Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
fukk it.,ima just beat my meat and go to bed n get up n look for jobs in the morning and do muay thai. Ain't no sense in playing these games w/her
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
shyt then if it just gets worse imma go find me an asian chick to break off
NeilCartwright
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Shyt is crazy these days bc im 23, coming into my own, feeling my confidence rise, money and career are going well. Im still looking for a lil baby who gon listen
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
people keep saying do me (keep lifting, stack $$) but in my mind this would be the best place to meet quality black women.
I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
not sure if thats a sign or if im just in my feelings
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
people keep saying do me (keep lifting, stack $$) but in my mind this would be the best place to meet quality black women.I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
not sure if thats a sign or if im just in my feelingsDreamzeedream
Banned
I would just keep doing the bold, eventually, you a run into a Lil baby thats gone listenShyt is crazy these days bc im 23, coming into my own, feeling my confidence rise, money and career are going well. Im still looking for a lil baby who gon listen
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Shyt is crazy these days bc im 23, coming into my own, feeling my confidence rise, money and career are going well. Im still looking for a lil baby who gon listen
I can go out and pull hoes but im still looking for that "one". Tried to pull one from Spelman or in Atlanta in general and nothing of substance is coming to fruition
To make it worse im going to have to move in a couple months to a different state bc of this military shii
I was just in NC and DC/Baltimore. They had black chicks but not the same quality as Atlanta. Shyt can get to a nikka sometimes. To make it worse i had a dream about a bih from Spelman i used to talk to last night, we had a happy home and everything
There is no "one" y'all gotta stop fooling yourselves. There are many yes, and you will have many.
Types U dont deal with
A few of these I learned the hard way
Disclaimer: I realize u can ignore some of these and find a gem but odds are these types cant be saved and isnt worth the trouble. But if u found one and lived happily ever after then congratulations, nikka. U won the lottery
Heres the ones i learned to NOT fukk with no matter how cool, how bad, how many degrees she has once she has these to me its a dealbreaker.
The fukkgirl list
Any type of substance abuse (drinks more than 2x a week, smokes alot of weed, does ANY party drugs molly coke ex ). Pothead chicks will fukk their dealers and soak up ur money. If she works and enjoys a toke on the weekends shes cool but if its every other day? Dealbreaker
Single mom-self explanatory
Any type of sex worker (stripper, pornstar etc)
Any girl who works as a :bartender/club promoter/Dj
Any girl who works in a majority male profession: cop,military, sports
Any girl who has majority or all male friends
Any girl who goes out to the club more than once a month without u
Any girl who makes a habit of approaching men
Any girl who has been in an abusive relationship
Any girl whose been raped/molested
Any girl who doesnt know their father or has a weak relationship with him
Any girl who even if they did have a dad growing up, doesnt respect him. If u ask ur girl hey can I spend the night at ur house if she doesnt say let me ask my father first since I dont wanna bring another man in the house she doesnt respect him. I think its sexy when a woman respects the #1 man in her life.
Any girl with a selfish princess mentality/spoiled rotten
Any attention starved woman
Any low self esteem woman/ or self deprecating woman
Any girl who goes for a specific type and ur not it (she usually dates thugs and ur not one)
Any girl who if shes non black, only dates black guys and not her own. These types of women are always trash. If she bashes her own and says she only dates black men, its a fetish and best beleive u aint the only bbc shes taking.
Any girl who doesnt align with ur interests (religion, politics etc)
Any girl who doesnt have a healthy hobby other than reality tv shopping and clubs
Any woman who doesnt work out/take care of herself
Any girl who bad talks her ex.
Any girl who brings up their ex alot.
Any girl whose been dogged out/cheated on in alot or all of relationships esp if she never takes blame for any of them
Any girl who generalizes men "all nikkas aint shyt/men are dogs". These bitter bytches say that but aint shyt themselves and cheat as much with the excuse that men do it. Think of Rihanna and her bitter bytch memes.
Any girl who is a bad communicator. Watch how she acts when things are going bad or after arguments. If shes the type to stay mad, watch her.
