Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

A big lesson that must be kept in mind is that you have to REWARD loyalty. REWARD women that have morals and treat you well. We have so many out here doing wrong, and yet you actually found a woman that wants to do you right and you're going to cheat on her? You're going to throw her to the side for some video vixen groupy? It's utter nonsense.

Think of yourself as a CEO. If you are running a company and you reward the bad employees, but dismiss, ignore or punish the quality ones, how long do you think your company will be in business?

I know there will be a lot more women inclined to do the right thing if they actually saw men rewarding quality women.Obviously you're going to have your pretenders who pretend to be decent women, but you have to ignore those... but really, think of what incentive a woman has to treat a man right if she's getting cheated on?

True, we need to call out bad behavior by women, but we also have to hold ourselves accountable first and foremost because, we as men, are given the mantle of leadership.

 

[MikelArteta]

My boy was blowing up my phone all day asking what he should do/say to this girl he likes at his work...and i'm like

you 25 and you letting women overrule you to make matters worst, he kept making up excuses as to why he should do not x, y or z or how she might be this or that and i'm like stop and look at how many assumptions and excuses you just made. I mean like

nikkaz and there excuses to justify their insecurities.......like, "oh she 18 and too young" but yet you was like or "oh, she is dating this dude" or "she may feel creeped out if i do this"

so i'mma tell ya'll what i told him and already said in here few pages ago....stop taking these women serious, never commit to one, HAVE OPTIONS and always realize that at the end of the day, the girl you stressing over is only 1 girl...therefore she is not a rare artifact or something that will go extinct. The faster men can understand this, the better their lives will be.

I seriously urge nikkaz to try following these guidelines....atleast for a month. Force your mind to shift its state from a scarcity point of view to a more abundance point of view and tell us how you feel afterwards. I garauntee your lives will be stress and worrysome free and your interactions with women will be more better as you will be less inclined to impress and more inclined to be your natural self.

should have told him to not mess with women from work

everything else I agree with, there is so much women out there none are "special" besides the ones who you call family, everyone else is replaceable EVERYONE,

 

[MikelArteta]

A big lesson that must be kept in mind is that you have to REWARD loyalty. REWARD women that have morals and treat you well. We have so many out here doing wrong, and yet you actually found a woman that wants to do you right and you're going to cheat on her? You're going to throw her to the side for some video vixen groupy? It's utter nonsense.

Think of yourself as a CEO. If you are running a company and you reward the bad employees, but dismiss, ignore or punish the quality ones, how long do you think your company will be in business?

I know there will be a lot more women inclined to do the right thing if they actually saw men rewarding quality women.Obviously you're going to have your pretenders who pretend to be decent women, but you have to ignore those... but really, think of what incentive a woman has to treat a man right if she's getting cheated on?

True, we need to call out bad behavior by women, but we also have to hold ourselves accountable first and foremost because, we as men, are given the mantle of leadership.

I agree, good righteous women who are worthy deserve it all

I said it before and I'll say it again one loyal righteous women is worth it all, getting out the game, your time, your love, your loyalty.

Its amazing how easy it is to get a beautiful woman, a successful women but a good quality woman?


Every chick I come across seems the same into social media, bunch of men buzzing around, bouts of depression, emotional outbursts, cheated in the past and view relationships as disposable, alcoholics, promiscious



next time I come across a quality women I may not even believe it at first

 

[MikelArteta]

And always look as you as valuable, I dont care if a chick got ten guys swarming around her, or brehs in queue waiting their turn, there is only one Reinscarf, their is only one you, never compare yourself to others, it doesn't matter if you think some next nukka has higher status or looks better or is more in shape than you, all it matters is chemistry. Just like you can see ten hot women but if you only feel something for one all others are redundant, chicks view men the same way so never sell yourself short.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Gotta have confidence more then anything.$$ can only go so far.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Good convo with this chick I was playin phone tag with.

I work at a place thats a pretty big deal. Gonna show her around on Friday which just so happen to be my last day then invite her over for drinks.

