yeah they got the audacity to try to blame it on youremember brehs, while ur sittin here thinking about her or why she flaked/hasn't called etc.....ur not even on her mind, period.
Some other dude who is hittin & playing mind games w/ her is dominating her entire thoughts.
When he phases out in a few weeks, you hear from her on some "hey, havent heard from you! How you been?"
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the classic kevm3 line
a good man always has to pay for the sins of the bad boys that played her.
i'm fukkin up
confess your sins
the possibility of appearing butthurt is offsett by the overall message of the interaction.
women know just like they talk to multiple guys, we also talk to multiple girls. so me saying "who this" already gives the impression to her that she has been deleted from my phone. in that message, its an hour after she sent the initial cancellation text. i coulda deleted it and straight went for the backup plan. they know they have backups too.
and also, i almost kinda look forward to a chick canceling because if she does, when she hits me up later on some lets try again type sh1t, then i have every reason to suggest we meet up at my place instead (because i dont trust she'll show up since she canceled before - talk about subliminally playing the guilt trip on her without her knowing it)
ive had chicks meet up and when we meet, some of them that were sick on the day of the meeting said they decided to go through with the meeting because they didnt want me to think they werent serious and never talk to them again. so yeah, that tells me right there they've done it before to other guys who were possibly hip to the game and straight tossed them in the bushes.
sh1t, ive had chicks look over my phone when im checking somethingon the internet or going through another text and they get offended when they see i haven't saved their number in my phone. in this day in age, women know exactly what every action of dismissal means. this mofo aint even saved my number yet. he must be talking to a lot of girls.
I like your psychology one step ahead type thinking, i implement many of these strategies as well. Only numbers I save on my phone are friends and close family, I don't need to see your mug on whatsapp, nor do I need your number saved if your just a fleeting person in my life and I like it like that.
Brandeezy
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bytch at my job rejected me because I'm "too quiet". Another coworker a couple years ago said the same shyt I'm like 
how am I "too quiet" when I attempt to talk to you whenever I see you? I'm tired of these bytches brehs
how am I "too quiet" when I attempt to talk to you whenever I see you? I'm tired of these bytches brehs
bytch at my job rejected me because I'm "too quiet". Another coworker a couple years ago said the same shyt I'm like
Interesting that they actually told you.
The unfortunate thing for a man is you have to decipher what their coded language means. the whole "too quiet" means you haven't displayed alpha male traits in front of her. Women wan't to see that other women want to be with you. As trivial as that may sound, that is a main part of a woman's attraction to you. This can be displayed without you showing off anther woman in front of her. Females can pick up much quicker than males on how at ease you are with yourself. Your self esteem oozes through the first words you speak to her and also your body language before you even speak.
Many in this thread have mentioned working on yourself and forget about doing things with the sole intention of pleasing a woman. That will be your main way of becoming more "attractive". Females want to be apart of something that in some sense is bigger than themselves. When they see that you are focused on whatever it is and you're not going to be thrown off by their antics, that builds attraction. At the same time, you have to put yourself around more women. If you're being told you're "too quiet", you're probably not expressing your inner self freely around them.
Females are all over the place in their thoughts which is why they like spontaneous actions and being in the moment. As a man, you can learn to step foot in that world without becoming attached to it. It does take some time, but once you get the experience you can pop in and out of state at will. That is essentially what "bad boys" are doing and why women find them irresistible.
http://www.amazon.com/Way-Superior-Man-Spiritual-Challenges/dp/1591792576/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1422848899&sr=8-1-fkmr0&keywords=dan deida
This book "The Way of the Superior Man" explains most of this in detail. You can also find the same teachings in various religious texts, but you have to have a open mind.
i would add that, the op should start talking to women, not with the intention of trying to fucck them, but talk to them like u would a guy friend (but dont forget she's a woman, keep your manners). talk to women with the sole intention of just being friends (but dont tell them that). what this will do is help u inconspicuously build up your "roster". before u know it, give it a couple of months (yes it takes that long to stamp a legit sense of "oh he's harmless" in their heads).
i remember back in high school how i had so many female friends that ididn't even know i had. they were just chicks that we would always talk whenever we saw each other and the conversation flowed like it would with any of my boys. reason being, i was never thinking of them sexually.
i know its tough. but if ur having a hard time getting women now, this is very good starting point. watch a lot of porn. so ur not desperate when u talk to women. and just start making friends. the good news for those who aint that goodlooking is, women tend to find a variety of things attractive in men.
and with regards to your post, it has been proven time and time again that when women see u in a position of power, it really fuccks with their head. it could be telling one of ur boys what to do, or u telling/showing a coworker how to do something. u may not think they're listening but trust they are. if she's not on the phone, trust she is listening.
bytch at my job rejected me because I'm "too quiet". Another coworker a couple years ago said the same shyt I'm like
chick I went on a date w/ told me I was "too accommodating"
I'm like,
...."did you want me to be an a$$hole on the 1st date?"
Week 1 without texting any of these chicks allowed me to remove two chicks who really weren't worth anything..
chick I went on a date w/ told me I was "too accommodating"
I'm like,
lol i know exactly what that means. it means u gave her just too much leeway. she probably did a few things she knew were wrong and u probably brushed it off because 1. it didn't bother u, 2. u didn't wanna blow up on her since u just met her.
but man listen, i've found women really dig it if they do something wrong and u chastise them for it. for instance, if i ask a girl out to the movies. and she gets there late causing me to miss out on the seats i want. she gon get a earful. if her excuse is some sh1t like "ooo my friend called me and she was crying because her boyfriend left her or boyfriend did xyz" oh hell no. they get will verbally chopped into pieces.
i understand being late for real life-threatening/emergency type issues. but to have the nerve to keep me waiting for some bs, nah. and i must say, each one of girls that i had to do this to, its funny, they became the most loyal. because, what the incident did to them was make it clear who the authority figure is in the relationship and if they want to keep the peace, they know to steer clear of my petpeeves.
after incidents like that, when i go to pick them up, and i honk the horn outside, they jump out immediately. lol its almost kind of funny. they know i hate waiting and they really dont wants no parts of my fury. ha
pretty or not, if a chick im out with on a first date irritates me i have no qualms flipping out. forget everything ur momma or the women in ur family may have told u about dealing with women. as long as u aint physically abusive, be free to express how u truly feel!
Brandeezy
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The problem is that I don't want to be a "bad boy". I hate the idea of putting on an image just to impress some broad. If she doesn't like me for me then fukk her and on to the next. I'd admit that I don't talk that much but it's because I don't feel like talking or don't have much to say.
Always be you. The only thing you might have to do is be more talkative. If you play that bad boy stuff and attract some broad, sooner or later the routine is going to wear thin and you'll get tired of playing games.