Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:snoop: a chick will be hot for you one week, and cold the next..shyt is annoying to the highest degree. #HOH in the new year, focusing on this career and savings. I don't want a main chick at all at this point. Just going to do me.

the older I get the less time I have for women like this
the quick Cut always works

it may take awhle but id rather wait for the chick that is into me and me alone
 

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How can a younger dude improve his mouthpiece and text game? Growing up I had really low self-esteem to the point that I just never spoke. I thought was ugly which turned out to be false. Got women telling me I look like a young Idris:takedat: . Now I can initially pull a chick, my approach game is nice but everything after that just seems to fall apart. Around females im not interested in im actually pretty decent, hella bad chicks cool being 'friends' but im not sure how to tweak that into being a boyfriend.

text game i can't help you, im pretty bad at it myself. i just try to propose a meetup before the vibe fizzles

as for the other stuff, you're probably being a bit too safe still. if you have a more direct style it will give you less maybe girls but will filter and make it easier to spot yes girls
:snoop: a chick will be hot for you one week, and cold the next..shyt is annoying to the highest degree. #HOH in the new year, focusing on this career and savings. I don't want a main chick at all at this point. Just going to do me.

its hormones bruh you should just be worried when your weeks are
 

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I think I realized what my problem is. I was at boxing the other day, and my coach was like "You know what your doing in there (the ring). You know JUST what your doing, but I'm gonna need you to be more CONFIDENT. You got the stuff, your just not being confident enough, that's all..."

He was 100 percent correct. But not only about my boxing, but about everything in general leading up to now in life, including women. I'd always kind of half-ass it when it came to the game, mainly because it ain't worth it to me. But, I was always underconfident due to shyt from childhood fukking with my subconscious. It's not like I even have a reason to have low confidence; It's kind of just "there" for some reason. I wish I could just reach into my brain and pull out whatever it is that's fukking with my life, but I guess it doesn't work like that. I think psychedelics will work wonders, since whenever I took shrooms I'd have a better sense of well-being afterwards. However, them shyts are hard to come by in my area.

Back to women: Basically, i'm thinking I may just have to say "fukk it,' and ignore that little voice of self-doubt until it finally goes away. I tried to say fukk FEMALES, GET YOURS, but I work around too many bad women on a daily basis. I have to have at least have a couple on the roster...
 

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Went to the local carnival event with the fam whilst there my ex called and asked me where I was I told her the carnival she said she was passing by near my place blah blah she needed glasses for this event they where going to I was like :stopitslime: realy nikka she laughed it off and hung up what kinda games to these chicks play she than turns her cellphone off :mjcry: even today :mjcry
 

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Went to the local carnival event with the fam whilst there my ex called and asked me where I was I told her the carnival she said she was passing by near my place blah blah she needed glasses for this event they where going to I was like :stopitslime: realy nikka she laughed it off and hung up what kinda games to these chicks play she than turns her cellphone off :mjcry: even today :mjcry
lol this is why you cut off your ex breh. take it from me.
 

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Is there hope for us brehs? Even though I shouldnt care just knowing she being all happy or even pretending meanwhile im surrounded by broken women and smut bags.
 

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I think there is always hope, the beauty of life is that it can change in a instance, you never know.

And I'm not one of those fate, destiny, when you least expect it type brehs.

You can go out tonight to buy a pack of gum and find the brehette who may bore your children, or you may be single for months/years who knows.

I don't worry and live for now, going to enjoy life regardless.

If you think back in life most times when you meet someone who leaves some mark on your life whether good or bad its by chance , I met my ex fiance at a birthday party I didn't plan on attending, I met the second girl I ever loved at a bus depot when she asked me for change, even the last chick I was talking to I was just trolling in tinder 3000 miles away

You never know breh :manny:






Is there hope for us brehs? Even though I shouldnt care just knowing she being all happy or even pretending meanwhile im surrounded by broken women and smut bags.
 

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First off thank you all for advice it definitely gave me something to read and think about. Honestly in my heart I want her back but I'm not going to be the one who puts all the effort in fixing our relationship. If I'm not getting equal effort in then fukk it I'm cutting her off :mjcry:
 

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Still caught up in the emotional connection time apart removes the rose colored glasses


First off thank you all for advice it definitely gave me something to read and think about. Honestly in my heart I want her back but I'm not going to be the one who puts all the effort in fixing our relationship. If I'm not getting equal effort in then fukk it I'm cutting her off :mjcry:
 

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:snoop: a chick will be hot for you one week, and cold the next..shyt is annoying to the highest degree. #HOH in the new year, focusing on this career and savings. I don't want a main chick at all at this point. Just going to do me.

game's the game playa. you just gotta assume that these chicks is talking to at least 2 other dudes right until yall start to get serious. these days women still hold on to single privileges until a ring is on the finger. at the same time, you just gotta do your own thing. now, if are coming right out and telling a girl you feeling her and you serious about her and she still breaking bad then :camby:
 
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So everyone at work knows I've been wronged. Word travels fast. It's cool though having women at work come up to you and be all sympathetic and be like "she will regret this, she doesn't realize it yet, you're a great guy" :

I don't know. Maybe they are blowing smoke but it makes me feel a little better. :manny:
 

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be masculine and wear tiaras brehs

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