Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MrFantastic]

Whenever a woman's asks you a question that seems strange or from out of left field, there is usually some motive for it. It may not be as extreme as this story, but, be mindful, there always is a motive to benefit her and only her.

I had this one chick who was a neighbor of mine at the time, ask me how I felt about abortion, mind you, I'm outside throwing out the trash and she's just walking from her car to go inside, I told her how I felt about. I thought nothing of it, and went on my merry way. She knew I worked with computers so the next day she calls me over to her house to look at her "computer box" because it was running slow and giving her all kinds of problems. She met me at the door with only a T-shirt on smelling sweeter than a plate of yams, body all oiled up. Her nice bubble butt peeking out from under the t-shirt.

In my mind was like and but my facial expression was

So I asked, "were is the box with all these problems?" I see it and point to it and say: "over ther right?" she says: "no, not that box," she then grabs my hand that I was using to point in the direction of her PC, pulls it down between her legs, gets on her tip toes and whispers in my ear: "this box"

At this point, my second soldier is ready breakthrough from behind my jeans zipper, then a family member calls my phone frantically screaming and hollering saying they need me to come and get them ASAP because some mask gunmen just robbed the fast food joint, where they were get lunch, and the person who she was with left her there while the robbery was in progress.

So I told my neighbor I had to go. Lord knows I been wanted to hit that, cuz she was so sexy. Anyway

Fast forward a few weeks later. I found out that mayo neighbor had a boyfriend, was a few weeks pregnant for him, he didn't want the baby but she did. He gave her the money to get an abortion and told her if she didn't go through with it he would leave her to raise the child on her own.

So basically that left me to conclude that she wanted me to hit it, so she could claim that the baby is mine. She wanted to know if I agreed with abortion or if I didn't agree so that when she came to me with the 'good news' that she was pregnant I wouldn't tell her to get an abortion like her boyfriend did.

Wow thats evil..

Had something silimar happen to me... This chick I was dealing with one tells me she pregant.. She tells me she wants an abortion.. I dont really agree with it. But its her body and I give in.. She says it 400 dollars..i didnt even know your ins pays for that kind of stuff until I started doing my research on the matter... I ask if she would us hers.. She says no.. Says you can use mine.. Says no again.. So now im now something not right... I start offering to go with her for support... She didnt want me there... After going back and forth about it she finally said forget it..she would pay for it...at this point im like


I cut her off after that... See her in the city a couple weeks later with some dude...smh

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup whenever you stand up for yourself Women love to throw out that your bitter, your acting jealous your acting like a female.


In her mind you got jealous because she's not coming to have sex with you, so you changed your kind and are now asking her to pay.

Although that is not the case you are not accepting being used and manipulated but women don't see it that way.


i've had this happaned to me already, chicks with a bunch of male friends ask me for a favor and im like go ask one of your male friends and i get the why are you so jealous they are just my friends, when in reality im not jealous and im not their friends but the way their mind thinks is delusional.

you'll waste your time telling a chick that messing with so and so is bad news you get labeled as jealous
you dont want to do a favour for a chick you get labeled as jealous and insecure
chick goes out clubbing on her bday you dont say anything in her mind nad friends mind oh hes just jealous because you went out clubbing etc.

 

[kevm3]

Thought this was an interesting little story from a link posted by realist earlier

UMan - blog - Exit through the carousel gift*shop.

But the bad boys will change.

Was in a local bar way back when, went to take a leak and hear moaning coming from the toilet area. Look down and there are two pairs of shoes and it's a couple fukking right then and there. I'm in the middle of pissing and next thing I know another guy joins in. So I get done with my business and go out and tell my friend what was happening. Next thing you know they slip out one by one. The guy goes back to the bar and sits alone in his wife beater shirt. She goes back over to her party where some chump in a button down is all lovey dovey with her. Problem is he didn't witness what I just did and he sure as hell wasn't invited to participate. Don't know what happened to the other guy.

August 7, 2012 | Jim

Here is another one:

OL thats fukking pathetic. Just another day in the misandrist dystopia though. Seriously though at some point you say fukk trying to help these guys. I mean you can only do so much...they have to sack the fukk up and be a goddamn man or they deserve every ounce of muliebral rage foisted on their doughy bodies.

Good timeline there ZLX1. You just summed up the western whore's(woman) lifespan.

Funny story, had a friend of mine do a bouncing gig at this one joint that hosts alot of musical acts, lots of hip hop etc. This time it was bone thugs n harmony..anyone remember them?
Anyway he's workin near the VIP entrance and sees this hot young white chick stroll by. One of the fisher guys who reels in the sluts to come back to vip lets her in. Few mins pass by and some chump dressed in a polo, khaki shorts and sockless penny loafers is walking by like hes lost saying "whered my girlfriend go??".

My boy is like " I dunno bro". Well after the tard scurries off my boy peers past the curtain and sees little princess sucking off one of these dirty hoodrats in the vip section. LOL. Few mins later she promptly leaves and reunites with her befuddled beta and greets him with a huge kiss....according to my boy it looked like there was tongue too! AHAHAHAHAHA omg still kills me.

