Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[OaklandCertified]

It wasn't smut treatment though because we did cuddle afterwards, and I fell asleep. I woke up and told her I had to leave, I had to get up early. Then she started that weird clingy shyt.

I think in her mind (like I really know), she didn't just want to see you up and "bounce" although you had to leave. Maybe she wanted to cuddle for a bit afterwards or something like that. With you saying that you had to leave, she might have felt used or a bit strange assuming that once you guys had sex, you were going to stay for the night and comfort her. Did you imply before hand that you weren't spending the night?

Last thing you want to do is to blow off a good thing because of one misstep. I know I'm for a woman I don't even know but, I'm just curious about the whole set up here.

you gave her smut treatment

 

[International Playa]

I need some tips brehs. I want to deduce my fiancé causin. I just want to hit it once, been lusting for her for a minute now, but don't know how to break it down to her. I think she feels the tension, but I'm not sure though.

No one in here will co-sign the fukkery you want to get yourself in to. You have a fiancee, so Im assuming she is a good decent woman for you to want to marry her. Stop texting her cousin, women screenshot, save convos and women never delete conversations to use against you in the future

If you were messing with a thot I would say go ahead and knock out her cousin, BUUUT this your fianceee breh. Control your canal desires and stay loyal to the woman you about to commit to.

 

[TRUEST]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

seriously, i think you have issues. no offense. what that girl did was nothing bad. she just didnt want to feel used. she wanted u to stay. what u could have done is thought well and hard about a reason to give her to leave. then leave. if u tell her how long it takes u to get ready, she'll most likely understand.

i hope u typed this post hoping to get dapps from people on some "yeah, u handled that sh1t like a real man". nah. this was completely stupid on ur end.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Yu guys wanna know what I hate? If yu in a relationship with a chick and she gets a big break like a promotion or a better job, the clock starts ticking on yu. Yu have to match her success shortly after or she's leaving yu. Now if it's the other way around it's wrong.

 

[H@LLOW]

No one in here will co-sign the fukkery you want to get yourself in to. You have a fiancee, so Im assuming she is a good decent woman for you to want to marry her. Stop texting her cousin, women screenshot, save convos and women never delete conversations to use against you in the future

If you were messing with a thot I would say go ahead and knock out her cousin, BUUUT this your fianceee breh. Control your canal desires and stay loyal to the woman you about to commit to.

Thank you sir. I'm just going to jerk off looking at her pic and keep it moving. You are absolutely right.

 

[FreshFromATL]

It wasn't smut treatment though because we did cuddle afterwards, and I fell asleep. I woke up and told her I had to leave, I had to get up early. Then she started that weird clingy shyt.

Did you give her the allusion that you would stay the whole night before you smashed?

 

[OaklandCertified]

Did you give her the allusion that you would stay the whole night before you smashed?

Nope..I told her I couldn't stay Hella late prior to going over there.

 

[Panther]

Update...

I had to cut woman number one off...

She invited me to her house, we were chillin, had a decent conversation, layEd in her bed, and ended up fukkin. So it's like 10:30 now and I get up to put my shoes and shirt on and she grabs me to stay..at first I thought that shyt was cute, but she really wouldn't let me go. bytch grabbed on my leg and tried to take my pants off. I'm telling this bytch that I need to go. I almost slammed this woman brehs. Good thing I'm not hot headed.. That was a major red flag, and I haven't called her in a week. I have no interest in seeing her again.

To me its sounds like she didnt wanted to feel like a jumpoff... But ima let yall cook

 

[OaklandCertified]

seriously, i think you have issues. no offense. what that girl did was nothing bad. she just didnt want to feel used. she wanted u to stay. what u could have done is thought well and hard about a reason to give her to leave. then leave. if u tell her how long it takes u to get ready, she'll most likely understand.

i hope u typed this post hoping to get dapps from people on some "yeah, u handled that sh1t like a real man". nah. this was completely stupid on ur end.

