Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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@kevm3 @Asantehene @Turbulent @CrossBones @Atlrocafella @Emperor_ReinScarf and any other nikka...
never trust a woman's words. Fukk what she thinks and what she says. If she says something, let her be about it..don't remind her, don't coerce her...don't do any of that. She knows wassup. You asked her when's a good time to kick it? She either answers your question or gives you some vague answer. If its vague, simply say aii, do your thing. At this point, some are gonna realize you bout to cut em off cuz of their BS excuse, so they gonna lie to you to keep you on the hook (ie. provide you perhaps with an alternative date in the future) so you can still entertain em or provide whatever it is you are providing without her having to give up anything in return (ie. meeting up to kick it)
"i miss you"
"how come we don't hang out no more"
"i love you"
its getting to the point where i cannot take a woman serious. Their words mean absolute jack shyt to me unless proven otherwise.
Yeah man, if a woman's interested, it's really not hard to set up a meeting time and she'll actually show up. If she's really busy, she'll easily reschedule and give you a specific time.
I have beef with no one, but if someone calls me out
im done though
I don't even save women's numbers in my phone anymore until they prove themself.
I'll just work off a text message, call them from that screen if needed. But ur not getting in my contact list easy b/c too many chicks flake out these days.
i call them "seasonal women" changing like the weather
breh I don't care about your validation you are so fixated on me thinking you know my life and you can read me.
your the one who came in this thread and decided to write long ass paragraphs on who you think I am when you don't even know me.
Lol at hate, what have I said that's angry and hateful? you can't even show me one thing. Again because I don't take back disrespectful people in my life, and my whole existence isnt about puzzy you think im angry or hateful, your the one who needs help you pathetic speciment of a human being.
I changed my number once you dumb a$$hole at the beginning of the year, the same numbe ri had for over 2 years. Why the hell would I give a second chance for? I forgive and forgeet but I know longer have to associate. Your the pathetic simp who would take back a cheater, ro some chick that disrespected you all for puzzy you have no backbone.
Lol at rainy days, I have no rainy days, your just not on my level and will never be, i'm still waiting for you to post one photo breh, its funny how this all went from me struggling to get women, to not getting any dimes, to being hateful and angry, choose a ducktale and stick with it breh.
Grow a backbone you pathetic simp
awww buddy. come on. u and i both know you are the pathetic one. see, i can sense the anger in ur posts. and i wonder, how is this becoming of a born again christian? do u not know what a born again christian is?
but anyway, let us talk about the bolded.
u struggling to get women = yes, u traveled several hundred miles to meet a chick that blew u off. yeah, u say u had a blast despite that. i believe u. yes i do. ok? u happy? actually i dont believe u. lol but lets just say i do. ok? cool
u not getting dimes = yeah, u get dimes. but u have to travel hundreds of miles to get them. when a dime lives in a remote island, where there is no viable man. yes, she will take any man from any where. even u. so yes, congrats on getting a dime.
u being hateful = now, do i really have to tell u how hateful u are? you see, i've been reading the many criticisms u get on this forum. and some are funny, some are just sad. but in all honesty, i didn't come here to attack u. i came here to lend a helping hand to you man to man. see. i've been on these forums a long time. since early 2000s. my initial screen name was playerboss and i was doing the exact same sh1t u are doing now. i had hate in me. but then, i stepped out into the world and began to enjoy it. sometimes i get my feelings hurt, and i write about it on here. but i get smarter and i move on. i love the female gender but i'm cautious at the same time. you, on the other hand, ur inability to let go is troubling. i wouldn't be surprised if u end up killing a woman. there's been so much hurt that i've seen u talk about that, if u continue to let it pile up, it will result in nothing good for you.
so there u have it. the Truest soul has spoken. Take these words of wisdom and do with it what you will. I shall disperse into the shadows now until a later time. but fret not, my friend. i will be watching you.
