fukking this man, I'm still trying to figure how to balance the whole text thing and making progress shyt
as soon as you try to call a bytch you're going straight to voicemail
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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as soon as you try to call a bytch you're going straight to voicemail
I just think it's easier when your just non chalant. When your calling a male friend or a relative you don't feel nervous you are yourself you text if you want to text, call when you want to call..
You gotta be like Peyton Manning and Tom Brady, just smooth cool and calm.
You've seen every blitz and formation and packages nothing surprises you anymore, you don't get nervous throwing it in a tight spot, you throw a int shrugs it doesn't change your gameplan.
That's my mindfrane, even when I talk to a girl I'd they go cold or disappear its shrugs, its like throwing a int. I'm not going to change who I am, if your a gunslinger be the gunslinger if your the conservative Alex Smith be that, your ob offense let the defense adapt not you
You gotta be like Peyton Manning and Tom Brady, just smooth cool and calm.
You've seen every blitz and formation and packages nothing surprises you anymore, you don't get nervous throwing it in a tight spot, you throw a int shrugs it doesn't change your gameplan.
That's my mindfrane, even when I talk to a girl I'd they go cold or disappear its shrugs, its like throwing a int. I'm not going to change who I am, if your a gunslinger be the gunslinger if your the conservative Alex Smith be that, your ob offense let the defense adapt not you
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A work in progress...
Looks like my attention whore got the message. Hasn't said a word to me since I cut off her supply. When we walk by each other, there's not even so much as a greeting. Good, now she can get her fix elsewhere.
She's got a fatty, but I won't let it tempt me because I know the price that comes with it. No more boosting her ego and me going through a cycle of depression.
This is great because it's a load off my mind and allows me to mentally reset. One less thing for me to worry about. I had been stressin', I won't lie and now I feel refreshed.
I can focus 100% of my energy on myself and my goals again.
I wanted to add another point: what I learned from the experience. Not just with this co-worker either (there was another and the long story short is that we work on completely different days, so we won't be seeing each other much at all, if ever. Not to mention the repeated instances from the past).
Put simply, if a girl doesn't find you attractive, she will treat like shyt. Not all the time, but it happens enough for it to be a legitimate issue.
It's my fault though, I knew better but thought that maybe I had improved enough on my appearance for things to be different...I was wrong. Whatever small, hard-headed part of me that believed differently got a nice, cold dose of reality.
I know now what I must do and every fiber of my being is committed to true change like never before.
The good news is I'm confident more than ever that when I accomplish my goals things will be different next time. Next time, I'll be ready.
Sorry for drawing you back in, but I remember telling you the relationship was over and to not go back.
You love this chick, and want her back...but you willing to be faithful to her NOW?You did her super dirty from what I remember, and it wasn't the first time. So why should she think the next time will be different?
More importantly, why do YOU think the next time will be different? Your insecurities pushed you to that demonic life, and all of a sudden they gone? You want ya lady back and to heal your relationship, but you aint even heal ya self.
Hey man there comes a point you realize you weren't shyt and you want to change. It was deeper than the women.
That is noble, but we both know chasing this woman won't fix your issues. Yall can get back together, but she's gonna have you under a level of scrutiny and surveillance that will be bad for the both of you. It may keep you from messing up again, but it'll prevent you from your own growth.
You may want to change, but how can you know when you've truly done it if you aint being tested? How do you know that if she gives you the same space and privacy you previously had, that you wont fall back into bad habits? Not trying to shyt on you, just some questions you should ask yourself.
One of my best friends lost a baaaad chick this same way. He thought he was going to marry her and was gonna get right "eventually". Well, eventually never came and chick bounced, even moved to another state, met someone else and got married in less than 18 months. He learned his lesson though, and is doing right by his new lady.
One question I have for you, you willing to marry this chick you trying to win back? 7 years of history? If not, you might as well move on completely.
Yes breh. I am. Dead ass serious too.
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@Emperor_ReinScarf @malcolmxxx_45 Do yall work on Twitter/IG? POF is trash in my city. I want to start using my twitter account. How do yall find biitches using twitter?
Whats twitter etiquette?
Whats twitter etiquette?
Just remove anything that would "trigger" you about her. I was on facebook just a while ago randomly looking through my feed and then I decide to search for some other girl from way back and I guess Facebook still has saved searches so her profile popped up in the search.No doubt. I know she's going to crumble bro. Real shyt, im not the most put together dude but I know im all she knows. Chick still uses my lingo and all. Could be not a goddamn thing. But sometimes you just gotta believe shyt is meant to be.
But I promise my brehs I aint folding. I'm staying strong for the culture
As you get older, over and over you see the same patterns with women. I'm telling you now, enjoy them while they are in your presence, but do NOT build your world around women and always be prepared to move on if one decides to leave. You see a lot of these PUA type guys focus their lives on women, and while they end up sleeping with a lot of them, they have NOTHING to show for it, because most of a woman's benefits evaporate as soon as she leaves. In this day and age, who knows how long a woman will stick around? Everything may seem super cool for weeks, months, if not longer, and then all of a sudden she disappears. The man who built his life around women or that particular woman is in a world of trouble. The man who has prepared himself simply moves on to enjoy other things in life.
if anybody following my story
i just laid it out to shorty
asked her for one more date
since we never got to do anything fun since it was cold outside when we first started talking
i asked did she want to go running at park and have a picnic
she actually texted me back
"why are you even interested in me? "
told her why she my qb
she text me back "i have to think about"
so we pro at closure im not going to bug her anymore just wanted to tell her i was feeling her
she was fine breh
god is good
hopefully she give me a chance
i just laid it out to shorty
asked her for one more date
since we never got to do anything fun since it was cold outside when we first started talkingi asked did she want to go running at park and have a picnic
she actually texted me back
"why are you even interested in me? "
told her why she my qb
she text me back "i have to think about"
so we pro at closure im not going to bug her anymore just wanted to tell her i was feeling her
she was fine breh
god is good
hopefully she give me a chance
Yep it's crazy when you think of it, I've been on so many dates in my life with different women, i've had so many women tell me they love me they care about me. And I sit here and it's like where are they now? The only women who actually stayed in my life are the ones I had NO FEELINGS FOR, a few ex co workers who I consider some of my closet friends and still keep in touch daily, a girl who I grew up with who got married a few weeks ago who is like my sister and well that's really about it.
All the women who I spent portions of my life with GONE
all the women who said they love me GONE
All the women I've slept with GONE
ALl the women I said I loved gone
I'm just thankful I gained that knowledge while I was semi young so now that I'm older I no longer stress.
Exactly. Enjoy a woman while she is with you, but really, you never know what she's doing when she's not in your presence and you don't know if she will decide that she's found some better offer and is off to the races. Therefore, it makes little sense worrying about such things and defining yourself in terms of what women are doing.
Society has also set things up to where if your woman decides she has quick feet, she can also ruin your life in the process. Honestly, more than anything, On a slight tangent, I think it'd be best to focus on stacking up money and finding a destination to escape 'the West' so to say. The way things are going, I don't know if I want to be here too much longer.