Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

was just going through this thread and came across some dope thigns @Sharp posted

In a woman's mind, she will justify her mischievous actions before she sets out to do them. This is why it doesn't make sense to confront a woman in an attempt to make her see the error of her ways. She knows the error of her ways. She isn't dumb. They don't do things on the spur of the moment. They are very meticulous. Nothing is by mistake, accident, or coincidence when it comes to women. Keep this in mind.

You find condom's in your woman's purse, even though you guys have been in a relationship for 5 years. You confront her, and she'll tell you "I got these from my doctor when I went to get my checkup. It's routine." Then you'll be like "O, ok."

Women cover their bases thoroughly. It's not that they don't slip up. The real problem is that men, we are naive and make ourselves believe that our woman could never be that scandalous because that would affect our egos. This is why when most men find out their woman has cheated on them, they want to go fight the man instead of get rid of the woman.

Never put anything past a woman, and always trust your gut. Logic over emotion. If you think she's cheating, she probably is and has been for quite some time. And you'll never get the truth from her, so you have to make your judgments based on what you see and what inferences you can get from that.

A man who isn't afraid to leave a woman is a powerful man in the world of relationships.


And never ever simp..... Remember your goal is not to please a woman. Your goal is to effectively show a woman who you are, so that you won't ever have to encounter any discomfort while dealing with these woman because she fell for an image or your "representative"


We're under this false impression that we have to impress women. Don't expose women to a lifestyle that you don't normally live. If you don't do five star restaurants on your own or with your friends, then why would you take a date to one?

Trying to impress women is what prompts them to feel entitled. If you're the type of dude that likes to go to Joe's Crab shack and the shorty you are dating isn't with it, then cut her off because she isn't for you. Never alter your lifestyle, your activities, your comforts for a woman because she won't do the same.

Being able to leave a relationship that isn't working for you is the greatest advantage you have over a woman.


I've often been called aloof or detached simply because I can leave a bad situation without hard feelings.

Your world should never revolve around a woman. When you have different things going on in your life which interest and stimulate you, you will be sharper and clearer.

One thing about being in a relationship is that there is a lot of emotional attachment. You have to maintain your composure. As hard as it is, don't argue, scream, or get combative with her. Stick to your principles, discipline her if she disrespects the principles, and leave her if she brings more stress than pleasure.

All relationships do not have to be a stressful struggle. Don't believe the hype. Your relationship will be based on how well the personalities and ideologies of you and her mesh. In other words, find a woman who will compliment you.

Logic over emotions. Value what you see over what you feel. Cause your feelings will deceive you because you don't want to be hurt.

don't spend too much time thinking about what a woman is doing when she's not with you. continue to be a man and treat her with respect, and check her when she steps out of line. And once she violates, cut her off.

Before u get into a relationship, have an idea of what you expect to get out of it or benefit from it. If you take the time to do this, you will minimize the amount of relationships you have because you will realize that for most women the risk outweighs the reward. Some of them are just good for casual friends. U need to accept the fact that u don't have to wife every good looking chick u come across

They initially blind themselves and fail to read the signs because they underestimate the woman and overestimate the security of their relationship. If you know it could happen to you, you will always place reality over fantasy and u will make decisions based off of what u see, not what I foolishly believe. Those are the ones who always get done dirty.

Learn to read red flags to make future predictions. People do change, but it's gradual


The older you get, the more you will find that it is easier to meet and attract women of all ages. You will realize that there is a surplus of women out there. You will say damn, why did I ever sweat any bytch in the first place? And if you've done well for yourself in life, you will be a magnet to chicks, simply because you will be satisfied and confident in yourself and your abilities.

As long as you dodge getting the wrong women pregnant and set goals for yourself in life, you will inevitably win.

Being a gentleman is doing a nice gesture for a woman with no expectations. But at the same time, it is convenient for you. Never go out of your way for a woman, she won't do the same.

I always say don't do anything for a woman if you are expecting her to return the favor because it is unlikely.

