Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Destroying the in aggravates women.

I have no Facebook, Instagram , twitter , no one knows my email.

And I change my number every year

I don't even give these flaky women a lane of communication.When I'm done with a female I block their phone number.

 

[Ohene]

sisters upstairs? so u live wit ur parents

she came while u were napping ? so she didnt call u b4?

just came unannounced ?

made a girl bust with ur sister upstairs? so the girl made no sounds even tho she came

something dont sound right gerald

yes i live with my parents, just graduated from university and its fukking up my p*ssy game
basement...main floor....upstairs
and yes she came unannouced...her pops lives down the street and her phone battery broken . Keep trying to change the subject though breh

 

[International Playa]

Women that are into you aren't hard to get a hold of at all. It's only when they think you are trivial do they do things like ignore texts or calls... and very few of these women actually have manners these days, so they don't even attempt to give an explanation. They just cut you off without a word. That's why in the story with the woman who dumped the guy with the inheritance, I can respect him just shutting down the lanes of communication. Women want to discard you at their leisure, and she wanted an in to fall back on later if whatever new option didn't work out.

That's why I don't believe in putting forth all this effort to 'game' chicks. You do all of that work, and she doesn't like something about you and you don't particularly know what, or maybe you say some phrase she doesn't like and she just cuts you off or becomes busy. No real explanation. Just "I'm busy" if not outright silence. All of that work and nothing to show for it.

On the other hand, you just being you and not focusing on 'gaming women', you end up attracting a woman that likes you for you and it's not difficult to stay in contact with her. If it's not minimal stress, I don't want it.

I agree guys shouldn't be acting a fool, spending money, buying presents etc to convince a woman to like them. I feel what's not being communicated is guys have to work on their weaknesses.I know for a fact a fine lady with her stuff together, will not want a man who is socially awkward, out of shape, no confidence, is broke, surfs the internet and plays video games all day. If a man wants a woman of a certain calibre, he needs to hold himself at those standards he is expecting of the woman he desires. A man must make the effort to improve himself by getting in shape, being social, better conversation, confidence, his finances/education.

I know guys will jump in here talking about these dyme women are choosing up on bum asss nigggas, THATS TRUE. But that bum asss niggga probably got a bit of confidence and has manly characteristics.

 

[aboss4real24]

yes i live with my parents, just graduated from university and its fukking up my p*ssy game
basement...main floor....upstairs
and yes she came unannouced...phone battery broken

yes i live with my parents, just graduated from university and its fukking up my p*ssy game
basement...main floor....upstairs
and yes she came unannouced...her pops lives down the street and her phone battery broken . Keep trying to change the subject though breh

i see u edited that after u thought bout it

 

[Ohene]

i see u edited that after u thought bout it

nikka are we really gonna play this game?

 

[Grams]

Brehs no homo but I don't think I'm ever gonna ask girls for their numbers anymore. These heaux are so flaky over text or can't hold a convo it's insane. Ima stick to drawing girls at parties and then having no contact with them.

 

[MikelArteta]

I agree guys shouldn't be acting a fool, spending money, buying presents etc to convince a woman to like them. I feel what's not being communicated is guys have to work on their weaknesses.I know for a fact a fine lady with her stuff together, will not want a man who is socially awkward, out of shape, no confidence, is broke, surfs the internet and plays video games all day. If a man wants a woman of a certain calibre, he needs to hold himself at those standards he is expecting of the woman he desires. A man must make the effort to improve himself by getting in shape, being social, better conversation, confidence, his finances/education.

I know guys will jump in here talking about these dyme women are choosing up on bum asss nigggas, THATS TRUE. But that bum asss niggga probably got a bit of confidence and has manly characteristics.

wrong

thats the thing in life many men fail to realize, is that every woman is different. Dudes need to stop trying to morph their way into something they don't want to be.

Look I'm skinny as hell I've never been over 155lbs, I don't make 6 figures or even near that, I'd rather stay home and watch movies, tv shows, write or read a book o rpost on the coli than be out and about, I've battled with self worth and feelings of inadequacies. Yet I have dated models, I have dated lawyers, doctors, women making 200k a year. Hell the last two women I have messed with 1a) trust fund baby dad owned a audi dealership 1b) legit model signed to a agency

And both were attracted to me..

Two "fine women"
One woman may abhor skinny guys
The other may love skinny guys

One may abhor dudes who are laid back and just enjoy staying home
The other one may hate it and needs a man whose the life of a party.

Secondly everything you do as a man should be for yourself

you want to get in shape, get a better job, work on your confidence do it for yourself not for a chick.

I love my life, I don't club, drink, party, juggle women, don't make six figures, I'm skinny and don't care about adding on weight, I love to travel, I'm shy and quiet and a observer.

I've always been this way and never had a problem getting women and I'll nver change.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'd like to add something else why you should never sell yourself short.

THe last chick I messed with was a legit model/actress even has a imdb page

Yet still even though shes signed to agency is in magazines, on a few tv shows she still thought she wasn't all that in the looks department yet nikkaz would elevate her to 10/10

even the months we talked before meeting she was legit worried because she viewed me as so handsome if i would still like her when we met.

