Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EA]

I don't have a real high body count compared to a lot of dudes I know. When I was in my teens I didn't know how to talk to girls, I wasn't in a great mindset, had a lot of shyt going on and so on. Most females I got with pretty much fell into my lap. Once I got my mind straight and started living how I wanted to live I was a lot more active but at the same time I became a lot more selective in the types of females I dealt with.

I have always been honest though. As long as you are honest, it's on them. Don't fall for the guilt trip shyt. Women will fukk and then be like "oh shyt, I don't want to look like a hoe" and so they try to date you because of that. It's not worth it. You know you don't want to date her so don't even bother traveling that path.

The girl said the exact same thing to me and in my head I was like "Oh shyt, here we go ". She's even saying how I'm gonna be the only guy that she "sees" even though we're not dating. So now I was thinking that I have to exit soon before it gets messy.

What's wrong with thAt?

I have a low body count and I've never had sex outside of a relationship before so I guess I'm just overthinking things. Also, all my friends that do the same thing are low key scumbags when it comes to how they treat and deal with girls and I just don't want do start acting like them. One of my saving graces is the kind of girls that I prefer to deal with but I know that can go out of the window of I'm become strictly casual.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Brahs I need help


I am trying to help my girlfriend get a girlfriend..



Any advice ?

Don't test those waters, your girl gonna end up leaving you for that new girlfriend.

 

[Atlrocafella]

If you pulled bad ones before you can pull them again. Don't panic.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you pulled bad ones before you can pull them again. Don't panic.

id say the odds are in your favor

all it takes is 1

 

[MikelArteta]

If you desire a relationship-----

Don't mingle wiht these brehettes who just want a relationship just for the sake of being in one, mingle with the ones who want a good and fulfilling relationship. Mingle with the ones who are excited to be with you are and are compatible, mingle with the ones who have traits of Dependability, Honesty, Stability, Humour, Morals
and Manners

Be wary of the ones that fall for you so easily, because then what's to stop them from falling quickly for the guy they meet at the library or the grocery store?

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Your only allowed 3/4

She can be loyal, interested in you, not a hoe but she has kids

Interested in you, not a hoe, no kids but jot loyal

Loyal, interested in you, no kids but she's a ho

You can't have both of those. Most chicks who have kids are ho's. That's almost always a package deal.... Besides I'm not raising anyone else kid so no thanks.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

No Sacrifice No Change

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

one big common mistake I've made with females is knowing she's done some fukked up shyt to someone but thinking she wasn't going to do it to me. Us guys, we naturally have a lot of pride and cockiness so we feel we're better than the next guy, but these hoes would fukk over anyone.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Threesome tonight...

But my daughters gonna be upstairs alseep

lawd...

 

[jking23258]

@Emperor_ReinScarf and @kevm3 just wanted to tell you guys that you give great insights and opinions on women and its always great to read this thread I feel like I lurked too much on here lol but I learn so much everytime I read this thread just wanted to say thanks for your insights because its been a struggle for me dealing with women in this day in age im 21 i feel like its so hard for men out here especially young black men

 

[MikelArteta]

one big common mistake I've made with females is knowing she's done some fukked up shyt to someone but thinking she wasn't going to do it to me. Us guys, we naturally have a lot of pride and cockiness so we feel we're better than the next guy, but these hoes would fukk over anyone.

dr phil has said it
The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior

the way a woman treated her ex or left her last relationship , infidelity, already searching for someone knew while in a relationship you can guarantee if things go hard what shes going to do.

yes no girl has a clean slate but some are dirtier than others, none of us are that special

chicks will have you so caught up with sex and raising that dopamine level and then drop how they cheated in the past but its because their bf was a *insert whatever*, but dont worry she wont do it again bla bla


actually eff it i have a story my ex fiance when I met her and just started talking etc. she told me that she didnt even tell her bf in russia she was moving to canada until gasp she was living in canada. of course she told me oh he was psycho and this and that and bla bla , but she knew for like more than a year and never told the dude.

years later she screwed me over by keeping something a secret from me

 

[Music Fiend]

Something I wished I knew before is it's not a was between finding a good vs a bad woman.

I've seen many great women o messed up things. And I've seen many bad women be great people in reality.

Just because a woman dresses casually and not revealing, has a bubbly personality, goes to church, avoids bad situations and always talks about doing better, does not equate to a worthy woman.

Nor does it make you a worthy man for having all those good characteristics.

 

[kevm3]

Yep, none of us are so fly that we can change these women's established patterns of behavior. She's telling you how bad this boyfriend is and is doing things behind his back and you believe it, yet you know nothing of the boyfriend... best believe you're going to be in that situation soon. Soon you'll be the guy that's 'not paying her enough attention' while she's with her new option.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

These bytches call too fukking much!

Bout to cut all these hoes off

 

[MikelArteta]

Something I wished I knew before is it's not a was between finding a good vs a bad woman.

I've seen many great women o messed up things. And I've seen many bad women be great people in reality.

Just because a woman dresses casually and not revealing, has a bubbly personality, goes to church, avoids bad situations and always talks about doing better, does not equate to a worthy woman.

Nor does it make you a worthy man for having all those good characteristics.

gotta screen

even in the bible the devil was spitting bible verses to Jesus
even the pharises and saducees and scribes looked like the most "holy" but they were wolves in sheep clothing.

even in real life, its always people you don't expect who are doing things, the child molester, the person robbing the bank, so and so etc.

anyone can portray a "good image" doesnt mean they are good