Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Bless't]

random thought for the day

I despise the way women choose to communicate.

Props to those few women that are direct & straight to the point.

Super appreciated by me. Maybe because that's the way I'm wired, but still better than guessing/assuming/prognosticating.

 

[theflyest]

A woman that is feeling you will make things easy for you

Not necessarily true.

However, when I made that post, it had nothing to do with a female interest. I'm talking dealing with women in general whether it's at work, school, gym, etc.

 

[Shameonyou]

[QUOTE="theflyest, post: 13991684, member: 4148"]Not necessarily true.

However, when I made that post, it had nothing to do with a female interest. I'm talking dealing with women in general whether it's at work, school, gym, etc.[/QUOTE]





i think it is...why do you think its not?

 

[OaklandCertified]

@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf

I need some insight...

Let me start by saying I'm single.. I'm friends with a few women, but two of them stand miles ahead of the pack.

The first of the 2 is beautiful, I mean like a solid 9, shes an 8 naturally. She is intelligent, respectful, classy, she dresses nice. We have a strong connection, she is probably the only woman that has fully read me from top to bottom and was 100% accurate(even my family members have a hard time reading me). However, I can sense that there is hurt in her heart from something in her past. Sometimes I can just see it in her eyes. Everything is wonderful with us though. I'm just hesitant to take the next step because I feel like she needs to fix whatever is bothering her first.

The next woman is about an 8, naturally she's a 7. Her personality is great..she is the type of woman you can talk to for hours. She is educated, has a great job, we share the same family values, and she believes in the traditional style values as I do. We have the same sense of humor, like the same type of movies, etc. She shows more of an effort than woman number 1. The thing that stands out about her is she's willing to compromise..she puts me before herself sometimes..

What do you guys think...1 or 2?

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

 

[The Odum of Ala Igbo]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

Why do you think she seemed so sexually needy?

 

[The ADD]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

Did your job to well.............and she's nutty

 

[EQ.]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

:patricehuh: weird azz stuff.

 

[MikelArteta]

Mmmmmmmwhen

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

raised without a father or was prob molested

 

[MikelArteta]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

ah remember what i said about chick number 1 breh?

 

[MikelArteta]

I feel like with option number 1 it might be a bad experience with a previous relationship. She told me about how controlling her ex was. He controlled everything down to what she wore.

If I had to pick right now, I would definitely go with woman #2. I'm interested to dig deeper with woman #1 though.

whenever women talk bad about their exes it always raises something in me. A woman will say her ex was so bad he cheated, was controlling bla bla then you ask them how long did you date and they drop oh we were together for 2 years, then you date em and your lucky to get 3 months before "its just not working out". And its also like kevm3 said women often speak in codes words, not black or white but grey. The average guy whsoe labeled insecure or controlling is probably correcting her or is like nah your not going to vegas with the girls or to jamaica for the week you gotta choose me or them,

 

[kevm3]

Man if you ever sense weirdness, it's time to back out like you did.

 

[Spades Of Aces]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

I think in her mind (like I really know), she didn't just want to see you up and "bounce" although you had to leave. Maybe she wanted to cuddle for a bit afterwards or something like that. With you saying that you had to leave, she might have felt used or a bit strange assuming that once you guys had sex, you were going to stay for the night and comfort her. Did you imply before hand that you weren't spending the night?

Last thing you want to do is to blow off a good thing because of one misstep. I know I'm for a woman I don't even know but, I'm just curious about the whole set up here.

 

[360dagod]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

you gave her smut treatment

 

[H@LLOW]

I need some tips brehs. I want to seduce my fiancé causin. I just want to hit it once, been lusting for her for a minute now, but don't know how to break it down to her. I think she feels the tension, but I'm not sure though.

 

[Action Mike]

I need some tips brehs. I want to deduce my fiancé causin. I just want to hit it once, been lusting for her for a minute now, but don't know how to break it down to her. I think she feels the tension, but I'm not sure though.

You know full well what everyone in this thread will say, but sometimes we need to write stuff down or shout it out for clarity.

Brehs applying these tips in live action is

You would never think you have a simp bone in your body until you press send on that message, onwards and upwards.