Any girl who has a bunch of selfies on any social media site especially revealing ones. No more than 500 followers.
Any girl whose under 25 with more than 10 partners and over 25 with more than 15 (and im being nice about it)
Any girl who has sexual hang ups like she wont give head or only wants to fukk with the lights off (prolly a deeper issue there)
A bytch who cant cook
A woman who tries to act like a man or says she acts like a guy in dating
Long list huh? I know some of yall like "dam, thats like 90% of women", or "young savage why u going on them so hard". Because if u go by this list u can still get fukked over. But the odds of that happening cutting these typa chicks out ur dating pool cuts it down like a 10% chance of happening damn near. If u wanna take the risk on some of these women its cool but ur increasing ur odds. If u cut off women on this list the odds are lower. I seen dudes wife strippers and live happily ever after but can the next man do with another stripper and not get fukked over? Probably not.
So heres the deal. If u still wanna companion but u feel like ull be missing out on alot of women then just date these women short term (3 months to a year, maybe 2), dont get emotionally attached, cheat on them and have options open, and the second they start affecting ur quality of life check them or drop em. There damaged women anyways so there used to it, dont feel bad for em. Besides the more u dog em the more they pine for u. If u treat these women good and with respect they will resent u. Save that for the 10% of women worth a dam. These women also make good side chicks/FWBs.
If u actually have morals disregard that and just weed out these women thru trial and error until u can find a woman who appreciates a good man and doesnt need to be cheated on 10X and knocked upside the head to fall in love.These types of women i listed are only attached to the emotional highs and lows aint shyt nikkas give them so ur better off waiting. The only thing with this option is ull be single for a loooong time.
Ive done both . A better quality is more fufilling like a home cooked meal while the bytches are like fast food. Quality or Quantity
A few of these I learned the hard way
Disclaimer: I realize u can ignore some of these and find a gem but odds are these types cant be saved and isnt worth the trouble. But if u found one and lived happily ever after then congratulations, nikka. U won the lottery
Heres the ones i learned to NOT fukk with no matter how cool, how bad, how many degrees she has once she has these to me its a dealbreaker.
The fukkgirl list
Any type of substance abuse (drinks more than 2x a week, smokes alot of weed, does ANY party drugs molly coke ex ). Pothead chicks will fukk their dealers and soak up ur money. If she works and enjoys a toke on the weekends shes cool but if its every other day? Dealbreaker
Single mom-self explanatory
Any type of sex worker (stripper, pornstar etc)
Any girl who works as a :bartender/club promoter/Dj
Any girl who works in a majority male profession: cop,military, sports
Any girl who has majority or all male friends
Any girl who goes out to the club more than once a month without u
Any girl who makes a habit of approaching men
Any girl who has been in an abusive relationship
Any girl whose been raped/molested
Any girl who doesnt know their father or has a weak relationship with him
Any girl who even if they did have a dad growing up, doesnt respect him. If u ask ur girl hey can I spend the night at ur house if she doesnt say let me ask my father first since I dont wanna bring another man in the house she doesnt respect him. I think its sexy when a woman respects the #1 man in her life.
Any girl with a selfish princess mentality/spoiled rotten
Any attention starved woman
Any low self esteem woman/ or self deprecating woman
Any girl who goes for a specific type and ur not it (she usually dates thugs and ur not one)
Any girl who if shes non black, only dates black guys and not her own. These types of women are always trash. If she bashes her own and says she only dates black men, its a fetish and best beleive u aint the only bbc shes taking.
Any girl who doesnt align with ur interests (religion, politics etc)
Any girl who doesnt have a healthy hobby other than reality tv shopping and clubs
Any woman who doesnt work out/take care of herself
Any girl who bad talks her ex.
Any girl who brings up their ex alot.
Any girl whose been dogged out/cheated on in alot or all of relationships esp if she never takes blame for any of them
Any girl who generalizes men "all nikkas aint shyt/men are dogs". These bitter bytches say that but aint shyt themselves and cheat as much with the excuse that men do it. Think of Rihanna and her bitter bytch memes.
