pretty much but egos get inflated
don't just say hi
must be this
must be that
while offering absolutely nothing but a warm hole that simps are
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pretty much but egos get inflated
don't just say hi
must be this
must be that
while offering absolutely nothing but a warm hole that simps are
over
i signed up to pof but put myself in another city just for 24 hrs before i delete my account
just seeing if i still got it
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Bruh, fukk online dating altogether, They don't do shyt on there but play games since so many simps blow their heads all the way the fukk up.I don't even want the perfect woman, just one that's perfect for me. Unfortunately, even that seems impossible....
BTW, though I'm not saying anything new, POF SUCKS!!!!!!
Bless't
Living the dream
Unless you catch one in the first day of her having her account before she deletes it. A lot of quality women (what I came to notice on okcupid) get an account for a day or two then, poof! Gone. The girl I'm seeing now literally put up a few pics, I messaged her for a day then she deleted it the next day. Life is all about timing I say.
Okay, honestly I'm just gonna come out and say it....in terms of online dating I think most men are generally wasting their time. Especially if you use online dating to talk to really attractive women.
So I wanted to see why women weren't responding to my messages on POF, OkCupid, when I sent them something. My first inclination was they were essentially saying "I'm not her type", my second thought was she gets flooded with messages and only chooses ones she likes sporadically.
So I set up a fake profile on both OkCupid and POF with a picture of a homegirl and before I can even FINISH the profile let alone write a summary I already had 10 guys sending messages. In just two days there were over 150+ messages.
You can't even send a message that "sticks out" because by the time you send something 50 other messages came and pushed you all the way to the second page....it was ridiculous.
I don't even bother with it anymore honestly, but sometimes a cute girl may catch your message every once in a while. But in terms of consistency.....I think its a waste.
Pretty much
Paid sires are better but paying to message a chick?
This is online dating for most men
The chick is the goat
Paid sires are better but paying to message a chick?
This is online dating for most men
The chick is the goat
Just did something some of ya'll would advise against. Replied back to the last girl I cut ties with. Before it ended with me saying I don't make time for people that don't have time for me. She wrote back a long message about how she was busy, this that but I saw through all that and didn't respond. So it's been about a month and I still see her around every so often but I just walk by her. Actually saw her today and did the same.
Then I was thinking this shyt is petty, I'm not gonna act like this shyt still bothers me when I honestly don't care anymore. So I wanted to dead all the negative energy and texted her to tell her I don't hold a grudge and hope she has a good year. Next time we run by one another I don't gotta front. I def won't start anything again if she comes back trying but I think it's also ok to be mature about it and just move on with no ill feelings.
Then I was thinking this shyt is petty, I'm not gonna act like this shyt still bothers me when I honestly don't care anymore. So I wanted to dead all the negative energy and texted her to tell her I don't hold a grudge and hope she has a good year. Next time we run by one another I don't gotta front. I def won't start anything again if she comes back trying but I think it's also ok to be mature about it and just move on with no ill feelings.
Bless't
Living the dream
I agree in all actuality. An original message with some playful humor in it can peak a lady's attention sometimes. But you do have to catch them when they are online or, like you said, you'll get pushed down to the second or third page.You also have to be somewhat judgmental when it comes to their pics. Because they are sure as shyt doing the same to you.
Does it even look like she'd entertain your advances out in public? (speaking in generalities of course, no specifically you) Does it look like she wants the tatted up, meat head, dikk who doesnt give a shyt about anything? Does she want the hipster-vegan who loves PBR and vinyl? Does she want the "baller" in Jorns and true's? etc., etc., etc.
Online dating is exhausting and almost counter productive if you're looking for something of substance. I did it for over a year and damn near gave up on the shyt until I met my girl now. Just saying.
Back in the day the MySpace days it was better I met so many women of MySpace and other old social site platforms.
The main reason I don't like online dating is because you have to sell yourself , and everyone is full of lies.
Every woman is great, and wants a honest. Loyal guy, they love travelling ans watching Netflix, their tired of the club and bar scene bla bla bla
Even if you succeed in your message being read then you gotta get the number then you gotta go on a date and she's fielding multiple offers
Eff that
The main reason I don't like online dating is because you have to sell yourself , and everyone is full of lies.