So the moral is..if you're a beta bytch boy you're gonna get what you deserve in life and that means giving 2nd hand head to one of bone thugs n harmonies key grips!
But hey...no one knows her like you do!

Stuff like this is real... Woman slips out, gives it up to some other guy and then comes back to her boyfriend all smiling and acting in love

 

[Dooby]

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[kevm3]

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23 T. AKA Ricky Raw
June 20th, 2011 @ 1:29 pm
One thing I’ve learned about the black chick bytch shield and the nonblack chick bytch shield is that black women really aren’t as bad as I used to think,and nonblack American women really aren’t any more easygoing, just more strategic about their bytchiness.

For example, there is this story that supposedly if you drop a frog in boiling water, it will jump right back out of the pot. However if you turn the temperature up gradually over time, the frog will not notice and stay in the pot until cooked.

I’ve come to realize that black chicks are like the pot that’s already boiling from the beginning. Their bytch shield is up super high from the beginning. The irony is, if you can power through that bytch shield they often become p*ssycats. That’s why you see so many black chicks with some badass dude who they let mistreat them. White American college-educated women are often like the slowly boiling pot when it comes to their bytch shields. They can start out with good behavior to make you complacent and to make you invest time, emotion and resources, and as you start feeling more committed and invested they raise the temperature on the bytch shield to the point where she’s just as bytchy and ballbusting as the stereotypical black woman and the guy is in a henpecked dynamic, except he totally didn’t see it coming.

You got some of these guys that are just in love with white women, thinking they are different than black women. Lesson? Women are women. They pretty much respond similarly when it comes down to it, not taking into account things like culture and values, which will lead to deviations here and there. A lot of these white women are just as cold as those black women... they just have that sweet persona up front. A lot of white women know how to play that gold digging game better than black women if we're going to be real. When it comes to athletes, they'll play sweet, passive, boosting his ego until she has him wrapped up in marriage or drops a kid and then her personality changes once she has those financial hooks in. Bottom line is if you come off as a soft, sweetheart type you will get manipulated and tossed to the side.

 

[kevm3]

On to a slightly different point... I've always found the relationships where the woman was most loyal was when we were arguing, wanted to change me, had me angry, etc. I couldn't stand dealing with it, but I couldn't shake the woman off of me if I wanted to. But the relationships where everything was smooth, I didn't sense any problems, soon, out of the blue, she would pop up talking about 'we need to talk' and it would end with us splitting.

Welll, what do you know, research confirms it:

Research finds women feel happy when their husband or partner is upset - Telegraph

The detailed study found that wives or girlfriends were pleased when their partner showed emotion because they believed it demonstrated a healthy relationship.
The survey, carried out by Harvard Medical School, also found that when men realised their wife was angry, the women reported being happier, although the men were not.
It revealed women most likely enjoyed spotting when their partner was dissatisfied because it showed his strong “engagement” or “investment” in their time together.
Dr Shiri Cohen, the study’s lead author, said: “It could be that for women, seeing that their male partner is upset reflects some degree of the man's investment and emotional engagement in the relationship, even during difficult times.
“This is consistent with what is known about the dissatisfaction women often experience when their male partner becomes emotionally withdrawn and disengaged in response to conflict.”

Some of these women even take it to the extreme, provoking her man until he puts hands on her... and using that as a sign that he is emotionally into her and 'cares for her'. But most women enjoy this on a much less drastic scale, aka dealing with guys that cheat on her, disrespect her, etc. It gets her emotions stirring. For most women, bad treatment isn't the kryptonite that will make them flee. It's boredom. Once they are bored, it's over. They will much more quickly choose a guy that mistreats them over a boring guy who can't stir up her emotions. This is why women do little things to get you angry as well. This is just something to give further understanding of why things they are. If you go around putting your hands on women or fabricating drama to keep them around, you are out of your mind. But what this DOES confirm is what we've been saying all along. Hold your ground, maintain your principles, don't change up, and check her when she needs to be checked. If she gets mad, cool. You might think she'll really hate you for it, but it will actually make a lot of these women respect you and want to be around you more.

 

[LandryFieldsDad]

On to a slightly different point... I've always found the relationships where the woman was most loyal was when we were arguing, wanted to change me, had me angry, etc. I couldn't stand dealing with it, but I couldn't shake the woman off of me if I wanted to. But the relationships where everything was smooth, I didn't sense any problems, soon, out of the blue, she would pop up talking about 'we need to talk' and it would end with us splitting.

Welll, what do you know, research confirms it:


Some of these women even take it to the extreme, provoking her man until he puts hands on her... and using that as a sign that he is emotionally into her and 'cares for her'. But most women enjoy this on a much less drastic scale, aka dealing with guys that cheat on her, disrespect her, etc. It gets her emotions stirring. For most women, bad treatment isn't the kryptonite that will make them flee. It's boredom. Once they are bored, it's over. They will much more quickly choose a guy that mistreats them over a boring guy who can't stir up her emotions. This is why women do little things to get you angry as well. This is just something to give further understanding of why things they are. If you go around putting your hands on women or fabricating drama to keep them around, you are out of your mind. But what this DOES confirm is what we've been saying all along. Hold your ground, maintain your principles, don't change up, and check her when she needs to be checked. If she gets mad, cool. You might think she'll really hate you for it, but it will actually make a lot of these women respect you and want to be around you more.

