Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

New alimony law is bad for women - CNN.com

children victims of violence.
(CNN) -- If Massachusetts' strangely arcane Alimony Reform Act were to become the law of the land, the financial well-being and security of married women could be seriously threatened.
The law dramatically changes the way judges grant alimony for nonworking ex-spouses. It is written in gender-neutral terminology, but because 97% of the people who seek and require alimony are women, the effects on women will be substantially greater.

First the (oversimplified) basics: The new law decides whether alimony will be granted, if at all, based not on a wide variety of criteria -- such as the value of the nonworking spouse's contributions to the marriage -- but on how many years the couple stayed married and how much money the working spouse made during the marriage. And it won't last a lifetime. If a marriage lasted 15 years, a woman will receive alimony, at most, for only 10½ years.
It's craziness. The Massachusetts legislature has effectively embraced a policy declaring that being married is roughly akin to working in state government. The more years you log, the bigger your pension, and if you make it to certain cut-off periods, you get a larger sum.

Specifically, five years of marriage or less gets the dependent spouse alimony for a period equal to 50% of the number of months the couple was married. So, if a couple stays married for two years, the dependent spouse will receive alimony for no more than 12 months. A marriage that lasts at least 15 years, but less than 20, entitles the dependent spouse to alimony for 80% of the number of months of the marriage.

If it weren't such a dangerous bill, it might be worth only a few snarky remarks about how people are not widgets, and human relationships should not be subjected to mechanical valuation systems. But this is a bill that threatens serious consequences and will affect women in ways that transcend economic concerns.

rest of article at the link

http://www.cnn.com/2012/03/09/opinion/murphy-alimony-overhaul-con/index.html

Hilarious that an alimony law offering 'equality' is considered bad for women by this woman. Sorry, sometimes 'equality sucks.'

 

[kevm3]

Reading the comments section was fun. At least there are a decent amount of sensible women there who agree that alimony 'as-is' in most states is grossly unfair.

 

[Big Jo]

What's some good soaps?
Is African Soap legit

Supposedly African Soap is great. I haven't tried it yet, but I'm gonna buy some soon.

This is what I'm using now

Amazon.com: Medimix Ayurvedic Soap 125g - New Large Size: Beauty

I buy it at a local Indian shop for $2. It's got like 18 Ayurvedic herbs in it. It works wonders. Cleared up my acne right away and gives my skin this radiant glow.

Ever since I started using skin products girls are flocking to me. It's like I discovered some magical shortcut to getting laid.

Also I just want to add Howie's advice is so spot-on. He absolutely nailed it. I've adopted a similar approach myself (though I'd never be able to articulate it as well as he did) and it's unbelievably effective.

 

[trick]

Supposedly African Soap is great. I haven't tried it yet, but I'm gonna buy some soon.

This is what I'm using now

Amazon.com: Medimix Ayurvedic Soap 125g - New Large Size: Beauty

I buy it at a local Indian shop for $2. It's got like 18 Ayurvedic herbs in it. It works wonders. Cleared up my acne right away and gives my skin this radiant glow.

Ever since I started using skin products girls are flocking to me. It's like I discovered some magical shortcut to getting laid.

Also I just want to add Howie's advice is so spot-on. He absolutely nailed it. I've adopted a similar approach myself (though I'd never be able to articulate it as well as he did) and it's unbelievably effective.

let us know how it goes with that african soap, pause. re-occurring adult acne sucks.

 

[Big Jo]

let us know how it goes with that african soap, pause. re-occurring adult acne sucks.

Oh I should mention Burts Bees products are the piff nasty too. I alternate between the herbal soap and this body wash.

Burt's Bees*Extra Energizing Body Wash | Walgreens

Women will start randomly touching you and sh1t. I almost didn't want to give away my secret but for the Coli brethren...

 

[Malikthegod]

Eating healthier, drinking only water, not touching your face AT ALL can do wonders for your skin.

 

[Big Jo]

Eating healthier, drinking only water, not touching your face AT ALL can do wonders for your skin.

Yup. Co-sign all of that

I subscribe to this dude's videos on Youtube.



Ross da Gawd got me pulling so many girls its ridiculous

 

[Big Jo]

Oh and outside of the skin care stuff, the best advice I can give you is just to LISTEN.

