Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

You as the man have to be a leader and set the pace. She is probably mad because you made the mistake of not taking the lead. Don't worry about it, just learn from it and move on.

The thing is if he did hed prob get hit with the your moving to fast

Like I said I have no time for games like that

 

[MikelArteta]

That's what makes it hard to do anything seriously in this day and age, especially if you are trying to live Biblically. A lot of women pretty much desire men who treat women like hos. I'm not talking about in the sense of just saying crazy disrespectful things like, "Ho, get me a sandwich!", but more along the lines of a man treating her like she's low worth. For example, you're nonchalant, might say things to chop down her self-esteem, don't really tell her you love her, you're hard to get a hold of and pick up her phone calls at your discretion, you have multiple women you're talking to, etc.... a lot of these women respond to that... and let me add, you try to take your time to get to know these women and 'take it slow', and you'll get thrown into some kind of soft, cuddle-buddy type category. You'll be the sweet guy to hear her problems and to take her out to dinner while she has her wild boy on the side tearing that thang up.

That's the dilemma if you are trying to live a righteous lifestyle, which is also why we discuss principles so much. If you are living the Biblical life, you can choose to engage these sorts of women who desire this kind of treatment or you can stand on principle and pass them by. This truly is the season for whoredom, because if you want it, it's not difficult to get, but if you want to be a man of God, will you choose to stand on principle or give in to the lusts of the flesh? For my Christian brethren, this is truly a tumultuous time... but I do indeed believe one must remain firm in his principles.

This is the truth, it takes nothing in this generation to find a girl to lay with. But to find a righteous woman?

These days as a Christian righteous men it's hard with temptation in abundance everywhere, since I decided to live a abistence lifestyle it's a constant battle to stay steadfast.

 

[Nintendough]

The thing is if he did hed prob get hit with the your moving to fast

Like I said I have no time for games like that

Probably so, but it could have ruled her out a lot quicker.

 

[Nintendough]

This is the truth, it takes nothing in this generation to find a girl to lay with. But to find a righteous woman?

These days as a Christian righteous men it's hard with temptation in abundance everywhere, since I decided to live a abistence lifestyle it's a constant battle to stay steadfast.

I agree, i'm trying to have better discipline as a Christian man myself. Its hard with so much stimulation all over the place. The righteous women are very few and most smart men will wife them up without hesitation.

 

[Ohene]

damn brehs...nowadays i cant even find a bytch to laywith

my roster was depleted once upon a time and never recovered. A nikka either be having the worst luck, distance is an issue, or the bytches be playing them text msging games and I cant tolerate it. I need to cop that whip soon.

 

[Ohene]

Yessir, Women will pretty much have every response in order to 'win,' to avoid responsibility for their actions and to be able to do whatever they really want to do in their mind. Just like that article points out, women generally like conflict and drama.

You're at home regularly everyday and you're too boring and predictable so that's why she cheated. You're out and about and now you're too distant and didn't pay attention to enough of her needs, so that's why she cheated. You live your life drama-free and stress-free and keep it laid back and you're too calm. You get angry often and 'you scare her.' You buy her too much stuff or buy her something too soon and you're a simp. You don't buy her enough and you're cold and uncaring. A lot of these women come in with this attitude of always wishing you were some other guy or acting like she wishes she were somewhere else... but if you change for her, you were too easy to control and she leaves. These women enjoy this perpetual state of conflict, which is why a lot of these laid-back fellas who want a drama free relationship keep having problems.

Fellas that end up listening to women end up being just as confused as they are. Women always want what they don't have at the moment or some fantasy conconction... aka thug in the streets, who also has a sensitive side, is making money in corporate America, but also is a man of God. It's impossible to find all of that in one man since so many of these traits are contradictory in nature, so this is why women keep flocks of men to fulfill different categories. She always wants to deal with this other personality when she's overdosed on the one she's currently with. She gets banged out by the thug and he treats her cold and hoish and then she finds the sweet guy to listen to her problems and cuddle with her and to rejuvenate her spirits to get her prepared to deal with the thug again, and then she goes to the man of God to hear some Bible scriptures and get a little holy with. Then she got her variety of favor buddies who she pops up with and asks for various favors when she needs them.

