this is for some of the brehs getting their feet wet. i just want yall to let go of the fear you have approaching women.
STOP overthinking when it comes to approaching females. Sometimes, you see a gorgeous chick and because it happens so fast, because its such a random encounter (ie. walking down the sidewalk) there is nothing you can come up with that is going to be slick or "break the ice". In these situations yall gotta just be honest and forthcoming...but confident above all else. The reason is because if the chick finds you attractive and/or generally feels your demeanor she is going to give you the # regardless of whats said. And if she doesnt, best believe she'll reject you politely 9/10 tines. You'd be surprised how well being straight up works. When I say straight up though I dont mean "damn your ass is fat. You look good. Can i get your number?" Thats too sleezy. But a polite "excuse me, sorry to bother you" and then saying whats on your mind before asking if you can introduce yourself will get the job done. Trust me on this. This even applies if its a girl you are going out of your way to approach.
There have been so many girls I've delt with or fukked just by saying "excuse me, sorry to bother you but i walked past you earlier, and honestly just thought you were very beautiful. If you aint in a rush I was just hoping I could introduce myself and talk to your for a bit". Extend your hand, shake hers, then just take it from there. As how shes doing, what shes up to, where shes from. Give it a couple minutes...say you dont wanna take up her time and have to head to work, class or whatever and just ask for the number.
PS: Sometimes you mighta wanna ask if she has a boyfriend during the initial intro so you dont waste your time, unless you dont mind fukking taken girls. That way if the girl does not have an interest you are also giving her an out to lie, say she has a boyfriend and keep it moving; save yall both some time in the process.
Its that simple brehs. Trust me.
i've done u-turns while walking, i've crossed streets, i've gone into women stores to talk to girls that I saw while going about my day. As long as youre polite there is nothing to lose other than a couple seconds/minutes of your life. No shame in my game and I eat accordingly.
If its at work obviously you got to treat the situation delicately. Stay away from complimenting her looks until yall have built a rapport. Just introduce yourself and ask what shes up to for lunch, or ask her about what she does/her job. Then take the convo from there
I will not be denied. Scooped the digits and set something up for tomorrow. Take your shots brehs, there is nothing you should fear .