Listen to the woman when she speaks. Always let her finish a sentence. Always ask her questions. Always make the conversation mostly about her

Melting hearts has never been so easy

 

[winb83]

I can't believe how much of a nice guy/simp i was in my early 20's

I was a simp because I actually cared. My simping wasn't intentional I was trying to look out for women I cared about. When I got burned on that car I got my friend I just stopped caring. These women out here all have so many problems and shyt I don't care now. You're a grown adult fix your own shyt just like I had to do for dolo.

 

[Rosie]

You really want to know, pumpkin t*ts?


The thing about all the aforementioned material your inquisitive pint-sized cerebrum has been studying.

All stems from experience.

Whether or not its to be followed; every man has to go through ordeals and tribulations and fine-tune his own approach. All that's been said is simply a guide for the next man to ingest, register... and hopefully - apply.

There's a saying, sweetcheeks - "If i knew then what i knew now. Boy what my life would be like."

Well...

You see, because the adage, "You can't learn to live with regrets" is something old timers are always so adamant about teaching to their successors/younger generation.

The correlation between the two proverbs are so necessary as they are materialized to set up a solid foundation for the callow and unaware.

Men don't have mothafukkin' Vogue, Mademoiselle, Seventeen, Cosmopolitan to read and learn about the opposite sex.

Stuff and Maxim is almost ALL humor (and GQ and Esquire are publications run my gay editors who really don't observe things in the hetero-male perspective - seldomly if so, but you can sense the homo-erotic stances that the writers prose is demonstrated from. You can smell the gay rhetoric from a galaxy away).

Now, forums/message boards/blogs are the only way men can truly communicate with one another. Express our feelings and rant about the things that permeate our existences and play such huge/defining roles in our lifes: LOVE AND ROMANCE (one can deny its pivotal factor-ness and its importance, but who are we to kid? Without the matters of the heart that drive us to be who we are, do what we do, see what we see and act how we act - why are we even alive?).


Feels like i'm talking to a plant. Look.


Babe, let me axe yo' ass kwesshun:


The last time a man took you out on a first date. Did he make you feel as though you've known him your entire life? Did he instill certain thoughts and ideas that manifested into sheer pleasure and knock the hell out of your female intuition and want to ravage the clothes off his back right where you two sit/stand?

I'm no fukkin' dating expert. But i've been through what i've been through cuz i've essentially gone to hell and back.

Do i have any resentments?

Naw.

My flaws were of my own doing and all derived from lack of experience.

Now that i know what to do when i'm with Amanda, Jackie, Denise, Jennifer, Shantay, Anne, Mai, Fujiko, Adeesa, etc. Then i'm going to do my best to make her smile. The fashion, the whips, the hygiene and upkeep... that's just a facade. The supplementing factors are only a facade.


Let me turn lever on the stove... cuz i want to show you what it all boils down to:


TELL HER YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE FOR HER WITHOUT SAYING IT! Because my goal, before the end of the night?


I'm going to make her feel like she's in complete and utter ecstasy...


..without taking Xtasy.


You wanna know what that feels like?.


Humph...


You're not gonna get any of it sitting behind that damn monitor, hun.


And i'm gone...


*fades in sunset while she stays whet*


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I aint reading all that, thanks though.

 

[winb83]

the one thing about women i don't get is women can be the most shytty person but have to come up with an excuse or rationalization for doing you dirty.

example i was dealing with a chick and she randomly started accusing me of fukking with other women. there was no reason or evidence. i found out she had a twitter and while we're supposed to be exclusive she's talking about other nikkas she fukks with on there.

she accused me of cheating because she wanted to fukk with other people. in her mind that made it ok to do so. the thing is you can often see chicks acting out these silly ass behavioral patterns. its not even shytty behavior. you can meet a chick and fukk the first night she wants to fukk but she's giving all this token resistance to you. its like she has to act out that pattern of behavior before she can fukk you.

once you learn the patterns you start to see them acted out all the time and you can use them to read people. its not 100% but typically if you see a female acting out one you know what's really up with her.

meanwhile a nikka will see a bytch and wanna cheat cheat then just do it. he doesn't have to rationalize his shyttiness. woman wants to fukk other people she has to find a reason like "you were never there" cause you're always at work or "you fukking her aren't you" about any random female to justify her behavior. its like they almost have to blame someone else for what they're doing.

thing is if you were of high character and you were with someone you thought was fukking around you'd leave them not fukk around yourself.

