Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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In that thread you don't see any woman checking that scumbaggish behavior of looking at a man as some resource to be exploited. Instead it's GET DAT MONEY GIRRLLL

Now you see what I am talking about? These are the broads you're going hard to try to impress. Take them out to dinner, they leave and go smash some other dude. Stop spending your money on these broads. The only women you spend money on is family and a woman who has shown you loyalty.
 

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In that thread you don't see any woman checking that scumbaggish behavior of looking at a man as some resource to be exploited. Instead it's GET DAT MONEY GIRRLLL

Now you see what I am talking about? These are the broads you're going hard to try to impress. Take them out to dinner, they leave and go smash some other dude. Stop spending your money on these broads. The only women you spend money on is family and a woman who has shown you loyalty.

the funny thing is the guy who doesnt spend any money is the one whose in them guts and the one who is getting her.

your out there giving women a cc and telling her go spend she buys a tv, and its jarome whose watching the tv while your not even invited over
 

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The mental state of a lot of people is quite sick in this day and age. How can you ever build anything when all you have are people looking to take advantage of each other instead of actually caring for each other?

When it's said and done, be a quality person and don't allow your moral state to be corrupted by what you see others doing. You see this or that person taking advantage, don't allow yourself to morph into that. As a man, you have to be PRINCIPLED, meaning adhere to a moral code, and to not allow yourself to be swayed by the masses. It's the only way to maintain your dignity.

In life, you only get a few real folks, whether it's potnas or women. You better cherish them. You better take care of those loyal to you because most people are out for self. Don't allow this world to turn you into a self-serving snake though. Maintain your dignity and get low moral people away from you.
 

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the funny thing is the guy who doesnt spend any money is the one whose in them guts and the one who is getting her.

your out there giving women a cc and telling her go spend she buys a tv, and its jarome whose watching the tv while your not even invited over

Exactly. we've let dudes know that numerous times. If she charges you, she ain't feeling you. Maintain your discipline and don't deal with women that don't like you. The less effort you put in with women, I find the better results you get.
 

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Exactly. we've let dudes know that numerous times. If she charges you, she ain't feeling you. Maintain your discipline and don't deal with women that don't like you. The less effort you put in with women, I find the better results you get.

I agree
Someone who likes you will not take advantage of you. The sad thing as a man is I had no problem like buying a woman a gift to show my token of appreciation but you give a little aqnd they start viewing you as some sort of sucker
 

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In that thread you don't see any woman checking that scumbaggish behavior of looking at a man as some resource to be exploited. Instead it's GET DAT MONEY GIRRLLL

Now you see what I am talking about? These are the broads you're going hard to try to impress. Take them out to dinner, they leave and go smash some other dude. Stop spending your money on these broads. The only women you spend money on is family and a woman who has shown you loyalty.

and they the first ones to talk about being an independent woman, would never need a man for anything, how she can do for herself, and he deserved it because he fell for the trap, things are so unfair for women and heavily slanted for men so who cares ... and so on and so forth. just lip service and rationalization. the truth is, very few scumbags actually admit theyre scumbags. itd ruin their whole facade anyways. really the only time they might do it, is after they got over.

the truth is, most people dont match up their words with their actions. they want to say one thing and live an entirely different way.

although what I do know, is that when you see what someone likes to cheer about, you can see a lot about the person. you see what theyre really about. like watch what your girl or your peoples cheer on, like if its a scam that went down, someone got cheated on, or something grimy. if theyre happy about it, or light up, thats a huge flag. someone gets something done wrong to them, and theyre feeling that? thats a warning right there. seeing what someone celebrates is one thing that brings a persons character out. thats why its smart to sometimes throw stories here and there to see what someones going to say about it


the funny thing is the guy who doesnt spend any money is the one whose in them guts and the one who is getting her.

your out there giving women a cc and telling her go spend she buys a tv, and its jarome whose watching the tv while your not even invited over

in life you have to be really good at reading people. because if you can go and treat someone based on how they really are, then you will get more results. if you treat a bandwagon female like wifey , than youre doing it wrong, youre shortchanging yourself. but you treat a real down ass woman like a woman and youll get better results. thats why lying to women or trying to change them is for the birds. thats not your role. the best thing to do is to find someone that matches up with what you want. so if youre going to deal with someone, the best thing to do is just treat them how they are
 

