So since this weekend, I had zero contact with ol girl (a few pages back o here)... and I just stayed on my grind and on my purpose... until yesterday afternoon...
got the text from her saying she wanted to talk

Now, I said ok and I told her she had to meet me at my hotel or somewhere neutral, I was not going to her. She is not the dominant one. She said she didn't feel like traveling and did not want to come. I responded with "ok"...and left it at that.
Hours went by....
got the text again late evening, saying she would meet me down in the lobby of my hotel where its quite. We got a booth in the restaurant and had some drinks.
We talked and got our issues out in the open and decided to be friends. after we finished our drinks I told her I had to get my coat from up stairs. mind you, I have a cold so she asked if I steamed my face to help break up the congestion. I said no, so we go up to my room and she instantly loved where I was staying at. she helped me steam my face; we were up there for like 20 minutes. I asked her 'what time is your train back home'?
She said 'the last train don't leave until 11pm'...

yall know what that means, right?
I was playing dig-doug all in that culo last night. AMS said when males exert confidence and project power - they p*ssy get real wet; she was wetter than the amazon rain forest, dikk instantly creamed and glazed up like a honey-bun snack. She even called in sick to stay with me over night.
I took the lessons from AMS and never called her after the breakup even though I wanted to everyday. I didn't want her to have that power over me - she was going to submit to my power - and she did. She can tell I was not afraid to lose her because I had reconditioned my mind that I have an abundance mindset.. She is only 1 woman compare to the rest of the world; that's like 1 grain of sand at the beach.
truthfully, I would have displayed beta male qualities such as calling and texting her and telling a woman how I feel and that we should talk things out... not this time and for the future, regardless of what her status is, not ever again. It was such a great feeling, regardless if she contacted me or not.