Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Just got home from a club downtown.
$15 cover but I got in for free and to the front of the line cause my co-worker gave me passes. Even got a parking space across the street
Saw this pawg there before I dipped. Asked her to dance but told me "no thanks", but then she flashed me her wedding ring
I was like ,"so why are you here then? "I was just asking you to dance, it ain't that serious." Sarcastically told her "have a good night" and left.
I'm 31 and not really in the club scene anymore. That was my first time out in months and I'm
at how fukked up the club scene is now. I have way better success at the supermarket or Target than these places. At least I can engage in some conversation 
I'm not really into chasing women anymore. Too old for that shyt. I just check for her eyes and body language.
$15 cover but I got in for free and to the front of the line cause my co-worker gave me passes. Even got a parking space across the street
Saw this pawg there before I dipped. Asked her to dance but told me "no thanks", but then she flashed me her wedding ring
I was like ,"so why are you here then? "I was just asking you to dance, it ain't that serious." Sarcastically told her "have a good night" and left.
I'm 31 and not really in the club scene anymore. That was my first time out in months and I'm
at how fukked up the club scene is now. I have way better success at the supermarket or Target than these places. At least I can engage in some conversation I'm not really into chasing women anymore. Too old for that shyt. I just check for her eyes and body language.
one day as a man you will probably wake up and realize that women have zero leverage on you. they have nothing to offer you that you need or will ever need. everything a woman offers you is pretty much a supplement that can enhance life but the hard facts are that you need none of it.
most of these things women offer: cooking and cleaning (you can do those yourself) sexual gratification (you can masturbate if needed) companionship (obtainable elsewhere and not necessary)
emotional support (same as companionship)
once you realize you don't need any of that to survive suddenly simping becomes as silly as it always was.
in another thread i made the comparison to a woman and $5 sitting on the ground. sure if you're walking down the street and you see $5 you'll probably pick it up but how far are you really gonna go to get it? cross a major intersection? even cross a street? its nice to have $5 extra in your pocket but you're probably not gonna go out of your way to get it.
most men have deceived themselves into believing they need women so badly they do crazy shyt to get them and keep them in their lives. the things they give up aren't worth the return they get back. a lot of men will go their whole lives not realizing this.
when you're interacting with someone and you need or want something from them its an entirely different dynamic than then you interact with someone and you don't need anything from them at all. when you need them you gotta put up with their shyt. when you don't need them well its a whole different ball game.
most of these things women offer: cooking and cleaning (you can do those yourself) sexual gratification (you can masturbate if needed) companionship (obtainable elsewhere and not necessary)
emotional support (same as companionship)
once you realize you don't need any of that to survive suddenly simping becomes as silly as it always was.
in another thread i made the comparison to a woman and $5 sitting on the ground. sure if you're walking down the street and you see $5 you'll probably pick it up but how far are you really gonna go to get it? cross a major intersection? even cross a street? its nice to have $5 extra in your pocket but you're probably not gonna go out of your way to get it.
most men have deceived themselves into believing they need women so badly they do crazy shyt to get them and keep them in their lives. the things they give up aren't worth the return they get back. a lot of men will go their whole lives not realizing this.
when you're interacting with someone and you need or want something from them its an entirely different dynamic than then you interact with someone and you don't need anything from them at all. when you need them you gotta put up with their shyt. when you don't need them well its a whole different ball game.
she's an attention whore and you probably made her dayJust got home from a club downtown.
$15 cover but I got in for free and to the front of the line cause my co-worker gave me passes. Even got a parking space across the street
Saw this pawg there before I dipped. Asked her to dance but told me "no thanks", but then she flashed me her wedding ring
I was like ,"so why are you here then? "I was just asking you to dance, it ain't that serious." Sarcastically told her "have a good night" and left.
I'm 31 and not really in the club scene anymore. That was my first time out in months and I'm
First off, I wish I could dap every last one of y'all nigz for droppin all this science
I have a good question though: Do y'all ever have personal tests you put a broad through to tell whether or not she tryna set you up for that
??What are some obvious signs that a chick could be infected or tryna stick you w/ kids?
I recall having this one bustdown who was in the city come through on a winter night. She knew what she came for and I THOUGHT I was winning because I been tryna smash for the longest but really I was takin a huge L
Her: Wait...you don't even have a condom, do you?
Me: ....Nah
(condom was in my wallet)
Her: Okay it's cool forget it
About two weeks later I found out that bytch burned me
Moral of the story is if a casual fukkbuddy ain't really too serious about the rubber.. there's a good chance she could have somethin
I have a good question though: Do y'all ever have personal tests you put a broad through to tell whether or not she tryna set you up for that
??What are some obvious signs that a chick could be infected or tryna stick you w/ kids? I recall having this one bustdown who was in the city come through on a winter night. She knew what she came for and I THOUGHT I was winning because I been tryna smash for the longest but really I was takin a huge L
Her: Wait...you don't even have a condom, do you?
Me: ....Nah
(condom was in my wallet)Her: Okay it's cool forget it
About two weeks later I found out that bytch burned me
Moral of the story is if a casual fukkbuddy ain't really too serious about the rubber.. there's a good chance she could have somethini've never been one to do tests on women. I am a pretty smart dude and if I really wanted could manipulate and test women having them on some 
shyt. But I choose not to and to keep it all the way live.
For one, I like to have a good conscience and piece of mind by being an honest person.
For two, I think playing games and testing the opposite sex is feminine
For three, I would hope a bytch isnt doing the same to me even though the golden rule is becoming increasingly hard to follow in this millenium
shyt. But I choose not to and to keep it all the way live. For one, I like to have a good conscience and piece of mind by being an honest person.
