Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Is there any kind of pattern with how women will mention their boyfriend? I notice some women right away "my boyfriend this, my boyfriend that.."

Other women the shyt comes out of nowhere.

Now, there is this girl at work and we've worked together for over a year, we talk about all kinds of shyt. I ask her about her weekend and she ask about mine and we'd go into detail. We've had all types of conversations. I mentioned my girl before. She has never mentioned her boyfriend. Ever. Not once. But I know he exists or at least did for a while because I met her Aunt through a mutual person and SHE mentioned the boyfriend.

Also, another girl at work. She has told other people there that she is dating a guy, etc. and she'll tell stories about where she went like "I went to this concert" or whatever but she will tell me the same story (not knowing that I already know that she went to the concert) and refer to her it as "I went there with my friend"

It's always "I went here or did this with my friend.."

:patrice:

edit: I'm not trying to date the girls at work lol I just want to know about the pattern
 

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Is there any kind of pattern with how women will mention their boyfriend? I notice some women right away "my boyfriend this, my boyfriend that.."

Other women the shyt comes out of nowhere.

Now, there is this girl at work and we've worked together for over a year, we talk about all kinds of shyt. I ask her about her weekend and she ask about mine and we'd go into detail. We've had all types of conversations. I mentioned my girl before. She has never mentioned her boyfriend. Ever. Not once. But I know he exists or at least did for a while because I met her Aunt through a mutual person and SHE mentioned the boyfriend.

Also, another girl at work. She has told other people there that she is dating a guy, etc. and she'll tell stories about where she went like "I went to this concert" or whatever but she will tell me the same story (not knowing that I already know that she went to the concert) and refer to her it as "I went there with my friend"

It's always "I went here or did this with my friend.."

:patrice:

edit: I'm not trying to date the girls at work lol I just want to know about the pattern
i dont wanna sound racist at all. but one thing i've noticed is that black girls are a lot more coy with mentioning they have a boyfriend until you damn near ask em straight up.

they;ll simply say i have plans instead of I'm going out with my boyfriend tonight
they'll say shyt like "I'm kinda talking to somebody " if you ask em out and they know its immoral to go

very passive with it. white girls will plaster that shyt everywhere with pictures in their display picture/facebook though. I'm not sure how long it took but I remember my last girlfriend always wanting to snap pics of us together and shyt. Doesn't mean shyt but combined with he personality I was :leon: when she put a pic of us on her Twitter profile and video of us on keek or some shyt.

I'd never ask a girl to do it on some piss to mark my territory shyt..but a lot of girls won't put their bf on display like that unless they are extremely enamoured with him and think he's good enough to make others jealous.
 
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Been texting this girl for a few weeks right, then i told her Friday lets meet at this bar on saturday @ 7:30 she agreed. (it was gonna b our first time meeting each other). Saturday come we were texting in the morning, around 2 oclock is when i stopped texting her, nikka 6:30 come around i hit her up askin are we still on for 7:30...no text back till 7:45 "i didnt know if we were still going so i went to dinner with my family"

"I told you friday":wtf:

"How am i suppose to know you havent text me since 2"

:what::camby:

They got the lamest excuses. Just say you're not interested. Don't insult my intelligence with excuses we both know is bullshyt. I'm never letting another lame excuse slide from now on. They're getting called out everytime.
 

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They got the lamest excuses. Just say you're not interested. Don't insult my intelligence with excuses we both know is bullshyt. I'm never letting another lame excuse slide from now on. They're getting called out everytime.

chicks rarely speak in black or white, usually grey

i love you but not in love with you
its better we remain friends
I'm busy
Oh something came up
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-Never let a chick know how much you want her, always play it cool. Dont come on too strong.












Add on, lets share the wealth brehs.


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Should done this in all my conquests.
 

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Something that seems interesting is that it isn't what you're into that necessarily interests a woman. It's more your patterns of behavior and the fact that you show that you won't tolerate any games.

We're taught when we're young, especially through media such as movies that it's all about common interests and getting to know each other
Is there any kind of pattern with how women will mention their boyfriend? I notice some women right away "my boyfriend this, my boyfriend that.."

Other women the shyt comes out of nowhere.

Now, there is this girl at work and we've worked together for over a year, we talk about all kinds of shyt. I ask her about her weekend and she ask about mine and we'd go into detail. We've had all types of conversations. I mentioned my girl before. She has never mentioned her boyfriend. Ever. Not once. But I know he exists or at least did for a while because I met her Aunt through a mutual person and SHE mentioned the boyfriend.

Also, another girl at work. She has told other people there that she is dating a guy, etc. and she'll tell stories about where she went like "I went to this concert" or whatever but she will tell me the same story (not knowing that I already know that she went to the concert) and refer to her it as "I went there with my friend"

It's always "I went here or did this with my friend.."

:patrice:

edit: I'm not trying to date the girls at work lol I just want to know about the pattern

If a woman wants to leave the doors open with you, they won't mention their boyfriend a lot of the time. It might feel flattering, but consider they could be doing the same thing to you on the other side.
 

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Been texting this girl for a few weeks right, then i told her Friday lets meet at this bar on saturday @ 7:30 she agreed. (it was gonna b our first time meeting each other). Saturday come we were texting in the morning, around 2 oclock is when i stopped texting her, nikka 6:30 come around i hit her up askin are we still on for 7:30...no text back till 7:45 "i didnt know if we were still going so i went to dinner with my family"

"I told you friday":wtf:

"How am i suppose to know you havent text me since 2"

:what::camby:
:laff: yo I think I had a similar story to this earlier to Midyear, They know EXACTLY what they are doing, i trash these types immediately.
 

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I'd like to hear you brehs opinion on a story i'm getting ready to talk about this isn't happening to me by the way. I have a cousin who's parents have separated and her mother kicked her father out the house(a house he had built for her father who is sick) and moved in her boyfriend she had been messing with prior to the separation. Since then my cousins father has been cooking dinner for his ex-wife and the boyfriend and last week for Christmas went to his ex-wife's mothers house dinner mind you the boyfriend is there as well eating right along with him...I personally don't know what's going on in my cousins father's head but this guy really doesn't have family(he was adopted) i honestly do feel like he is a victim of circumstance thoughts??:lupe:
 

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she had my same ideas on religion , was very problack and everything

but meh...shes not one i regret.

its funny because a mutual friend (that i cut off) actually wanted us to date BADLY. I told her i'm not sure if I'm attracted to her enough SO if she can ever get my dikk hard then fine ill do it.

She couldn't get it hard when it mattered b. Failed the test. :yeshrug:

that's the thing at the end of the day. If your cock cannot get hard, then there really is no point in pursuing a chick. :yeshrug:

personality and shyt is good and all, but when i want to wreck shawty, there has gotta be some attraction.
 
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