 

[KingTut]

bytch who flaked on me last night been blowin me up all day cause I ain't answering her texts. She gettin sent to the fukkin d-league.

I'm just gettin tired of women period, no homo . Feel like I need to fall back and concentrate on my goals and not let the p*ssy distract me so damn much.

 

[kevm3]

bytch who flaked on me last night been blowin me up all day cause I ain't answering her texts. She gettin sent to the fukkin d-league.

I'm just gettin tired of women period, no homo . Feel like I need to fall back and concentrate on my goals and not let the p*ssy distract me so damn much.

Definitely shift your focus over. When you focus on other aspects of your life, you won't even trip if some woman flakes because you'll be so busy doing something you enjoy. Also, as a man, we need to think of things that actually bring a RETURN on our investment in time. Figuring out 10,000 techniques to deal with loose women won't help you get ahead. Also, when you focus on your own goals, you are way more likely to find a woman that is about what you're about as opposed to some woman playing games.

With a lot of these females, it ain't even about you. It's about some idiotic game you play. She doesn't like you. She just likes the fact that you're not answering your phone, hence you're 'difficult' and a 'challenge.' Sometimes a woman will tell you that she likes you because 'you're different' or 'you're not like other guys' and yet she knows nothing about you. You will be completely wasting your time with these kind of women because as soon as you get tired of playing the games, she's gone.

 

[MikelArteta]

Invest in yourself and you will never lose.

Can't control a woman but you can control yourseld, its up to you to allow things to upset you

 

[Ohene]

money gives most ppl confidence.

whether its in the form of giving you the clothing and car you feel make you that dude
or even if its in the form of having somebody say to himself, "Who cares if this girl rejected me when I'm sitting on stacks and can fly to the Bahamas whenever I want. It's her loss"

 

[MikelArteta]

Money can't buy love or people who care about you.

Travel the world and you'll see ppl making scraps happy as hell

Other way around

Money is the only universal game, not confidence

All the confidence in the world does not always = bytches

All the $$ in the world ALWAYS = bytches

 

[MikelArteta]

I never said money is bad but it's not the end and all.

Money can't but love, money cant buy the joy I see when I see my parents or family or nieces and nephew.

Money can't buy health and I've had health scares.

I've had near death experiences and money can't buy life.

I never said poor people though, you'll find more rich folks killing themselves committing suicide than regular to do cats.

I don't lay up my treasures on earth

No shyt, but neither can confidence.

And even if it could, love for the most pt ain't worth shyt,
especially the love of a bytch, so I'd much rather
indulge in the shyt $ can bring me.

Re: Travel: C'mon, son. U kno full fukking well no matter
where I go, and I been plenty places, I can find a lot more
happy rich ppl than I can happy poor ppl. shyt, most ppl ain't
happy if they ain't fiscally secure.

 

[The Frozen One]

Money will not fix your insecurities.. Sure you can fake confidence with all the money but you'll still be the same person inside.

 

[The Frozen One]

Maybe, but that doesn't change the fact that
a rich, insecure muthafukkaz who's faking the funk
will get more attn from hoes than a secure, broke ass
nikka.

A broke nikka w/ mad confidence doing better with
hoes than a rich nikka w/ zero confidence is the
rare (and I do mean rare) exception, not the rule.

Well it all depends on the type of woman you want to attract. You are confusing quantity vs quality.

A rich person obviously has a lot of quantities and a higher selection of women to choose from.. But are these women worth his time and money? An insecure guy would be happy and love the attention he gets but his happiness revolves around women not his money. His success with women is based on his money and if that money is gone then he is nothing..

But I agree somewhat with you.. Money does lead you to get laid more often than not

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't care about hos or golddiggers

Maybe, but that doesn't change the fact that
a rich, insecure muthafukkaz who's faking the funk
will get more attn from hoes than a secure, broke ass
nikka.

A broke nikka w/ mad confidence doing better with
hoes than a rich nikka w/ zero confidence is the
rare (and I do mean rare) exception, not the rule.