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I spent the night at this new girls crib a few nights ago and everything went well. Didn't smash but I didn't want to... we kissed and what not before I left and talked a lot the next day but now it seem like she ignoring and flakin on a nikka. Really wanna hit her wit the :camby: but that body and personality tho :wow:

I'm gettin tired of these females man... these bytches be actin brand new.

u spent the night and didnt smash? why?

shes not hitting you back cuz you p*ssy...she wanted the d and now shes looking for another guy who can supply her with it
 

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I agree
Someone who likes you will not take advantage of you. The sad thing as a man is I had no problem like buying a woman a gift to show my token of appreciation but you give a little aqnd they start viewing you as some sort of sucker

That's what's so backwards about everything. Women want a man to supposedly 'provide' and 'man-up', but they look at those same men as simps to take advantage of and give their best to men who just hit them up for one night. There was another thread of some woman who left her fiance who she had a baby with and ended up sleeping with her coworker.

This is exactly why we tell you dudes if you have a quality woman, you better not trade it in for some broad with a big butt. You're trading 'your' woman in for everybody's woman.
 

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That's real talk. Most of these PUA or playa type dudes end up confused because their whole life is centered around seeking approval from a woman, with her vagina being the ultimate objective. Their thought process is always based upon whether they are getting a woman's approval and go so far as to completely reinvent themselves in order to procure the brief affections of loose women. If your mentality is built on someone rewarding you in some fashion for your actions, then they have a tremendous amount of power over you. "Oh man, these women aren't responding to my cocky, but funny routine with a touch of bad boy. I probably should have waited 2.5 more days before I called back to demonstrate to her that I'm a busy man and of high value." As we've said numerous times before, there is zero that a woman is offering to go through all of those hurdles and to go through that self-questioning process for.

Honestly, if me showing up ain't enough for her, then she can take her butt on. Going through this rigorous self-questioning routine and pondering whether your actions are demonstrating 'enough worth' to her is the mark of a man who gives way too much authority and power to a woman... A woman who will most likely jet the minute you become 'boring' in her mind or when she feels she can upgrade. What's so sad is a dude won't ride a bike 10 miles to go get 5 chicken nuggets from McDonalds, but he'll end up jumping out of a window, walk on blistering hot coals and putting the essence of his being on the line for a woman. Dudes really need to cut that out. To me, the bottom line is she is either going to accept how I bring it or not. If she doesn't, that roster spot opens up for another woman.

Ultimately, men need to learn to find completion within themselves. A woman will never make you happy long-term. She can only ENHANCE your happiness. If your happiness is contingent on a woman, you are treading VERY dangerous waters, because as soon as she decides to leave and your happiness is rooted in her giving you approval or attention, you are going to become an emotional wreck. Cats need to get right with Jesus, strengthen relationships with family and friends, get those employment skills up and just enjoy life in general. Take a trip, do something you really enjoy. Structure your life in a way that you're thankful for everyday breathing. Don't waste much time on thinking what this or that woman is doing. When you've done this thoroughly well, you won't even really care if this or that woman is flaking because you're so busy enjoying life and counting your blessings and you know that there are several other women who would LOVE to take her place.

:wow: That's what I love about having a inactive roster, soon as the woman i'm dealing with or trying to deal with starts acting funny, I don't trip, I don't get all in my emotions and get upset, because I know for a fact that there is another 1 in waiting that will do whatever to spend time with me.
 

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:wow: That's what I love about having a inactive roster, soon as the woman i'm dealing with or trying to deal with starts acting funny, I don't trip, I don't get all in my emotions and get upset, because I know for a fact that there is another 1 in waiting that will do whatever to spend time with me.


I don't even have/or ever kept a roster since I was like 19 but I know I have the ability to attract or get women whenever I need.

Like I've said before women are just like milk, when one gets spoiled, or it's finished I don't have another jug in the fridge but when I feel like it I'll just head to teh grocery store and get another one so to speak.


Again nothing wrong with stocking your fridge and freezer :jawalrus:
 
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I don't even have/or ever kept a roster since I was like 19 but I know I have the ability to attract or get women whenever I need.