1. Be in control your libido.
2. Always have an exit strategy.
3. Do not care what she thinks about you.
4. Read her body language and ignore her words.

Attraction is not based on logic. Being a great friend is not going to make a woman fall for you. Women like confident men, and a confident man is not going to allow himself to be ushered to the friendship zone.

If somebody wants to be with you, nothing can keep them away. But if somebody does not want to be with you, everything will keep them away.

your love is conditional. It is based upon how she treats you. Your love is a privilege not a right.

Because the key to having better relationships with women is not understanding them. The key to having better relationships with women is adhering to your principles, and getting rid of them at the first sign of nonsense that she refuses to correct.

Deal with women that have come to terms with their past relationship mistakes and failures and date you with optimism that you will be a good look.

Don't become a woman pleaser.

You should always deal with women in your natural state at all times

We're under this false impression that we have to impress women. Don't expose women to a lifestyle that you don't normally live. If you don't do five star restaurants on your own or with your friends, then why would you take a date to one?

Trying to impress women is what prompts them to feel entitled. If you're the type of dude that likes to go to Joe's Crab shack and the shorty you are dating isn't with it, then cut her off because she isn't for you. Never alter your lifestyle, your activities, your comforts for a woman because she won't do the same.

man I'm sitting at LGA reading this powerful shyt. This is too much realness on a Sunday. My nicca @Sharp

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Sharp drops plenty of gems

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I'm not spitting at no females til I get my shyt more together.
I don't got my own crib and my car is broke so I gotta take the bus.
my cousin out of town wants me to go to the mall and try and pull broads but I'm not gone do it. (he gone think I'm scared) ima have to be celibate some more months.

 

[A.V.]

I'm not spitting at no females til I get my shyt more together.
I don't got my own crib and my car is broke so I gotta take the bus.
my cousin out of town wants me to go to the mall and try and pull broads but I'm not gone do it. (he gone think I'm scared) ima have to be celibate some more months.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

 

[MikelArteta]

Stop!!!

Never let your situation in life be a a issue in getting women.

The only time IMO you should stop trying or spitting or whatever you do, is when you just exited a long term relationship and need to find yourself again

I'm not spitting at no females til I get my shyt more together.
I don't got my own crib and my car is broke so I gotta take the bus.
my cousin out of town wants me to go to the mall and try and pull broads but I'm not gone do it. (he gone think I'm scared) ima have to be celibate some more months.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Chick: where you stay?

me: greenspoint
chick: you got your own apartment?
me: no
chick:
me: I can come to ya place
chick: you got a car?
me: I gotta take the bus
chick:




that's how the game will go

 

[Pyrexcup]

I'm not spitting at no females til I get my shyt more together.
I don't got my own crib and my car is broke so I gotta take the bus.
my cousin out of town wants me to go to the mall and try and pull broads but I'm not gone do it. (he gone think I'm scared) ima have to be celibate some more months.

unless you are unhappy then go a head get your shyt together if not play on player. Let me tell me something i've learnt this year as this year has strictly been a learning year for me it does not matter how much money ect you have it's all about confidence. There are tons of guys out here with all of the money in the world clothes ect but dont get any attention from girls at all because they are shook to even approach one. I've seen the most bum ass guys rolling with pretty girls around with arms it's all in your head trust me i used to be the same, I can guarantee you the same girl who dissed you is getting smashed by a guy in worse or even similar position then you. Dont let these women fool you they do not know what they want dont believe me? go to any club you want to just observe the type of guys getting play

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

unless you are unhappy then go a head get your shyt together if not play on player. Let me tell me something i've learnt this year as this year has strictly been a learning year for me it does not matter how much money ect you have it's all about confidence. There are tons of guys out here with all of the money in the world clothes ect but dont get any attention from girls at all because they are shook to even approach one. I've seen the most bum ass guys rolling with pretty girls around with arms it's all in your head trust me i used to be the same, I can guarantee you the same girl who dissed you is getting smashed by a guy in worse or even similar position then you. Dont let these women fool you they do not know what they want dont believe me? go to any club you want to just observe the type of guys getting play