 

[MikelArteta]

I was a simp because I actually cared. My simping wasn't intentional I was trying to look out for women I cared about. When I got burned on that car I got my friend I just stopped caring. These women out here all have so many problems and shyt I don't care now. You're a grown adult fix your own shyt just like I had to do for dolo.

tom leykis

Over time, if you've been paying attention, women have taught us well: treat them like crap and they'll keep coming back for more.

You know what I mean. I'm not even remotely suggesting physical violence or sexual assault, so don't try to misinterpret what I say. I am suggesting that being undependable, unreliable, untrustworthy, and unpredictable are the biggest turn-ons for most women. Take it from me: women cheat on reliable, dependable sorts with volatile, unreliable types all the time. Yes, women complain about us, but they keep coming back to us time and time again, leaving Poindexter at home in the dust.

The problem with many students is that they start to attach emotion to sex the way their mommies told them to. That has to stop immediately. Having an orgasm feels great, just like taking a good long piss after drinking a sixer of Fat Tire. Thank God that urinal was conveniently located, right boys? But would you ever fall in love iwth a urinal? After taking a big whiz, do you ever say to yourself, "This is going well. I think I want to move into the Men's Room and live here!" Of course not.

So why do we say things like that to women after we've shot 'em full o'juice?

Keep the emotion out of it. If you feel yourself wanting to take over the car payments of someone who is really no more than a cum dumpster, put her on ice for awhile. Go fukk someone else. These emotions are costly over time, as anyone who's ever given up half of everything they've ever owned can attest. Think of women the way you think of a urinal: after you relieve yourself and you're feeling great, towel off Big Jim and the Twins, wash your hands thoroughly, and head for the exit. You don't owe her a Payment for Services Rendered.

Even women know this is good advice, right ladies?

 

[Turbulent]

the one thing about women i don't get is women can be the most shytty person but have to come up with an excuse or rationalization for doing you dirty.

example i was dealing with a chick and she randomly started accusing me of fukking with other women. there was no reason or evidence. i found out she had a twitter and while we're supposed to be exclusive she's talking about other nikkas she fukks with on there.

she accused me of cheating because she wanted to fukk with other people. in her mind that made it ok to do so. the thing is you can often see chicks acting out these silly ass behavioral patterns. its not even shytty behavior. you can meet a chick and fukk the first night she wants to fukk but she's giving all this token resistance to you. its like she has to act out that pattern of behavior before she can fukk you.

once you learn the patterns you start to see them acted out all the time and you can use them to read people. its not 100% but typically if you see a female acting out one you know what's really up with her.

meanwhile a nikka will see a bytch and wanna cheat cheat then just do it. he doesn't have to rationalize his shyttiness. woman wants to fukk other people she has to find a reason like "you were never there" cause you're always at work or "you fukking her aren't you" about any random female to justify her behavior. its like they almost have to blame someone else for what they're doing.

thing is if you were of high character and you were with someone you thought was fukking around you'd leave them not fukk around yourself.

this is very true generally.

when dudes cheat and talk about their cheating with other dudes, we already know we're scumbags. no sugar coating, we keep it real at least to ourselves. ask a guy why he cheated and he'll tell you straight up cause he's a dog. this is why women will never be able to do the things men do. this is why there are double standards about men being able to sleep around. because in a way, we pay the price for that shyt.


but yeah, in general, in order to get women to do what you want them to do, just build the perfect scenario of justifications in her mind. the way most women think is:

"i want to do ________ but at the same time this would be socially unacceptable. but technically it's not my fault if A, B and C happen. i'll still be ladylike and at the same time i get to do _________".

this is what is often called "chick logic". sometimes it's not even on a conscious level. don't try to fight it. don't try to change the game. things will never change. just play it to your advantage. if you want the chick to _______, then you have to figure out a way to provide AB and C (or at least the appearance of ABC). and it doesn't matter if she knows you're doing it on purpose. she will play dumb because at the end of the day she also wants _______. let her play dumb and play dumb about the fact she's playing dumb too. and everyone wins.

this is the reason some women pretend to be tipsy/drunk, the reason some of them try to get the title right after you fukked them, the reason why some of them cry rape after they had a consensual gangbang/train. to make it either seem acceptable or to make it seem like it wasn't their fault. it makes it like something "happened" to them. they're freed from responsibility. a lot of times that's all a woman wants from a man. she wants him to take responsibility for her choices so that her rep and image can be free of any blemishes. figure out how to do that without it being too much trouble for you and you can get a lot of women to eat from your hand.

you ever wonder why some chicks will say no just when you're about to put it in? and then if the guy stops she actually wants him to continue? i'm willing to bet one of the big reasons is that if she feels shame/remorse afterwards, at least she can tell herself that she technically did tell him to stop. chick logic...

