I fukkin give up. Dealing w women still obviously but I got to let go this idea of actually having a quality companion of redeeming virtues and qualities. Got a new smash set up this weekend that I’m barely excited for hopefully she knocks it out the park. I think what my plan is going to be is to go back w one of my ex’s I just don’t know/care which one it will be and then just periodically have a side option or two and keep it pushing if you have what u perceive as true love get a stronghold on that mf cus that shyt is becoming more rare by the day
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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What happened?
Honestly just a broken heart. Still fukked up over a girl I had a falling out w Summer ‘22 and I’ve been in relationships and mad women since then, but I still find myself hung up on her from time to time. It’s not as frequent as it used to be but sleepless nights like these don’t help. I want her back but I’m not delusional that bridge is likely burned for good so now I have to deal w those consequences by dealing w this shytty dating pool I’ve allowed myself. I can get w the real conventional good girls but they bore the tf out of me I need a girl w some edge to match my speed just a lil and failed toxic relationships go w the territory but I’ve just taken too many on the chin to realistically take another relationship serious. It’s like this every 6-8 years I find a woman I’m absolutely enamored w and it falls apart then I may or may not get in a relationship and if I do I’m still thinking of the old girl 2-3 relationships after then rinse and repeat but the heart breaks have hurt more significantly w time to the point I can’t stomach that kind of feeling anymore.
. the issue is men plan for the future. When it comes to hoes take that shyt day by day and enjoy the ride and don't invest anything you can't lose. Plan the future FOR YOURSELF because that's the only thing promised lol. Women should be a bonus when y'all around each other but ain't our job to remove their agency (nor be victim to it)
What country is she from?
Uganda
Live life do what you enjoy don't think about it and poof. You owe no one anything.
Before I met my wife I was talking to this girl and we went out like five times
.I always felt like I had to make the first move etc. so meh once I met my wife and things were going well I just stopped communication with the other chick
Back in the day I'd feel bad not anymore
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
Better than your previous situation
Overall she fit my basis. In shape, big t*ts, makes money but her being way too emotional had her thinking of things that I was not actually doing. It was weird. Lol she admitted she wanted us to move together to make the proposal happen faster
.Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
What are y'all using to meet women? I downloaded BLK
. It's turned into POF. The options .
Never give a woman the impression that you are not busy or your time isn't valuable. even if you ain't doing shyt, she doesn't need to know that
"I will have to check my schedule and get back to you" followed days later by "I'm free this weekend if you are still interested" is one of the most playa shyt ever
"I will have to check my schedule and get back to you" followed days later by "I'm free this weekend if you are still interested" is one of the most playa shyt ever
That’s old news fam. No need to discuss her furtherOverall she fit my basis. In shape, big t*ts, makes money but her being way too emotional had her thinking of things that I was not actually doing. It was weird. Lol she admitted she wanted us to move together to make the proposal happen faster
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Amor fati
Superstar
This is probably the move I'm most likely going to do, once I've got my stuff sorted.
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
Shout out to Hinge for always providing me with quality black women 
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Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
Is a bar and grill a good place for a first date?
They serve burgers, pizza, fries, beer, wings, stuff like that.
They serve burgers, pizza, fries, beer, wings, stuff like that.
Real rap, if you're approaching the date like you just want to get to know the girl, it's totally fine.
There are other schools of thought, but then it becomes a question of intention.
Most dudes don't have any real sense of intention. They just want to see how things play out.