No disrespect breh but you not telling me nothing I don't already know.
Im just saying that I ain't got no car and no crib so its gone be more difficult for me to fukk with females (yes some thug dudes don't got none either)

 

[MikelArteta]

unless you are unhappy then go a head get your shyt together if not play on player. Let me tell me something i've learnt this year as this year has strictly been a learning year for me it does not matter how much money ect you have it's all about confidence. There are tons of guys out here with all of the money in the world clothes ect but dont get any attention from girls at all because they are shook to even approach one. I've seen the most bum ass guys rolling with pretty girls around with arms it's all in your head trust me i used to be the same, I can guarantee you the same girl who dissed you is getting smashed by a guy in worse or even similar position then you. Dont let these women fool you they do not know what they want dont believe me? go to any club you want to just observe the type of guys getting play

thank you!!

i will repeat, a woman that likes you for you, it doesn't matter what you have or who you are.

I remember being in church a while ago and the pastor is telling how he invited some one to church and there like no becaues they don't have any church clothes and there still in the world in terms of living their life and their life isn't in order, and I remember what he said you dont need your life in order to come to church

its the same with women, you don't need to have everything in order because trust me there will always always be something.

So you have a job and you have your own place, now your ready? so what happens if you lose your job and have to move back home?


Many of these women are 80k in student loan debt, battling depression and self esteem issues eff what they think

 

[MikelArteta]

Chick: where you stay?

me: greenspoint
chick: you got your own apartment?
me: no
chick:
me: I can come to ya place
chick: you got a car?
me: I gotta take the bus
chick:




that's how the game will go

you already lost the battle because you've accepted defeat in your mind.

 

[MikelArteta]

Hell i'm 29 and i still live at home, and i just started driving at 24. That has never ever ever been a issue in terms of me dating. If a chick can't accept my lifestyle well shrugs.

 

[MikelArteta]

here we go again

Standen says she met Gonzalez on vacation at the Club Amigo resort in Guardalavaca in April 2010, where he worked as an entertainer. The two fell in love and she travelled back and forth 10 times to be with him. She married him in January 2012 and filed for sponsorship.

“I loaded his phone with money so he could text me. I called him every day, twice a day. I sent him and his family $60 to $80 every two weeks. I got them cooking utensils, jeans and spices,” Standen says, teary.

“I stayed with him at his parents’ house. They said they loved me and he always put me on the phone with them. Before I leave, there are always tears in everyone’s eyes.”

Standen said friends had warned her about Cuban men marrying foreign women as a way out.

“I was so blinded to it. It feels so real, the love I felt from him. I was so close with him and his family. I put everything I had out there. I wouldn’t have known he’d do this to me,” she said.

http://www.thestar.com/news/immigra...s_brampton_bride_brokenhearted_and_broke.html

and yet here you are a man living in america, already selling yourself shorter than a bum ass cuban working at a resort for a few pesos

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm I the only one disgusted at the simping in movies and always working out in the end?

ths ish just emasculates men

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

unless you are unhappy then go a head get your shyt together if not play on player. Let me tell me something i've learnt this year as this year has strictly been a learning year for me it does not matter how much money ect you have it's all about confidence. There are tons of guys out here with all of the money in the world clothes ect but dont get any attention from girls at all because they are shook to even approach one. I've seen the most bum ass guys rolling with pretty girls around with arms it's all in your head trust me i used to be the same, I can guarantee you the same girl who dissed you is getting smashed by a guy in worse or even similar position then you. Dont let these women fool you they do not know what they want dont believe me? go to any club you want to just observe the type of guys getting play

you already lost the battle because you've accepted defeat in your mind.

Im not saying its impossible to get a chick without a crib/car but we can't deny that a good percentage of women rather deal with a man who atleast has one or the other. They will feel as if he doesnt have his shyt together