I don't have issues and I didn't post this for daps. There is seriously something wrong when a woman clings on to you and won't let you go for like 30mins. If you read the initial post I made about her, you would know I was already thinking she had issues, this confirms it. I told her before going over there I couldn't stay late. We cuddled and laid together after sex, I even fell asleep in her arms..why would she feel like a jump off?

 

[IceDragon]

So i currently have an ex that's popped back up. We were only seeing each other for 6 months before she was like " i got a lot to deal with right now " "timing isn't right don't think i'm ready for something really serious yet let's just take a break". My reaction was pretty much " alright fine " we stopped all communication and it was a clean break up although i was pissed off in the inside but hey fuk it. That was in November 2014 by the way.

Now she texting and calling me again, normally i don't even entertain all of that with exes but this woman has always known how to say all the right things to me asked to hang out over this weekend. Should i do it?

 

[MikelArteta]

So i currently have an ex that's popped back up. We were only seeing each other for 6 months before she was like " i got a lot to deal with right now " "timing isn't right don't think i'm ready for something really serious yet let's just take a break". My reaction was pretty much " alright fine " we stopped all communication and it was a clean break up although i was pissed off in the inside but hey fuk it. That was in November 2014 by the way.

Now she texting and calling me again, normally i don't even entertain all of that with exes but this woman has always known how to say all the right things to me asked to hang out over this weekend. Should i do it?

I'm anti ex, but why not what do you have to lose. Have no expectations and keep your emotions in check

 

[OaklandCertified]

So i currently have an ex that's popped back up. We were only seeing each other for 6 months before she was like " i got a lot to deal with right now " "timing isn't right don't think i'm ready for something really serious yet let's just take a break". My reaction was pretty much " alright fine " we stopped all communication and it was a clean break up although i was pissed off in the inside but hey fuk it. That was in November 2014 by the way.

Now she texting and calling me again, normally i don't even entertain all of that with exes but this woman has always known how to say all the right things to me asked to hang out over this weekend. Should i do it?

Long story short...She's no longer talking to the guy she was interested in and now that they're done, she's calling you again. Ifor you choose to hang out with her, don't take her seriously. She probably would hit you with the "I have a lot on my plate right now" aka "I have a lot of dikks on my plate right now" again, as soon as she finds another guy she's interested in.

 

[Spades Of Aces]

I don't have issues and I didn't post this for daps. There is seriously something wrong when a woman clings on to you and won't let you go for like 30mins. If you read the initial post I made about her, you would know I was already thinking she had issues, this confirms it. I told her before going over there I couldn't stay late. We cuddled and laid together after sex, I even fell asleep in her arms..why would she feel like a jump off?

That makes sense. I just think that although you laid out all the terms beforehand, she still wanted you to stay the entire night. You have to remember, women don't use logic, they're emotional creatures. You both just had sex, cuddled and then you slept in her arms. In her mind, it was the perfect night for her. Then all of a sudden, you wake up and say you have to bounce. It triggered an alarm in her mind. Nothing wrong with what you did in that situation, it's at that moment there was a deep connection that was being severed and she didn't want to lose that for the night.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Her: *Sends picture with headscarf on and overgrown T-shirt*, am I sexy?

Me: You Look good.

Her: That's not what I asked, am i sexy??

Me: That's not my definition of Sexy, but you look good though.

Her: Whatever, That's not what I wanted to hear, I'm going to bed, I'll talk to you whenever.



She already just a strong 7, but for her to catch an attitude for me not telling her a lie is hilarious.

 

[IceDragon]

I'm anti ex, but why not what do you have to lose. Have no expectations and keep your emotions in check

Long story short...She's no longer talking to the guy she was interested in and now that they're done, she's calling you again. Ifor you choose to hang out with her, don't take her seriously. She probably would hit you with the "I have a lot on my plate right now" aka "I have a lot of dikks on my plate right now" again, as soon as she finds another guy she's interested in.

Yeah i figured that was the real reason. Well i'm going to take her up on her offer for this weekend since it shouldn't hurt anything with my other options at the moment but being taken seriously is over with.