Again I said please show me a post where I hate women or are angry at women I'm waiting. For you to even incline that I would kill a woman or hurt?
you are crazy literally you have major major issues. I volunteer at a woman's shelter and have clearance and have for year, you don't know me, stop trying to throw out outrageous slander hoping something sticks
And all of this because I wont follow your stupid ideology of puzzy first before anything like a fatherless fakkit you are.
Lol I don't struggle to get women hell I was engaged at age 20, hell my last ex lives 5 minutes away from me how the hell is that miles?
Everything you think about me is totally incorrect, its sad breh really sad how fukkn pathetic you are.
Lol at coming to help me if you actually think everything o post on here is serious
get some help breh you need it seriouslyYour not Eben true your a fraud and have always been one, cry and simp over a broad who leaves you because your short you fatherless fakkit.
Your mantra went from me not getting women, to getting ugly women to anyone can get dimes to having to travel hundreds of miles to some remote place to get women
Thanks for the entertaining night.
Again I said please show me a post where I hate women or are angry at women I'm waiting. For you to even incline that I would kill a woman or hurt?
I volunteer at a woman's shelter and have clearance and have for year, you don't know me, stop trying to throw out outrageous slander hoping something sticks
And all of this because I wont follow your stupid ideology of puzzy first before anything like a fatherless fakkit you are.
Lol I don't struggle to get women hell I was engaged at age 20, hell my last ex lives 5 minutes away from me how the hell is that miles?
Everything you think about me is totally incorrect, its sad breh really sad how fukkn pathetic you are.
Lol at coming to help me if you actually think everything o post on here is serious
Your not Eben true your a fraud and have always been one, cry and simp over a broad who leaves you because your short you fatherless fakkit.
Your mantra went from me not getting women, to getting ugly women to anyone can get dimes to having to travel hundreds of miles to some remote place to get women
Thanks for the entertaining night.
fatherless fakkit?
come on, u know are the real fatherless fakkit. the way that word even looks make laugh. he said "fakkit" Lol. comeon man. this didn't turn out the way i had in mind. all i wanted to do is help u out man. u have issues. and i think u know it. but, Sir Truest does not discriminate. i think we should hug out this? no?pm me. i'll show u how to get women in ur area. stop wasting all that money on women that live worlds away from u man. save ur money. dont be pathetic anymore. new year resolution??
DeeezNuts
All Star
^^^Fellas.... come on... can y'all peace this issh out.. and keep it moving... is it that serious?
DeeezNuts
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^^^Agree to disagree... we all grown men in here righ? we can atleast do that much... its all luv in here fam
yeah, @TRUEST @Emperor_ReinScarf chill brehs. Everyone has their views based on their experiences....in time if we have better/worse experiences we will see where the other person is coming from. But that takes time either way, I think there's more we can agree on in this thread than not.
I was after this one chick for a minute and finally she hitting me up trying to come over to my dorm, sending me late night text, always touching on me somehow. The problem is she had/has a boyfriend and it was all cool just playing around with her but seems like she actually trying to get with me. IDK a while back i would have been all over it but im just not feeling it nowadays. I mean she a solid 8, rich family, funny, and smart but feels like something missing and lately ive been dodging her like crazy.
I dont know what changed. As soon as she started feeling me ive been pushing her away and this isnt the first time. This seems to happen to me every time actually which is the main reason im still a virgin. Whats up with me?
I dont know what changed. As soon as she started feeling me ive been pushing her away and this isnt the first time. This seems to happen to me every time actually which is the main reason im still a virgin. Whats up with me?
Nothing, in your gut you know its wise not to mess with a chick like that
Your first time your probably going to catch feelings for this chick and well already running into drama is always a losing proposition
Your first time your probably going to catch feelings for this chick and well already running into drama is always a losing proposition
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Just 14 things I've learned along the way
1. The wrong person can destroy your life, while the right one can enhance it – choose wisely and be careful who you open up to, not everyone has your best interests at heart.
2. What begins fast – ends fast, be patient and observant. People rarely change, what you see after the honeymoon period is usually who they are at their core.