Like I've said before women are just like milk, when one gets spoiled, or it's finished I don't have another jug in the fridge but when I feel like it I'll just head to teh grocery store and get another one so to speak.
:myman:We gonna get you on that roster shyt breh
 

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:myman:We gonna get you on that roster shyt breh

:heh:

nah I just can't do it, even though it could "increase desirability" in the eyes of some it's just not me.

I've never been a multidater, roster type person, it takes alot for me to be interested in a woman or even give her the time of day and when that occurs she is the only one getting that, and if /when it ends :manny: if another brehette worthy of that status appears cool if not :ehh:

My phone hasn't even buzzed since last friday but I don't care :heh:

and this is from a guy who used to have like 150 contacts in his phone, a fb list of over 500, who used to go on numerous meaningless dates, hell this is from a guy that 1,000 matches on tinder twice this year and had a whole bunch of brehettes wanting to meet up or giving me their number and I only met 2 chicks off there.
 

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"Experience is the best teacher, but the tuition is expensive"
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Here's some thoughts to always heep in mind-
I survived before you
I'll survive with you
I'll survive after you

Ler her know that ANYTIME she wants to leave, she can. *The same goes for you. *If you are NOT getting a good deal in a relationship, then just walk away. *If she complains that you seem cold, heartless and distant, remind her that she's NOT a puppetmaster and that YOU, not HER, control what happens with YOUR life.

Take a look around you-see the things you put aside to deal with someone who seems to either jerk you around or have NO respect for you. *They're still there, right? *Now's the time to DO something, use the energy you spent trying to impress this "future cat farmer" and improve yourself. *No longer waste your time and aenergy on a pointless task, like winning the heart of a woman., focus on YOU, Inc. *YOU, not her, nor ANY like minded clone, can make you happy or make you feel like a man-that comes from within.

whether I have you or anyone like you, my bills still need to be paid, I still have to survive
and I am still a man-you'll never have or destroy that part of me-the part that makes me a MAN.
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. *Keep your defense up, ALWAYS pay attention to little seeds of doubt and NEVER THINK she is different. *NEVER go by looks or impressions, go by ACTIONS and RESULTS. *The world teaches us that looking professional or clean and nice will make us BE professional and that people are more willing to judge by someone who LOOKS good than someone that can get the job done. *Yet how many people have robbed others of all their assets who smiled in their faces and wore good clothing and had perfect hair, to give an example. *Did they say- "well, my life's savings are gone, I'm bankrupt, but BOY were his teeth white and hair perfectly combed/her body shapely and her voice alluring" *Not too many.

A slap or a punch, the pain eventually fades; when dealing with an emotional terrorist the pain hurts worse, for it's more mental. *You've created a synapse for that person in your brain

the synapse that inspired joy for that person is now receiving different messages
happiness turns to rage
joy turns to regret
and rejection turns to revenge.

Let it go. *There are 3 billion other women out there and she is but a pebble that you just shook out of your shoe and left there to go it's own way. *Stand strong and remember the wisdom
 

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My boy was blowing up my phone all day asking what he should do/say to this girl he likes at his work...and i'm like :why:

you 25 and you letting women overrule you :beli:to make matters worst, he kept making up excuses as to why he should do not x, y or z or how she might be this or that and i'm like :what:stop and look at how many assumptions and excuses you just made. I mean like :mindblown:

nikkaz and there excuses to justify their insecurities....:aicmon:...like, "oh she 18 and too young" but yet you was like :drool: or "oh, she is dating this dude" or "she may feel creeped out if i do this" :snoop:

so i'mma tell ya'll what i told him and already said in here few pages ago....stop taking these women serious, never commit to one, HAVE OPTIONS and always realize that at the end of the day, the girl you stressing over is only 1 girl...therefore she is not a rare artifact or something that will go extinct. The faster men can understand this, the better their lives will be.

I seriously urge nikkaz to try following these guidelines....atleast for a month. Force your mind to shift its state from a scarcity point of view to a more abundance point of view and tell us how you feel afterwards. I garauntee your lives will be stress and worrysome free and your interactions with women will be more better as you will be less inclined to impress and more inclined to be your natural self. :win:
 
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