When it comes down to it, it's difficult to take these women seriously because the modern woman brings so much nonsense to the table and so little value herself, but she can do this due to being pretty... and a pretty woman has a flock of simps ready to pay a million for a penny of benefit, so she can justify her behavior until she loses her prettiness, and thus her attention and all of a sudden becomes reformed and starts looking for a 'nice guy.'

lol yup. I said this shyt earlier...nice to see I aint the only one. One must find the optimal coordinate which is damn near impossible because every single women is at least slightly different in what they require.

One issue is a lot of people think that because they were able to mack a btich and have her weak using one schtick that its gonna work universally against all women. Rude awakening pending.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

damn brehs...nowadays i cant even find a bytch to laywith

my roster was depleted once upon a time and never recovered. A nikka either be having the worst luck, distance is an issue, or the bytches be playing them text msging games and I cant tolerate it. I need to cop that whip soon.

Everything happens for a reason you might run into the wrong woman who can destroy your life and cause drama. Sometimes quiet is good

 

[Ohene]

Everything happens for a reason you might run into the wrong woman who can destroy your life and cause drama. Sometimes quiet is good

I feel you breh but I dont ask for much. Just a one main squeeze...and a 2nd or 3rd option to keep me level-headed.

I literally have nobody right now. The one chick I was flexing on travelled to London and Nigeria...gonna be away damn near all summer. Italian bytch is gettin bounced cause of her text messaging ridiculousness. Ghanaian chick has a fukked up blackberry and is damn near impossible to contact but shes unfinished business....shoulda been hit. All my other chicks are in my University's city and I aint gon be there all year cause an internship . Ex-girlfriend was on that texting shyt...never spoke to her since and I may never again.

I have nothing. I've always been a hermit/lonely dude so I'm fine. But a man has desires breh . My sex drive too high for this shyt.

Sidenote: How can a girl text you FIRST, you reply maybe 15-30 minutes later and they have the nerve to reply 5+ hours later when youre asleep. I dont get these bytches sometimes man . Makes no sense.

 

[MikelArteta]

Everything happens for a reason you might run into the wrong woman who can destroy your life and cause drama. Sometimes quiet is good

And this goes back to being happy alone.

Look nudie you have a internship concentrate on that for now, take it from a guy who dropped out of law school for a chick and never went back, the aggravated stress may ruin your career plans. There are over 3 billion women in the world and probably 500million in the 18-34 demographic stop stressing.


Hell football is back preseason, college football nfl

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I feel you breh but I dont ask for much. Just a one main squeeze...and a 2nd or 3rd option to keep me level-headed.

I literally have nobody right now. The one chick I was flexing on travelled to London and Nigeria...gonna be away damn near all summer. Italian bytch is gettin bounced cause of her text messaging ridiculousness. Ghanaian chick has a fukked up blackberry and is damn near impossible to contact but shes unfinished business....shoulda been hit. All my other chicks are in my University's city and I aint gon be there all year cause an internship . Ex-girlfriend was on that texting shyt...never spoke to her since and I may never again.

I have nothing. I've always been a hermit/lonely dude so I'm fine. But a man has desires breh . My sex drive too high for this shyt.

Sidenote: How can a girl text you FIRST, you reply maybe 15-30 minutes later and they have the nerve to reply 5+ hours later when youre asleep. I dont get these bytches sometimes man . Makes no sense.

This is when you need discipline homie. Like Reincar says when you dont care,thats when you get the women.Right now you caring too much. Less communication with her the better.Make her miss you. Once you discipline yourself,you will be the man.Its like this.... lets take Albert Pujols. If he presses too much to hit a home run he is going to either strike out,or pop into a flyball. Now when he relaxes thats when he gets home runs.In other words let the game come to you. Dont force it. You dont need a woman as much as you think.Your in the slump-re building stage.This is YOUR test.

