Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Commenting on interior design in a very specific way, I think it is some sort of conscious/sub conscious of projecting themselves there, or picturing themselves there, taking possession of it, in a sense. it can also be condescending and annoying, like you said, you come to my house and criticize the interior design? Like no one does that in polite or impolite society. It's basics.

I have a very minimalist taste for my personal space. I can appreciate all kinds of ID or whatever, but mine is sparse. I would live damn near like De Niro in Heat if I could. Unfurnished house with a bed and paper plates. The pieces I got a decade ago are like upper tier designer. I remember some comments from some girls who still lived at home, and I was looking at them kinda funny. Like at least get your own spot and see what it's like. I would never walk into someone's house and just start telling them what to do, unsolicited. Like it's THEIR space.

 

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I'll try to put this in words, and someone can maybe help me out, I interact with more girls in their 20's than is probably common for whatever reason. I just turned 40. They are around. It's not just 25 year olds, it's like 30 year olds, 35 year olds, I notice it across the ages. I swear it's social media related, like consuming a lot of Tik Tok's.

I was watching an interaction between my friend who is 33, and like a 20 year old, and my boy is very hyper, talks fast, not someone who goes on and on, and this girl would interrupt damn near EVERY sentence he said, within like a 30 second period. And the interruption wasn't a question or comment, it was like a derailment. Whatever he said, she would either misquote or misinterpret. And like spin off it. The way Tik Tok's sound. I don't know if I can replicate it.

So then at a spot a week ago, this 32 year old was doing it to me. She was hitting on me, yes, but whatever answer I gave, she would like interrupt and spin it. Phonetically or otherwise. It's pretty fascinating from some standpoint, but annoying in person. It's flirtatious, but also like a kid would talk or even think. And it's happened when there was no flirting.

For example, something like "I ordered the bacon strips", OMG what? You are going to naked strip?"

That's a bad example, and more flirty, but kind of close to that, but like repeatedly.

 

[jay83]

I'll try to put this in words, and someone can maybe help me out, I interact with more girls in their 20's than is probably common for whatever reason. I just turned 40. They are around. It's not just 25 year olds, it's like 30 year olds, 35 year olds, I notice it across the ages. I swear it's social media related, like consuming a lot of Tik Tok's.

I was watching an interaction between my friend who is 33, and like a 20 year old, and my boy is very hyper, talks fast, not someone who goes on and on, and this girl would interrupt damn near EVERY sentence he said, within like a 30 second period. And the interruption wasn't a question or comment, it was like a derailment. Whatever he said, she would either misquote or misinterpret. And like spin off it. The way Tik Tok's sound. I don't know if I can replicate it.

So then at a spot a week ago, this 32 year old was doing it to me. She was hitting on me, yes, but whatever answer I gave, she would like interrupt and spin it. Phonetically or otherwise. It's pretty fascinating from some standpoint, but annoying in person. It's flirtatious, but also like a kid would talk or even think. And it's happened when there was no flirting.

For example, something like "I ordered the bacon strips", OMG what? You are going to naked strip?"

That's a bad example, and more flirty, but kind of close to that, but like repeatedly.

Yeah alot of women don’t have good convo skills so they interrupt and don’t like to listen. Think it’s a combination of impatience and adhd.