For two, I think playing games and testing the opposite sex is feminine
For three, I would hope a bytch isnt doing the same to me even though the golden rule is becoming increasingly hard to follow in this millenium
i've never been one to do tests on women. I am a pretty smart dude and if I really wanted could manipulate and test women having them on some
For one, I like to have a good conscience and piece of mind by being an honest person.
For two, I think playing games and testing the opposite sex is feminine
For three, I would hope a bytch isnt doing the same to me even though the golden rule is becoming increasingly hard to follow in this millenium
my bad breh. shoulda read the whole post, didnt realize it was for testing about STDs/kids. I thought it was just testing for general shyt to see where a girl head at. I stay strapped at all times so 
Another situation today at my apts.
I go out to lay by the pool to read a book and I see three shorties. One a pawg, the other two look like they're more black than mixed but solid 8and9s . Chop it up with them for a bit, next thing I know, I'm drinking beer with them of which they offer me. PBR but it was cold and they really went back to their apt to get it for me and a few more rounds.
One of the chicks looked like Cameron , the other black chick aside Naomi from the WWE with bigger tittays. All three were whores but I'm thinking , " they letting me drink their beer and smoke them out later at their crib so its whatever. Even though the one I wanted , the Cameron look-a-like, seemed to be
Mind you I stay at apts minutes from the University so all of these are college bytches. A group of white guys come over to the pool and the Cameron chick is instantly all over some white guy looking like , "WTF, but I'll play along". He even thought I was dating 'ol girl cause I was kickin it with her in the pool. His body language was not into the chick but he knew it was just p*ssy brehs. In my mind I'm going,
but I'm staying cool cause its not worth tripping over. After all she was still cool with me . Besides, I could still smash if I keep myself looking like I don't give a fukk.
Like the previous poster who said, just look at these females like what they can offer you and throw the simping out the window. Besides being a good lay, I can't think of anything else here
I go out to lay by the pool to read a book and I see three shorties. One a pawg, the other two look like they're more black than mixed but solid 8and9s . Chop it up with them for a bit, next thing I know, I'm drinking beer with them of which they offer me. PBR but
it was cold and they really went back to their apt to get it for me and a few more rounds. One of the chicks looked like Cameron , the other black chick aside Naomi from the WWE with bigger tittays. All three were whores but I'm thinking , " they letting me drink their beer and smoke them out later at their crib so its whatever. Even though the one I wanted , the Cameron look-a-like, seemed to be
Mind you I stay at apts minutes from the University so all of these are college bytches. A group of white guys come over to the pool and the Cameron chick is instantly all over some white guy looking like , "WTF, but I'll play along". He even thought I was dating 'ol girl cause I was kickin it with her in the pool. His body language was not into the chick but he knew it was just p*ssy brehs. In my mind I'm going,
but I'm staying cool cause its not worth tripping over. After all she was still cool with me . Besides, I could still smash if I keep myself looking like I don't give a fukk. Like the previous poster who said, just look at these females like what they can offer you and throw the simping out the window. Besides being a good lay, I can't think of anything else here
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This happened to one of my boys over the weekend and I have to reiterate this
DO NOT ARGUE WITH A WOMAN OR EVEN TRY TO MAKE A POINT OR CASE
Women are conditioned to be victims and have difficulties apologizing or admitting that they are wrong. Even if they do something wrong, they will say that you caused them to do it or react a certain way. They also have a tendency to flip questions on you.
"Do you want to be here?" (as in do you want to still be in this relationship) Answering this question the wrong way will put you in a disadvantage in the relationship forever. Don't ever allow a woman to give you ultimatums. I know that some people frown on having pride, but pride is actually the internal indicator of self respect and worth.
Pride is what keeps people from devaluing you and making a fool of you. And it goes on high alert whenever somebody is trying to compromise your character. With this being said, never hesitate to leave a woman if she acts up or gives you an ultimatum.
She might renig or she might go on with her life, but the truth of the matter is that you may have dodged a bullet. Without being disrespectful, angry, or highly emotional, just let her know what she has done is unacceptable and if she wants this relationship to proceed then she needs to get in line.
The average woman will test you, this is normal. Just make sure you put action behind your words. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated and don't keep explaining yourself. If you were concise and clear, then she knows what the f*ck you said.
End all conversations with a clear expectation of how you want things to proceed following an incident, and if she has trouble comprehending be prepared to pink slip her. Call her bluff. She'll respect you for it in the long run either way.
DO NOT ARGUE WITH A WOMAN OR EVEN TRY TO MAKE A POINT OR CASE
Women are conditioned to be victims and have difficulties apologizing or admitting that they are wrong. Even if they do something wrong, they will say that you caused them to do it or react a certain way. They also have a tendency to flip questions on you.
"Do you want to be here?" (as in do you want to still be in this relationship) Answering this question the wrong way will put you in a disadvantage in the relationship forever. Don't ever allow a woman to give you ultimatums. I know that some people frown on having pride, but pride is actually the internal indicator of self respect and worth.
Pride is what keeps people from devaluing you and making a fool of you. And it goes on high alert whenever somebody is trying to compromise your character. With this being said, never hesitate to leave a woman if she acts up or gives you an ultimatum.
She might renig or she might go on with her life, but the truth of the matter is that you may have dodged a bullet. Without being disrespectful, angry, or highly emotional, just let her know what she has done is unacceptable and if she wants this relationship to proceed then she needs to get in line.
The average woman will test you, this is normal. Just make sure you put action behind your words. Don't allow yourself to be manipulated and don't keep explaining yourself. If you were concise and clear, then she knows what the f*ck you said.
End all conversations with a clear expectation of how you want things to proceed following an incident, and if she has trouble comprehending be prepared to pink slip her. Call her bluff. She'll respect you for it in the long run either way.
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