From a outside view most men would see her and already check her off, she's a model, she's so pretty, I;m just a regular scmuchk no way I'd have a chance with that.

but the old reincar quote I always say

you may think your a 6 and that shes a 10, she views you as a 10 though and herself as a 6

As a man you never know which woman will find you attractive, theres been moments when I was like no way in my dating life that this woman could have any guy she desired and shes here with skinny ass bald headed reincar , but I was selling myself shor, thats the beauty of life, STOP SELLING YOURSELF SHORT BREHS, your bank account, your salary, your job, your body structure, your face, your skin color should never ever define who you are, you are a MAN

 

[International Playa]

wrong

thats the thing in life many men fail to realize, is that every woman is different. Dudes need to stop trying to morph their way into something they don't want to be.

Look I'm skinny as hell I've never been over 155lbs, I don't make 6 figures or even near that, I'd rather stay home and watch movies, tv shows, write or read a book o rpost on the coli than be out and about, I've battled with self worth and feelings of inadequacies. Yet I have dated models, I have dated lawyers, doctors, women making 200k a year. Hell the last two women I have messed with 1a) trust fund baby dad owned a audi dealership 1b) legit model signed to a agency

And both were attracted to me..

Two "fine women"
One woman may abhor skinny guys
The other may love skinny guys

One may abhor dudes who are laid back and just enjoy staying home
The other one may hate it and needs a man whose the life of a party.

Secondly everything you do as a man should be for yourself

you want to get in shape, get a better job, work on your confidence do it for yourself not for a chick.

I love my life, I don't club, drink, party, juggle women, don't make six figures, I'm skinny and don't care about adding on weight, I love to travel, I'm shy and quiet and a observer.

I've always been this way and never had a problem getting women and I'll nver change.

Bruh its not about morphing yourself in to what women want or changing your personality.Its about becoming the best you, you can be, putting yourself in the best position. Dudes want a fly woman with certain characteristics, but are you the male version of the woman you desire. Usually like attracts like. For example a fly lawyer sista, goes to church, low milage, wouldnt want to settle down with a dude with no confidence, no career and socially awkward.

Your situation is a rarity bruh, thats why you got a lot of men on PUA sites looking for help.

 

[MikelArteta]

Bruh its not about morphing yourself in to what women want or changing your personality.Its about becoming the best you, you can be, putting yourself in the best position. Dudes want a fly woman with certain characteristics, but are you the male version of the woman you desire. Usually like attracts like. For example a fly lawyer sista, goes to church, low milage, wouldnt want to settle down with a dude with no confidence, no career and socially awkward.

Your situation is a rarity bruh, thats why you got a lot of men on PUA sites looking for help.

The thing I said is yu should everything for yourself not becaue of a woman.
If you are content with the lifestyle you lead then be happy in it. I use dto hate being skinny and well now I don't care I embrace it, yes I could go to the gym and work out every day and in 3 months probably up my value in the terms of a womans eye, yes I could go back and finish law school and become a lawyer and up my value in terms of a womans eye, but I DONT Care about that. I'm content in life.

If you are ocntent being a "slob" who wants to play videogames all day then so be it.

The only thing I desire in a woman is loyalty, fidelity, her finding me valuable and that I find her attractive.

Like does not attract like, mysterious men rarely end up with mysterious women.

People who don' cheat usually end up crossing paths with a cheater.

I wouldn't say my situation is a rarity, just that many men continually sell themselves short. And continue to change who they are to fit into what a woman might like, I don't care.

 

[Two Stacks]

Look at this fakkit

Chey B

Ladies: Everyone knows you're the brains of the operation. The wisdom is in allowing a man to "think" that he is. Watching #Scandal!

 

[RealAssanova]

Look at this fakkit

Chey B

Ladies: Everyone knows you're the brains of the operation. The wisdom is in allowing a man to "think" that he is. Watching #Scandal!

we doomed breh. Gay agenda, feminist agenda, white man's agenda...it has really fukked up this part of the world.

Do you and be the best that you can be. Don't conform and bow to anyone or anything just cause someone said so or because society deems it acceptable. Fukk that bullshyt.

We got uncle/niece marriages approved in the state of new york...nikkaz saying paedophilia is a not something so serious...sooner or later, we gonna have nikkaz fukkin animals and society saying that shyt is ok.

 

[kevm3]

I agree guys shouldn't be acting a fool, spending money, buying presents etc to convince a woman to like them. I feel what's not being communicated is guys have to work on their weaknesses.I know for a fact a fine lady with her stuff together, will not want a man who is socially awkward, out of shape, no confidence, is broke, surfs the internet and plays video games all day. If a man wants a woman of a certain calibre, he needs to hold himself at those standards he is expecting of the woman he desires. A man must make the effort to improve himself by getting in shape, being social, better conversation, confidence, his finances/education.

