
A bytch who cant cook
A woman who tries to act like a man or says she acts like a guy in dating
Long list huh? I know some of yall like "dam, thats like 90% of women", or "young savage why u going on them so hard". Because if u go by this list u can still get fukked over. But the odds of that happening cutting these typa chicks out ur dating pool cuts it down like a 10% chance of happening damn near. If u wanna take the risk on some of these women its cool but ur increasing ur odds. If u cut off women on this list the odds are lower. I seen dudes wife strippers and live happily ever after but can the next man do with another stripper and not get fukked over? Probably not.
So heres the deal. If u still wanna companion but u feel like ull be missing out on alot of women then just date these women short term (3 months to a year, maybe 2), dont get emotionally attached, cheat on them and have options open, and the second they start affecting ur quality of life check them or drop em. There damaged women anyways so there used to it, dont feel bad for em. Besides the more u dog em the more they pine for u. If u treat these women good and with respect they will resent u. Save that for the 10% of women worth a dam. These women also make good side chicks/FWBs.
If u actually have morals disregard that and just weed out these women thru trial and error until u can find a woman who appreciates a good man and doesnt need to be cheated on 10X and knocked upside the head to fall in love.These types of women i listed are only attached to the emotional highs and lows aint shyt nikkas give them so ur better off waiting. The only thing with this option is ull be single for a loooong time.
Ive done both . A better quality is more fufilling like a home cooked meal while the bytches are like fast food. Quality or Quantity
Ima drop a guide on how to deal with the 90% of low quality women
And the 10% of quality women
What to do if u find out ur girl is cheating
What to do if she finds out ur cheating
How to cheat for dummies
And how to build a roster
I got alot of game from my Uncle whose a pimp. He always said im giving u the tools so u either be the aint shyt nikka or a good quality man in a good relationship. Its up to u
And the 10% of quality women
What to do if u find out ur girl is cheating
What to do if she finds out ur cheating
How to cheat for dummies
And how to build a roster
I got alot of game from my Uncle whose a pimp. He always said im giving u the tools so u either be the aint shyt nikka or a good quality man in a good relationship. Its up to u
Exactly isn't it funny how the "one" is always in your city? 
So if your one died tomorrow are you single till death?
What If your one married someone else and the person they married they were the one for someone else who now married someone else because they didn't marry their one.
So if your one died tomorrow are you single till death?
What If your one married someone else and the person they married they were the one for someone else who now married someone else because they didn't marry their one.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Grade A list homie! Real talk when did dudes get so scared of being single? What part of the game is that? Talking like they're women and afraid of becoming cat ladies lol.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Exactly isn't it funny how the "one" is always in your city?
So if your one died tomorrow are you single till death?
What If your one married someone else and the person they married they were the one for someone else who now married someone else because they didn't marry their one.
Pretty much. All that line of thinking will do is cripple you mentally. You'll be less likely to see warning signs and even worse you won't be willing to walk away from an obviously bad situation, should one arise. It makes men come off as needy and that's probably the most unattractive quality for a man to have.
1) If I'm not home, I'm at work or in the gym...both inappropriate places to push up on women. The gym isn't that bad but my body isn't at the point where women are looking...I know because I look at them.why not
2) Until I have my own spot I don't see much of a point in "putting myself out there". Yes, I know "but my dusty ass cousin does it" but I'm not him. Only pride says I should have some piece of ass but reality says I'm not offering anything that flips that switch in a chick's head so I have work to do and will for a while.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
Who u lice with?
Mother and now grandmother
Alright, I'm back and will try to elaborate the best I can. I'm still trying to figure it out, so let me know if something doesn't make sense.
Right now, I can easily get as many orgasms as I can when by myself
But I haven't been able to achieve this in the bedroom yet
To be fair, I haven't had a lot of at bats lately cuz work has been crazy, but I could def feel the progress.