3. Always be yourself and never take on another role to impress anyone, nor over analyze what you should do or say. Not everyone will like you and well that’s life. You may be humble and they may equate that to you being soft. You may be confident and they may equate that with being arrogant. You may be a good person to the core and they may equate that with being safe and boring. If someone does not like you for who you are well there is someone out there who will.
4. Never give away your feelings, love, and commitment cheaply. Respect paves the way for love. And without respect, there is no solid foundation for love or commitment.
5. Have standards, boundaries and a high level of self-confidence. When you have vigorous levels of confidence it’s like a domino effect that encouragingly stimulates every part of your inner composition. From your self-esteem, thought process, success in life and right down to relationships all benefit from self-confidence. However deficiency of self-confidence will keep you from maintaining beneficial boundaries. This in turn will lead to individuals overrunning the line in the sand so to speak over and over again losing all forms of respect they have for you. People who don’t revere your boundaries don’t truly love or respect you.
6. When someone traverses your boundaries, disappoints, frustrates or makes you enraged, if you reciprocate with anger you have handed over power of your emotions to them. When you counter without reacting (indifference) you are indicating that you are in total control and are not going to relinquish control of your emotions to someone else. It rarely pays to confront, be angry, or pour out your soul. You’ll never get the answer or reaction you are seeking, just drama, lies, trickle truthing, deflections, blame-shifting, and vilifying of you to justify their actions.
7. Relationships take a lot of work. Every day brings forth new challenges and emotions. You have to learn to pick your battles, and compromise in certain areas to make it succeed. Successful, long-lasting relationships are not built on sexual attraction.
8. Love and Relationships are indeterminate and they have no assurances. You may get cheated on, manipulated, lied to, fall out of love, drift apart or it may be the best experience of your life. No one can predict the future but you can either live in trepidation or give it a go, hope you did your due diligence and try to make the best of it.
9. Actions over words, people will always tell you what you want to hear to calm any fears. Always trust your gut feeling, if you feel something is not right – more than likely you are correct. Never think it can’t happen to you.
10. Without any consequences, bad behavior will continue to persist. When it is time to walk away, never wait and never look back. You may receive a big jolt of pain all at once but if you stay you get it little by little; day after day. Never accept demotion, breadcrumbs, nor cling to anything (words, individuals) – move on and enrich yourself. Never let anyone pick you up and throw you aside and pick you up and throw you aside whenever it suits them, if you have no self respect no one will respect you.
11. Recognize that breakups happen for an array of reasons and one of the main reasons is that somewhere out there is someone more suitable for you. So don’t impede the process in locating them by trying to recapture a relationship with an individual who isn’t right for you. Neuter the feelings that you never will get over your ex because it is all an illusion. So hope for peace in the world, hope for an end to bigotry, hope for the end of world hunger, but never hope for a person who no longer values you or loves you to come back in your life.
12. Don’t give into bitterness. It will seek to control you and eat away at your happiness. Reclaim your self-
respect and individual power. Learn from your mistakes and you’ll become a better person. Just remember that anything and everything is possible when you re-identify yourself. Make peace with the situation and accept it for what it was. Great things seem to happen if you have a positive mindset when you least expect it. So work on remaking yourself into a better person. The person you always wanted to be.
13. The path to absolute recovery is not a horizontal line, there will be ups and downs, left turns and right turns, step forwards and step backs. However in all things there is a lesson and in this you can learn the process of letting go and moving forward in life. You should never be reliant upon anyone else to bring happiness into your life. Since the day I finally came to the realization and understanding that I have no control over someone loving me, valuing me, respecting me or not – life has been so seamless. Why worry about things you can’t change its better to focus on the areas you can change and control, your thoughts, your happiness and your life.
14. Patience it’s not the end, everything in life teaches a valuable lesson. You can carry around baggage and be emotional unstable and lack empathy or you can take the viewpoint of being better prepared, wiser, stronger and realize life throws battles at everyone, you can’t win them all but you can win the war.
1. The wrong person can destroy your life, while the right one can enhance it – choose wisely and be careful who you open up to, not everyone has your best interests at heart.
