That Japanese girl right there just shows you how different it is when a woman is actually feeling you. This is why it's important to avoid women who have a low interest level. A lot of guys get into dealing with a woman who isn't very interested in them and try to compensate with dinners and circus tricks, while there is a woman who can't wait to be in their presence and they have to do nothing other than be themselves. One of the best realizations a man can come to in my opinion is simply being yourself while recognizing which women like you and which ones don't and stop wasting times with the ones who don't particularly care for you.
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And merely weeks ago you were in here bugging bout that trifling ex girlfriendI'm not even doing much and I already have this girl so enamored with me that she's going to take a trip from Japan just to come see me.
Funny how the world works...shyt is a wakeupcall
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Does she make you happy? Does she have all the qualities that make you wanna grow with her? Is she loyal? Does she have her shyt together?
If you answered all of these questions as 'yes' then breh, what's love got to do with it?
Love is a four letter word...we define what it is.
So for the most part yes. To me that type of "love" can only exist between a person and his or her child. It creates a slippery slope when involving a partner and for that reason shouldnt be the most important thing in a relationship. It'll have you turning a blind eye to all sorts of problems thinking that its because you love somebody when in essence its really just brain chemicals/neurotransmitters warping your mind. Two people's feelings for eachother will never be 100% in sync; there is always going to be somebody who cares more. But as far as love is concerned what exactly are you waiting for or perceiving to be the benefit of it?
You waiting for butterflies in your stomach? Because nothing good has ever come from a nikka feeling butterflies in his stomach.
Chick is loyal, she smart she just need somebody to guide her ( which at this point in my young life i have no time for)
I think i would be much happier if i found her 4 years later when she more grown and has more money.
But why do i still talk to other women even tho most of the time they come at i still play the game , Even tho it wrong maybe im just a no good nikka like my pops
that being said, nobody can tell you whether or not you should be happy. thats partially what dating is for...to find what you want/like. Just because everyone else says shorty is a 10 doesnt mean you have to feel that way. Youre your own man after all.
Unfortunately I'm sure a vast majority of people realize that likelihood of finding somebody who is actually good for them and checks off all the boxes is pretty much impossible and end up settling because they lacked the foresight when they were younger.
be rational is all i'm saying.
Unfortunately I'm sure a vast majority of people realize that likelihood of finding somebody who is actually good for them and checks off all the boxes is pretty much impossible and end up settling because they lacked the foresight when they were younger.
be rational is all i'm saying.
4 years later she wont be the same person and you wouldve missed out on an opportunity to mold and grow with her ...A lot can happen in for years that could lead he rto become tainted or even just find somebody new who she feels appreciates her. This is the game though breh, you know this.I just dont like seeing young dudes (i'm guessing youre a little bit below my age) fukk up with good girlfriends over some bullshyt.
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I'm young myself so I know what you mean about wanting to focus on yourself more rather than having to guide your girl but if you've got yourself a good one, you gotta hold onto that. The dating game is messed up and if you value personalities on a deeper level, you can find yourself without a meaningful relationship for a while.
As far as flirting goes, I wouldn't do it but as long as it stops at flirting and you're not exchanging numbers and having extracurricular conversations, it's relatively harmless.
When you finally sever ties you never know what awaits
And merely weeks ago you were in here bugging bout that trifling ex girlfriend
Funny how the world works...shyt is a wakeupcall
LOL this is a good discussion.Yeah nikka i want a bytch to make me go head over heels n shyt , all you nikkas seem to let it happen from stories in this thread.
Lot of cats in here share there stories with the sad MJ face()n shyt but how much did you care about that girl to even make you feel that way after she left you. That must be what love is right?
Love is pretty much just an attachment. I dont see much of a difference between the two so to me it's nothing special man. That's why after the first heartbreak a lot of dudes say they'll probably never love the same again; its because theyve learned not to get attached or that it brings more negative than positive. Many (including myself) even look back like..."love? man I was bugging back then. That wasnt no love.
Thank god I woke up 
" You can love cigarettes but that doesnt mean cigarettes are good for you. It's just that the nicotine has created an attachment; a dependency so to speak and that is where the whole neurotransmitter/chemical stuff I mentioned comes into play. How many people later on tell you that they wish they never began smoking cigarettes because now they can't stop even though they want to. It's the same thing. It'll have you acting out of character. All of a sudden instead of going to the library to study for an exam youre outside in -10 degree weather smoking with the cool kids . All of a sudden, instead of trusting your girl and enjoying your relationship and time spent with her, youre going through her phone or questioning her whereabouts because youre paranoid. 
Thats why I say mostly, true love can only exist between a parent and his or her seed. Think about it...most dudes here have probably been broken up with my a chick or vice versa and it was like all those feelings of "love" between the two persons went out the window.All of a sudden the victim finds themselves competing with their ex girlfriend trying to live better than them. All of a sudden theyre getting feelings of resentment, envy and in some cases even hoping their ex experiences some sort of misfortune. Is that real love? Of course not, compared to a mother who still loves her son regardless of how criminalistic, mischievous or bad of a person he is.
Like I said, just be rational breh. There's a lot more science and psychology to this relationship/love stuff than meets the eye. You'd be surprised.
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All that butterflies head over heels is bs
It only lasts in the honeymoon period like the first 3-5 months of a relationship
Its the drug of novelty like watching a movie or binge watching on Netflix
It only lasts in the honeymoon period like the first 3-5 months of a relationship
Its the drug of novelty like watching a movie or binge watching on Netflix