Any girl who is a bad communicator. Watch how she acts when things are going bad or after arguments. If shes the type to stay mad, watch her.
Any girl who has a bunch of selfies on any social media site especially revealing ones. No more than 500 followers.
Any girl whose under 25 with more than 10 partners and over 25 with more than 15 (and im being nice about it)
Any girl who has sexual hang ups like she wont give head or only wants to fukk with the lights off (prolly a deeper issue there)
A bytch who cant cook
A woman who tries to act like a man or says she acts like a guy in dating
Long list huh? I know some of yall like "dam, thats like 90% of women", or "young savage why u going on them so hard". Because if u go by this list u can still get fukked over. But the odds of that happening cutting these typa chicks out ur dating pool cuts it down like a 10% chance of happening damn near. If u wanna take the risk on some of these women its cool but ur increasing ur odds. If u cut off women on this list the odds are lower. I seen dudes wife strippers and live happily ever after but can the next man do with another stripper and not get fukked over? Probably not.
So heres the deal. If u still wanna companion but u feel like ull be missing out on alot of women then just date these women short term (3 months to a year, maybe 2), dont get emotionally attached, cheat on them and have options open, and the second they start affecting ur quality of life check them or drop em. There damaged women anyways so there used to it, dont feel bad for em. Besides the more u dog em the more they pine for u. If u treat these women good and with respect they will resent u. Save that for the 10% of women worth a dam. These women also make good side chicks/FWBs.
If u actually have morals disregard that and just weed out these women thru trial and error until u can find a woman who appreciates a good man and doesnt need to be cheated on 10X and knocked upside the head to fall in love.These types of women i listed are only attached to the emotional highs and lows aint shyt nikkas give them so ur better off waiting. The only thing with this option is ull be single for a loooong time.
Ive done both . A better quality is more fufilling like a home cooked meal while the bytches are like fast food. Quality or Quantity
Ima drop a guide on how to deal with the 90% of low quality women
And the 10% of quality women
What to do if u find out ur girl is cheating
What to do if she finds out ur cheating
How to cheat for dummies
And how to build a roster
I got alot of game from my Uncle whose a pimp. He always said im giving u the tools so u either be the aint shyt nikka or a good quality man in a good relationship. Its up to u
And the 10% of quality women
What to do if u find out ur girl is cheating
What to do if she finds out ur cheating
How to cheat for dummies
And how to build a roster
I got alot of game from my Uncle whose a pimp. He always said im giving u the tools so u either be the aint shyt nikka or a good quality man in a good relationship. Its up to u
Exactly isn't it funny how the "one" is always in your city? 
So if your one died tomorrow are you single till death?
What If your one married someone else and the person they married they were the one for someone else who now married someone else because they didn't marry their one.
So if your one died tomorrow are you single till death?
What If your one married someone else and the person they married they were the one for someone else who now married someone else because they didn't marry their one.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Grade A list homie! Real talk when did dudes get so scared of being single? What part of the game is that? Talking like they're women and afraid of becoming cat ladies lol.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Exactly isn't it funny how the "one" is always in your city?
So if your one died tomorrow are you single till death?
What If your one married someone else and the person they married they were the one for someone else who now married someone else because they didn't marry their one.
Pretty much. All that line of thinking will do is cripple you mentally. You'll be less likely to see warning signs and even worse you won't be willing to walk away from an obviously bad situation, should one arise. It makes men come off as needy and that's probably the most unattractive quality for a man to have.
1) If I'm not home, I'm at work or in the gym...both inappropriate places to push up on women. The gym isn't that bad but my body isn't at the point where women are looking...I know because I look at them.why not
2) Until I have my own spot I don't see much of a point in "putting myself out there". Yes, I know "but my dusty ass cousin does it" but I'm not him. Only pride says I should have some piece of ass but reality says I'm not offering anything that flips that switch in a chick's head so I have work to do and will for a while.
Dreamzeedream
Banned
Who u lice with?
Mother and now grandmother