 

[MikelArteta]

I feel you breh but I dont ask for much. Just a one main squeeze...and a 2nd or 3rd option to keep me level-headed.

I literally have nobody right now. The one chick I was flexing on travelled to London and Nigeria...gonna be away damn near all summer. Italian bytch is gettin bounced cause of her text messaging ridiculousness. Ghanaian chick has a fukked up blackberry and is damn near impossible to contact but shes unfinished business....shoulda been hit. All my other chicks are in my University's city and I aint gon be there all year cause an internship . Ex-girlfriend was on that texting shyt...never spoke to her since and I may never again.

I have nothing. I've always been a hermit/lonely dude so I'm fine. But a man has desires breh . My sex drive too high for this shyt.

Sidenote: How can a girl text you FIRST, you reply maybe 15-30 minutes later and they have the nerve to reply 5+ hours later when youre asleep. I dont get these bytches sometimes man . Makes no sense.

Taming your sex drive is the key to success, if you really just want the just go online dating at a free site, tailor your profile send messages to like 20 girls a few will bite one to two dates voila.

None are wifeable however.


And chicks do that just to make sure they still have their fangs in you and if need be hit you up for a favor.


That you still available and be a little fishy and note te bait when needed.

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

What I Want In a Man - Original List


1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8. Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises

What I Want in a Man - Revised List (age 32)

1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries

What I Want in a Man - Revised List (age 42)

1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn’t drive off until I’m in the car
3.. Works steady – splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I’m talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends

What I Want in a Man - Revised List (age 52)

1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn’t belch or scratch in public
3. Doesn’t borrow money too often
4. Doesn’t nod off to sleep when I’m venting
5. Doesn’t re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Is in good enough shape to get off the couch on weekends
7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
9. Remembers your name on occasion
10. Shaves some weekends

The realization of time or lack there of, will cause many to reevaluate what's important and what they really need in a mate.

Good stuff

 

[T-K-G]

Sidenote: How can a girl text you FIRST, you reply maybe 15-30 minutes later and they have the nerve to reply 5+ hours later when youre asleep. I dont get these bytches sometimes man . Makes no sense.

she obviously was just textin you to pass time until the person she really wanted to talk/chill with came thru...i really hope you aint reply to that bytch breh


and dont take the textin games to heart nikka

 

[winb83]

I feel you breh but I dont ask for much. Just a one main squeeze...and a 2nd or 3rd option to keep me level-headed.

I literally have nobody right now. The one chick I was flexing on travelled to London and Nigeria...gonna be away damn near all summer. Italian bytch is gettin bounced cause of her text messaging ridiculousness. Ghanaian chick has a fukked up blackberry and is damn near impossible to contact but shes unfinished business....shoulda been hit. All my other chicks are in my University's city and I aint gon be there all year cause an internship . Ex-girlfriend was on that texting shyt...never spoke to her since and I may never again.

I have nothing. I've always been a hermit/lonely dude so I'm fine. But a man has desires breh . My sex drive too high for this shyt.

Sidenote: How can a girl text you FIRST, you reply maybe 15-30 minutes later and they have the nerve to reply 5+ hours later when youre asleep. I dont get these bytches sometimes man . Makes no sense.

You have nothing? Looks like to me you got all the options in the world and the ability to explore them. Dead that thirst though. It will ruin you.

also you should stop texting women. When you communicate with a chick force her to be fully engaged. Texting is a bullshyt form of communication. It requires little to no investment.

 

[Ohene]

she obviously was just textin you to pass time until the person she really wanted to talk/chill with came thru...i really hope you aint reply to that bytch breh


and dont take the textin games to heart nikka

Indeed breh. I woke up to the text like and let that shyt breathe. Like i said havent spoke to her since.

As for the passing time shyt. Pretty sure it isnt the case cause this is a certain someone...but I am moving forward as if it is the case anyway.

Especially consdiering you said pass the time. It was literally one message. I replied 30 minutes later. Saw that she replied at 11PM 6 hours later. It isnt like we even had an exchange.