 

[MikelArteta]

this is very true generally.

when dudes cheat and talk about their cheating with other dudes, we already know we're scumbags. no sugar coating, we keep it real at least to ourselves. ask a guy why he cheated and he'll tell you straight up cause he's a dog. this is why women will never be able to do the things men do. this is why there are double standards about men being able to sleep around. because in a way, we pay the price for that shyt.


but yeah, in general, in order to get women to do what you want them to do, just build the perfect scenario of justifications in her mind. the way most women think is:

"i want to do ________ but at the same time this would be socially unacceptable. but technically it's not my fault if A, B and C happen. i'll still be ladylike and at the same time i get to do _________".

this is what is often called "chick logic". sometimes it's not even on a conscious level. don't try to fight it. don't try to change the game. things will never change. just play it to your advantage. if you want the chick to _______, then you have to figure out a way to provide AB and C (or at least the appearance of ABC). and it doesn't matter if she knows you're doing it on purpose. she will play dumb because at the end of the day she also wants _______. let her play dumb and play dumb about the fact she's playing dumb too. and everyone wins.

this is the reason some women pretend to be tipsy/drunk, the reason some of them try to get the title right after you fukked them, the reason why some of them cry rape after they had a consensual gangbang/train. to make it either seem acceptable or to make it seem like it wasn't their fault. it makes it like something "happened" to them. they're freed from responsibility. a lot of times that's all a woman wants from a man. she wants him to take responsibility for her choices so that her rep and image can be free of any blemishes. figure out how to do that without it being too much trouble for you and you can get a lot of women to eat from your hand.

you ever wonder why some chicks will say no just when you're about to put it in? and then if the guy stops she actually wants him to continue? i'm willing to bet one of the big reasons is that if she feels shame/remorse afterwards, at least she can tell herself that she technically did tell him to stop. chick logic...

yep, chick sleeps wiht aguy on the first date "i just really felt a spark something i never felt before"

chick cheats "i never do this, i was just going through a rough patch in my life you weren't there for me it means nothing"

the feminist movement in a nutshell. is all about infinite options and zero responsibility. That is why crime, injustice, increasing morality depravity and the increasing government interference in people’s lives is so pervasive. Women lust after wealth, fame, and power. It's truly selfishness as its finest when someone wants everything for nothing. Even timid Peter Parker knew that with great power comes great responsibility.

 

[kevm3]

the one thing about women i don't get is women can be the most shytty person but have to come up with an excuse or rationalization for doing you dirty.

example i was dealing with a chick and she randomly started accusing me of fukking with other women. there was no reason or evidence. i found out she had a twitter and while we're supposed to be exclusive she's talking about other nikkas she fukks with on there.

she accused me of cheating because she wanted to fukk with other people. in her mind that made it ok to do so. the thing is you can often see chicks acting out these silly ass behavioral patterns. its not even shytty behavior. you can meet a chick and fukk the first night she wants to fukk but she's giving all this token resistance to you. its like she has to act out that pattern of behavior before she can fukk you.

once you learn the patterns you start to see them acted out all the time and you can use them to read people. its not 100% but typically if you see a female acting out one you know what's really up with her.

meanwhile a nikka will see a bytch and wanna cheat cheat then just do it. he doesn't have to rationalize his shyttiness. woman wants to fukk other people she has to find a reason like "you were never there" cause you're always at work or "you fukking her aren't you" about any random female to justify her behavior. its like they almost have to blame someone else for what they're doing.

thing is if you were of high character and you were with someone you thought was fukking around you'd leave them not fukk around yourself.

The victim game and shifting of responsibility and accountability. You will see that same game played out numerous times with a lot of these women.