My almost perfect woman
Well first off no one is perfect or almost perfect, everyone has faults, baggage and different attitudes, standards, boundaries etc. etc. etc., but yeah this is my thoughts so these are my 5 things...........
1. A woman that likes me and likes me for me
Yeah I'm not one of those guys running around doing circus tricks, chasing, pinning and doing manipulative PUA type tactics to convince someone to hey give me a chance. Nor am I one of those guys who morph into a character and take on a role to try and come across as more of a catch in her eyes. Nah I'm a take it or leave it type person, I'm confident in who I am and my perceived value, and if it's not someone's cup of tea - meh! As well neither am I one of those guys who stay languishing in some sort of backup friendzone role - the day I waste a second of my life trying to convince someone I'm worth it will be the day when pigs fly.
2. A woman who shares the same values
Yeah opposites attract - monogamous individuals always seem to end up with cheaters, honest people seem to come across liars. So thanks but no thanks I need someone who shares my core values. And that is loyalty, honesty, fidelity, commitment and respect.
3. A woman who follows the same lifestyle
Not judging as I am only accountable for myself and I will never profess my way of life is the way it should be. However if I am living a lifestyle of juggling a whole heap of women, conversing with exes why should I expect to find a quality woman that is only interested in I and I alone. If I sleep around and partake in this hook up generation, why should I expect a non-promiscuous woman? I'm not perfect by any means but I live my lifestyle accordingly to what I desire.
4. A woman who understands me
Shocking news I am not perfect, shocking news it's hard for me to trust, shocking news it's hard for me to open up, shocking news I still guard my heart somewhat. Notice I never said I won't? - in essence what I'm saying is that I need someone who is patient and understands me; I may not finish the race of trusting, opening up in world record time but I'll get there, I'll get there if......................
5. A woman who is worthy
"A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies."
A woman who who is worthy, worthy of my trust, worthy of my love, worthy of my time, worthy of my commitment, worthy for me to give up the life I am living.
I love my life - writing a book, blogging, dabbling in photography, going to the gym, travelling, volunteering and enjoying the blessings that have been bestowed upon me - (
Liar Liar you are probably actively searching for a woman)
Nope I am a single male in his late 20's yet I don't have Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, tinder (although I did at one point and had over 1,000 matches) nor any online dating accounts. Neither do I club, bar hop, lounge, meetup or whatever the younglings dabble in to socialize nowadays. My social apparatus is "I Blog and I flickr and I Blog and I flickr".
Wait you didn't mention looks, beauty, status, desirability and all that --
First off there is nothing wrong with anything listed above just meh beauty, status, desirability levels are all fleeting and are not a requirement - they are the decorations to the cake so to speak. I've been there and done that - canoodled/cavorted/mingled with beautiful women, successful women even gasp fell in love twice. I've lived the life looking from the exterior that most could only dream in their sleep and well where did that get me?
And yes I know I probably passed up/friendzoned numerous women who met my list in the past, again I never said I was perfect.