Anyway, the gist of it all is that my doing the kegel/PC muscle squeeze and controlling your breathing deeply, you will still have your orgasm, while holding off semen from being ejaculated like a dam. So instead of losing it with the ejaculation, you're absorbing the life force upwards into your brain and circulating it throughout your entire body.
Sounds crazy, but like breh said earlier in the thread, nothing will make a man raised on busting nuts stop doing that all the time until and unless you feel that difference for yourself.
It's like the difference between today's best HD video and a shytty portable black and white TV
Instead of losing the energy and becoming lethargic, my erection goes down slightly (while still staying hard and in the game), the orgasm feels amazing and in the whole body and it infuses you with energy on some Dragon Ball Z shyt.
When you go the second, third, fourth, fifth etc round, you'll be able to keep lasting and getting more and more relaxed, yet more and more energized. It's hard to explain, but it's like I felt the secrets of the world flowing through my veins making me more tapped into the universe and apart of everything
And that was just from beating my dikk
I can't imagine how this can feel fukking until the sun comes up, keeping eye contact and presence with my woman and building that energy, giving and taking and enjoying the sensations the whole time, like a sexual meditation adventure.
I'm still a baby on this journey, but the first thing you need to know is that you, me and everyone doesn't breath nearly as deeply or properly as we need to. We have an orbit of energy that flows throughout our body, but that energy gets stuck because the breath stops maybe in the nasal passage or throat, instead of all the way down deep into your abdomen.
Training yourself to naturally inhale and exhale deeply, stay focused and feel the sensations in your body, without running from the sensations with an ejaculation is the name of the game. I really feel like all the stuff in this thread dealing with working out, eating clean, meditation etc all goes hand in hand with this and makes it a natural part of your life, even if you aren't specifically training for the bedroom.
So when we master this, sex won't just be about focusing on the pressure in your dikk and getting rid of it, but will be a total body experience. I wanted to cry once I started doing some breathing exercises and felt how rejuvenating it felt and I realized that I had been starving myself my full energy my whole life.
Here are a few videos that I think will be supplementary in the journey. Some explicitly deal with tantric/taoist/enlightened sex, while others will help you out with stuff like breathing and getting used to circulating your energy.
I can probably also help you out with some literature. Mantak Chia (also referenced in video below) is someone on that David Deida type wavelength who you can't go wrong reading, watching and listening everything he has ever put out. I was on his very early in my journey but wasn't all the way ready for it yet. After studying some David Deida and many other materials, I know for a fact that I'm able to go back to it and master it.
All in all, the phrase "everything is everything" is so on point, because we bring what we are, do and feel to everything. So getting to understand the intelligence in your body will be helpful in unlocking the mind and vice versa, which will have tremendous effects with the type of sex you have, which will energize you for your life goals and so on and so forth.
I'll look to dig up some Mantak Chia PDFs. In the meantime, check out these videos below and let me know if you need any help putting the pieces together.
You, Sir, are a fukkin champ.
I can't even begin to tell you, along with the rest of you guys here, how excited I am to be on this journey. Man the amount of potential and energy I already find myselft unlocking left and right...
Got a playa out here feeling like I got the cheat codes to life yo
And I'm only getting started with this shyt
I watched all the videos in that post with an open mind, and I got The Alchemist on my reading list now. Just ordered that boy Mantak Chia's The Multiorgasmic Man as well
A nikka will need to buss them nuts at the end of a session, when I'm having fun with my girl, but getting my Tao on should definitely get me from very good to a super beast To some of y'all thinking what does all this have to quick lil gems on dealing with women...
100% my bredrin. 100%. Everything really is everything.
We could probably answer every question in this topic by concluding:
Lift heavy and often, do cardio, breathe deep, eat plant based and whole foods (my addition
), respect and love yourself, be honest and direct with women, find your true self and keep on working at it continually and stay true to being the best fukkin possible version of yourself all day, every day.What a time...
