Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[WIA20XX]

if you ask a woman out and she says, "what do you have in mind?" before just agreeing to a date and time...just ghost her

You can flip this one.

This is some old school stuff,

"What do you have in mind?"

"An adventure. I'll tell you what to wear and what to bring. Are you game or are you a lame?"

From there, you build up some mystery.

I'll tell the chick to wear flats, clothes that allow quick movement, and a full jar of cinnamon.

"What's the cinnamon for..."
"Show up on time, and you'll find out"

 

[RaspberryFitted]

A breh on here said something along the lines on how American Culture molds Men to be workhorse simps in the workforce and at home and that IG post highlights that.

 

[WIA20XX]

You can do all these things as a corporate 9-5 square

Men need to pushback on this dumbass shyt.

This bad boy vs school boy narrative has to be pushed by people that don't have anyone locked up.

Most of them REAL BAD BOYS, don't have broads coming for visits, letters, phone calls....A few do, 99% don't. And even that 1%, the visits fall off after a while.

So that "alpha bad boy swag" is basically a Hollywood invention.

Perfect example was Felon Bae. Them broads can peruse hella mug shots - all of them dudes fit the bad boy criteria by DEFINITION.
They will focus on the pretty boy.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I noticed the gym girls rarely go out and leave the house

I only see them at the gym

And then I go to social events and all I see is fat chicks smh

they too busy barfing from their eating disorders or doing only fans lol.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Those points listed is an example of men without a backbone

Once dudes start seeing women as people instead of gods, that's when the game changes.

Dominance, leadership and assertiveness are some of the best core traits of being a man

 

[The ADD]

 

[re'up]

What is going on with that Miami Vice account lol

Crockett and Tubbs relationship advice? Don't have the love interest die by the 45 minute mark?!

all these rules people come up with, it's too much. You have to have guidelines and a sense of self, you don't need this intense gradient of standards, for me, at least.

If you are asking someone out, you should have a plan. So, no one should be asking "what do you have in mind?", because you will have led with that, always say just start strong. Should be an already agreed on interest, oh you like _______? Let's try this place. But, I guess a lot of those interactiosn are taking place digitally. "What do you have in mind" is like a qualifier, to see what you got.

Doing a omakase dinner at a resort in Laguna Beach, it's like a $300 dinner, pre paid, thought about trying to invite someone, but too many variables.

 

[Claudex]

You can flip this one.

This is some old school stuff,

"What do you have in mind?"

"An adventure. I'll tell you what to wear and what to bring. Are you game or are you a lame?"

From there, you build up some mystery.

I'll tell the chick to wear flats, clothes that allow quick movement, and a full jar of cinnamon.

"What's the cinnamon for..."
"Show up on time, and you'll find out"

Well...what is the cinnamon for?

 

[Ahadi]

What is going on with that Miami Vice account lol

Crockett and Tubbs relationship advice? Don't have the love interest die by the 45 minute mark?!

all these rules people come up with, it's too much. You have to have guidelines and a sense of self, you don't need this intense gradient of standards, for me, at least.

If you are asking someone out, you should have a plan. So, no one should be asking "what do you have in mind?", because you will have led with that, always say just start strong. Should be an already agreed on interest, oh you like _______? Let's try this place. But, I guess a lot of those interactiosn are taking place digitally. "What do you have in mind" is like a qualifier, to see what you got.

Doing a omakase dinner at a resort in Laguna Beach, it's like a $300 dinner, pre paid, thought about trying to invite someone, but too many variables.

This is the way.

Except some Omakase dinner for some random joint lol. You gotta earn that.

 

[Ahadi]

 

[Ahadi]

This joint told me she was celibate for 8 months. Bushed.

 

[re'up]

This is the way.

Except some Omakase dinner for some random joint lol. You gotta earn that.

well this is the dilemma, that's not how I think because while I am fine going alone, it could an ever more memorable time with someone, so the idea of "earning" is like counter productive for me

I throw out like one night offers, often to more than one person. I got you one the dinner, whatever happens, no expectations, just show up and have fun, would rather get someone who is financially up and likes those kinds of things, and cover like 1/2 of hers than the whole tab, but that's a narrow demo.

when it's pre paid in Laguna Beach which like an hour from me, too many variables. I pay and someone cancels, hard to get a last minute replacement. That's my dilemma.

 

[WIA20XX]

Well...what is the cinnamon for?

It is the standing shoe in Nope.

 

[Ohene]

You can do all these things as a corporate 9-5 square

Men need to pushback on this dumbass shyt.

perception > reality. dont forget that breh

 

[RaspberryFitted]

perception > reality. dont forget that breh

I know breh. A mf can be timid, cowardly, no backbone, etc.. but if he has the look then that’s all that matters