And here it is.

 

[RawDogBandit]

On to a slightly different point... I've always found the relationships where the woman was most loyal was when we were arguing, wanted to change me, had me angry, etc. I couldn't stand dealing with it, but I couldn't shake the woman off of me if I wanted to. But the relationships where everything was smooth, I didn't sense any problems, soon, out of the blue, she would pop up talking about 'we need to talk' and it would end with us splitting.

Welll, what do you know, research confirms it:


Some of these women even take it to the extreme, provoking her man until he puts hands on her... and using that as a sign that he is emotionally into her and 'cares for her'. But most women enjoy this on a much less drastic scale, aka dealing with guys that cheat on her, disrespect her, etc. It gets her emotions stirring. For most women, bad treatment isn't the kryptonite that will make them flee. It's boredom. Once they are bored, it's over. They will much more quickly choose a guy that mistreats them over a boring guy who can't stir up her emotions. This is why women do little things to get you angry as well. This is just something to give further understanding of why things they are. If you go around putting your hands on women or fabricating drama to keep them around, you are out of your mind. But what this DOES confirm is what we've been saying all along. Hold your ground, maintain your principles, don't change up, and check her when she needs to be checked. If she gets mad, cool. You might think she'll really hate you for it, but it will actually make a lot of these women respect you and want to be around you more.

Man...Isn't this some shyt

 

[MikelArteta]

Man...Isn't this some shyt

Women love drama, it tingles them.

I can attest to the fact when I was cold distant, unpredictable argued, ignored, never showed emotion I had women eaten out of my hand.

 

[The_Coli's_Reckoning]

You had me feeling like a fool when I hollered/
Tried to squeeze in but you wasn't bothered/
And I ain't either/
Soon as I realized that I aint need her/
She in a rush to get close to me but I ain't eager...

 

[Sharp]

Just started a new blog that will incorporate a lot of things that we discuss here.

Sharp Redefined

Knowledge is power and we need to share it with the brehs that need it.

 

[Nintendough]

On to a slightly different point... I've always found the relationships where the woman was most loyal was when we were arguing, wanted to change me, had me angry, etc. I couldn't stand dealing with it, but I couldn't shake the woman off of me if I wanted to. But the relationships where everything was smooth, I didn't sense any problems, soon, out of the blue, she would pop up talking about 'we need to talk' and it would end with us splitting.

I think television and movies play a part in this by making it seem like relationships are supposed to be a form of entertainment.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

On to a slightly different point... I've always found the relationships where the woman was most loyal was when we were arguing, wanted to change me, had me angry, etc. I couldn't stand dealing with it, but I couldn't shake the woman off of me if I wanted to. But the relationships where everything was smooth, I didn't sense any problems, soon, out of the blue, she would pop up talking about 'we need to talk' and it would end with us splitting.

Welll, what do you know, research confirms it:


Some of these women even take it to the extreme, provoking her man until he puts hands on her... and using that as a sign that he is emotionally into her and 'cares for her'. But most women enjoy this on a much less drastic scale, aka dealing with guys that cheat on her, disrespect her, etc. It gets her emotions stirring. For most women, bad treatment isn't the kryptonite that will make them flee. It's boredom. Once they are bored, it's over. They will much more quickly choose a guy that mistreats them over a boring guy who can't stir up her emotions. This is why women do little things to get you angry as well. This is just something to give further understanding of why things they are. If you go around putting your hands on women or fabricating drama to keep them around, you are out of your mind. But what this DOES confirm is what we've been saying all along. Hold your ground, maintain your principles, don't change up, and check her when she needs to be checked. If she gets mad, cool. You might think she'll really hate you for it, but it will actually make a lot of these women respect you and want to be around you more.

This is why most of my past girlfriends have complained that I was boring...unreal.

shyt is really hard out here for decent easy going dudes.

 

[EQ.]

The insecurity trap. A woman in a relationship at the club is like a pastor at a whore house. Even if there's a justifiable reason it just don't look right. If I'm in a relationship and one of the boys invites me to the club I'll pass on it because I don't wanna display that type of questionable behavior to my woman.

certain things you give up by default if you're in a relationship. The club is one of them. People go to the club because there's people of the opposite sex there point blank. If your woman wanna go hang with her friends they can do that and not have to go to a club.

you don't tell her she can't go either you tell her ok fine you go to the club if you want to and I'm gonna re-evaluate where you and I stand and maybe we should start seeing other people or you tell her to go ahead and if she goes the relationship is over.

if you tolerate her going to the club even once that means its ok for her to go to the club. It means that's acceptable behavior to you.

people in relationships have no business at the club.

Yep if she does something direspectful, demote her status. If she was wifey demote to jumpoff.

 

[Swing]

This is why most of my past girlfriends have complained that I was boring...unreal.

shyt is really hard out here for decent easy going dudes.

I had this one chick recently tell me "you're so calm". And the bullshyt began right after that