I know guys will jump in here talking about these dyme women are choosing up on bum asss nigggas, THATS TRUE. But that bum asss niggga probably got a bit of confidence and has manly characteristics.

Men are constantly improving themselves, but on the other hand, women aren't making that same effort because they're never being held to any standard. When have you seen a recent conversation about a woman seriously improving herself because she wants to offer a better package to men? That she was learning to improve her cooking skills, be more submissive and learning to listen more, etc.?

You and I improving ourselves will improve the quantity of attention, but it won't improve the quality. In fact, the modern feminist dialogue is actually allowing women to lower the standard even further with things such as the 'slutwalk' and talks about 'stopping fat shaming.' It's allowing women to feel comfortable with 10,000 tattoos, in being obese, in having a foul mouth and bring no real desirable talents such as cooking or cleaning... On the other hand, men have to keep bringing more and more to the table for less and less The problem with that? A lot of women actually buy in.

The only way to get women to step up is for men to have some sort of standard for their behavior. Most men don't. They are simply happy to get a little attention and they're doing backflips. This allows women to constantly juggle a lot of dudes, do things such as give you their number and seem very interested, but you call and they flat out ignore your calls and texts. It allows them to break dates by flat out radio silence or just utterly absurd excuses... They can do that and demand higher quality of dudes while lowering their own standards because the modern man is unbelievably thirsty and accepts their nonsense no matter what. There's a point where you realize that you offer plenty of value, but the product you are attempting to procure is shoddy so you keep your money in your pocket.

Tariq had a podcast about him in Brazil and noticing essentially the opposite of what he saw here. Instead of a few dimes sprinkled among a ton of undesirable women, he saw a ton of fine women. He said their personalities were real cool. You know what else he noticed? He noticed that the males weren't hounding them at all. These women were fine, but the Brazillian men weren't swarming all around them, constantly complimenting them, etc. Therefore, these women actually had to maintain a standard for themselves, which includes staying fit and having a decent attitude. This dynamic is simply nonexistent here in America due to hordes of thirsty dudes who demand no quality.

 

[Two Stacks]

I'm going to do some serious thinking and have a REALISTIC set of standards that kind of mirror what I am doing/have.

1. I have a car. So should she.

2. I have a degree. So should she.

3. I have a full time job. So should she.

4. I have a career plan. So should she.

5. I have no kids. She shouldn't either. If I can go since age 14 and not have a kid...so can she...shyt ain't hard. You discuss shyt before u fukk and you don't have any problems....

Edit: These are basics....i will flesh it out further...which will include "the little things"....ex i love a touchy feely nuturing woman.

 

[International Playa]

Men are constantly improving themselves, but on the other hand, women aren't making that same effort because they're never being held to any standard. When have you seen a recent conversation about a woman seriously improving herself because she wants to offer a better package to men? That she was learning to improve her cooking skills, be more submissive and learning to listen more, etc.?

You and I improving ourselves will improve the quantity of attention, but it won't improve the quality. In fact, the modern feminist dialogue is actually allowing women to lower the standard even further with things such as the 'slutwalk' and talks about 'stopping fat shaming.' It's allowing women to feel comfortable with 10,000 tattoos, in being obese, in having a foul mouth and bring no real desirable talents such as cooking or cleaning... On the other hand, men have to keep bringing more and more to the table for less and less The problem with that? A lot of women actually buy in.

The only way to get women to step up is for men to have some sort of standard for their behavior. Most men don't. They are simply happy to get a little attention and they're doing backflips. This allows women to constantly juggle a lot of dudes, do things such as give you their number and seem very interested, but you call and they flat out ignore your calls and texts. It allows them to break dates by flat out radio silence or just utterly absurd excuses... They can do that and demand higher quality of dudes while lowering their own standards because the modern man is unbelievably thirsty and accepts their nonsense no matter what. There's a point where you realize that you offer plenty of value, but the product you are attempting to procure is shoddy so you keep your money in your pocket.

Tariq had a podcast about him in Brazil and noticing essentially the opposite of what he saw here. Instead of a few dimes sprinkled among a ton of undesirable women, he saw a ton of fine women. He said their personalities were real cool. You know what else he noticed? He noticed that the males weren't hounding them at all. These women were fine, but the Brazillian men weren't swarming all around them, constantly complimenting them, etc. Therefore, these women actually had to maintain a standard for themselves, which includes staying fit and having a decent attitude. This dynamic is simply nonexistent here in America due to hordes of thirsty dudes who demand no quality.

Bruh, there are good and bad women out there, its not all bad out there. You a christian brother, Im sure you know some women in church who are a dyme and on point. Its exactly the same way women complain about every man is a cheat and aint shiit. We all know that aint true and there are some good guys out there.These type women choose to get at immoral men. We should be weeding out immoral women and going for the few good women.

Another point brothas need to be going after women who are choosing up on them, dont be wasting time and money on trying to convince a woman to like you. YOU WILL LOSE. Brothas too focused on the dyme with the fat ass, but is she choosing up on you, if she aint leave her alone.If you want a chick with a body that is on point, ask yaself is ya body on point?