Every woman is great, and wants a honest. Loyal guy, they love travelling ans watching Netflix, their tired of the club and bar scene bla bla bla
Even if you succeed in your message being read then you gotta get the number then you gotta go on a date and she's fielding multiple offers
Eff that
I agree in all actuality. An original message with some playful humor in it can peak a lady's attention sometimes. But you do have to catch them when they are online or, like you said, you'll get pushed down to the second or third page.You also have to be somewhat judgmental when it comes to their pics. Because they are sure as shyt doing the same to you.
Does it even look like she'd entertain your advances out in public? (speaking in generalities of course, no specifically you) Does it look like she wants the tatted up, meat head, dikk who doesnt give a shyt about anything? Does she want the hipster-vegan who loves PBR and vinyl? Does she want the "baller" in Jorns and true's? etc., etc., etc.
Online dating is exhausting and almost counter productive if you're looking for something of substance. I did it for over a year and damn near gave up on the shyt until I met my girl now. Just saying.
Like my breh @Emperor_ReinScarf slways says, if she really mess with you, nothing will stop her from wanting to see you or getting into contact with you. Don't let these women have you chasing them around.
Breh one of my friends went to Jamaica 4 times in a year to see the guy she ended up marrying who she met at a resort.
If a woman wants you nothing will stop her not pride, distant, being busy
She will find a way
If a woman wants you nothing will stop her not pride, distant, being busy
She will find a way
Men are so unbelievably thirsty and will use any means necessary to get a woman's attention, which often equates to constantly complimenting her. Women can be on several different social networks, and on each one, their box is full of 'hey beautifuls' and 'how are you's?' It's no wonder that mean are expendable to women. When they get tired of one, they can fire their phone up and have their pick of another one.
I could say do this or that trick to get her attention, but really, it's not worth it. She's getting all of that attention for no real reason other than men are thirst hounds. Ultimately, it's best to stay off of those dating sites and keep it simple in real life. If she's feeling you, she'll let you know. If you get hit with the distance and sparse replies, stop wasting time. You know what it is.
That's why I recommend learning how to 'be alone'. You cannot compete with a woman in the attention game. You could have a roster, but what happens when your roster depletes? You'll start making desperate moves because you're not getting female attention at a particular point in time. Moves made out of desperation are moves that will eventually land you in an unpleasant situation. YOUR power is in simply only dealing with a woman on YOUR terms... not being affected by the attention she gets or trying to compete with her in the attention game. Keep yourself busy with life and only allow a woman to be in your life if she is worthy.
You might be alone for a while, but honestly, so what? Unless you want to deal with drama and a woman playing psychological mind games with you, using other dudes as leverage to get what she wants from you or you having to do all kinds of circus stunts to keep her attention. With what women actually bring to the table, it really baffles my mind how they are getting the amount of attention they are, but then again, dudes are super parched these days, so it's no surprise.
I could say do this or that trick to get her attention, but really, it's not worth it. She's getting all of that attention for no real reason other than men are thirst hounds. Ultimately, it's best to stay off of those dating sites and keep it simple in real life. If she's feeling you, she'll let you know. If you get hit with the distance and sparse replies, stop wasting time. You know what it is.
That's why I recommend learning how to 'be alone'. You cannot compete with a woman in the attention game. You could have a roster, but what happens when your roster depletes? You'll start making desperate moves because you're not getting female attention at a particular point in time. Moves made out of desperation are moves that will eventually land you in an unpleasant situation. YOUR power is in simply only dealing with a woman on YOUR terms... not being affected by the attention she gets or trying to compete with her in the attention game. Keep yourself busy with life and only allow a woman to be in your life if she is worthy.
You might be alone for a while, but honestly, so what? Unless you want to deal with drama and a woman playing psychological mind games with you, using other dudes as leverage to get what she wants from you or you having to do all kinds of circus stunts to keep her attention. With what women actually bring to the table, it really baffles my mind how they are getting the amount of attention they are, but then again, dudes are super parched these days, so it's no surprise.
Chris Rock said it a long time ago and it's true. A woman knows if she wants to deal with you when she first sees you. Women that are interested are not THAT difficult to deal with. Occasionally there are shy women, but there's a huge difference between a woman that is somewhat shy and hard to get and a woman that is indifferent. If a woman hits you with the flaking or busy stuff, time to move on. It simply is NOT worth the effort to chase women around. Their egos are already superinflated and you're putting yourself in a boat to compete with 20,000 other simps. If she doesn't take to you and make herself easy to deal with, keep it pushing.