skyrunner1
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I had an ex from college (we're in our 30s now) tell me how she thought more men would have "instagram apartments" and she felt let down when a new dude she was dating didn't have that
The algo got these women in a chokehold.
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This reminds me of some of my faulty thinking years ago and how us as humans think one thing, when we get the results its actually not what we want.. Have had it happen with home, car and even thinking wanting a girl into sports..

Had a girl I had past history with that we link back up after like 5 years, we talking on phone about to link up for first time and she mention she is really excited to see my place, Im like why?
Then start mentioning how they remember my previous spot (Kinda like this but not decked out with accessories, just kinda loft vibe in Wynwood part of town when it was coming up and popping, shyt is disneyland commercial now) and she never wanted to leave, she loved the vibe and she still looks at photos she took there, yada yada.Always remember, its how they look to how of use you can be, what status can they get from you, what utility can you be to them. That IG link, it would allow them to showcase on their socials and create whatever fake content they can think of. With cars its even worse, I would imagine because thats with you more and majority of people dont see your house. I got more what are we questions when I upgraded, I remember when it first happened, I was not expecting that..
.. Like I had better experiences with my first wheels (Mitsubishi Galant!/Maxima/Acura/Infiniti) than when I started getting nicer stuff, you think you gonna get better results but it really just makes you a target and bring out the worst in people..Being aware of this stuff now, I guess its easier to handle but back then it was complete mind fukk, like baby you never asked me these questions before, why the switch up?!

Oh and yes, Tiktok got these girls in such a chokehold and changing behavior that people have no idea how deep and fast things are changing.
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