2. What begins fast – ends fast, be patient and observant. People rarely change, what you see after the honeymoon period is usually who they are at their core.
3. Always be yourself and never take on another role to impress anyone, nor over analyze what you should do or say. Not everyone will like you and well that’s life. You may be humble and they may equate that to you being soft. You may be confident and they may equate that with being arrogant. You may be a good person to the core and they may equate that with being safe and boring. If someone does not like you for who you are well there is someone out there who will.
4. Never give away your feelings, love, and commitment cheaply. Respect paves the way for love. And without respect, there is no solid foundation for love or commitment.
5. Have standards, boundaries and a high level of self-confidence. When you have vigorous levels of confidence it’s like a domino effect that encouragingly stimulates every part of your inner composition. From your self-esteem, thought process, success in life and right down to relationships all benefit from self-confidence. However deficiency of self-confidence will keep you from maintaining beneficial boundaries. This in turn will lead to individuals overrunning the line in the sand so to speak over and over again losing all forms of respect they have for you. People who don’t revere your boundaries don’t truly love or respect you.
6. When someone traverses your boundaries, disappoints, frustrates or makes you enraged, if you reciprocate with anger you have handed over power of your emotions to them. When you counter without reacting (indifference) you are indicating that you are in total control and are not going to relinquish control of your emotions to someone else. It rarely pays to confront, be angry, or pour out your soul. You’ll never get the answer or reaction you are seeking, just drama, lies, trickle truthing, deflections, blame-shifting, and vilifying of you to justify their actions.
7. Relationships take a lot of work. Every day brings forth new challenges and emotions. You have to learn to pick your battles, and compromise in certain areas to make it succeed. Successful, long-lasting relationships are not built on sexual attraction.
8. Love and Relationships are indeterminate and they have no assurances. You may get cheated on, manipulated, lied to, fall out of love, drift apart or it may be the best experience of your life. No one can predict the future but you can either live in trepidation or give it a go, hope you did your due diligence and try to make the best of it.
9. Actions over words, people will always tell you what you want to hear to calm any fears. Always trust your gut feeling, if you feel something is not right – more than likely you are correct. Never think it can’t happen to you.
10. Without any consequences, bad behavior will continue to persist. When it is time to walk away, never wait and never look back. You may receive a big jolt of pain all at once but if you stay you get it little by little; day after day. Never accept demotion, breadcrumbs, nor cling to anything (words, individuals) – move on and enrich yourself. Never let anyone pick you up and throw you aside and pick you up and throw you aside whenever it suits them, if you have no self respect no one will respect you.
11. Recognize that breakups happen for an array of reasons and one of the main reasons is that somewhere out there is someone more suitable for you. So don’t impede the process in locating them by trying to recapture a relationship with an individual who isn’t right for you. Neuter the feelings that you never will get over your ex because it is all an illusion. So hope for peace in the world, hope for an end to bigotry, hope for the end of world hunger, but never hope for a person who no longer values you or loves you to come back in your life.
12. Don’t give into bitterness. It will seek to control you and eat away at your happiness. Reclaim your self-
respect and individual power. Learn from your mistakes and you’ll become a better person. Just remember that anything and everything is possible when you re-identify yourself. Make peace with the situation and accept it for what it was. Great things seem to happen if you have a positive mindset when you least expect it. So work on remaking yourself into a better person. The person you always wanted to be.
13. The path to absolute recovery is not a horizontal line, there will be ups and downs, left turns and right turns, step forwards and step backs. However in all things there is a lesson and in this you can learn the process of letting go and moving forward in life. You should never be reliant upon anyone else to bring happiness into your life. Since the day I finally came to the realization and understanding that I have no control over someone loving me, valuing me, respecting me or not – life has been so seamless. Why worry about things you can’t change its better to focus on the areas you can change and control, your thoughts, your happiness and your life.
14. Patience it’s not the end, everything in life teaches a valuable lesson. You can carry around baggage and be emotional unstable and lack empathy or you can take the viewpoint of being better prepared, wiser, stronger and realize life throws battles at everyone, you can’t win them all but you can win the war.