I don't think you get it.
"lie down with dogs wake up with fleas"
A girl that doesnt want a relationship is not at a great loss if she is not made a main chicK. Guys need to stop thinking that every girl wants to be a guy's girlfriend.
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I don't think you get it.
"lie down with dogs wake up with fleas"
A girl that doesnt want a relationship is not at a great loss if she is not made a main chicK. Guys need to stop thinking that every girl wants to be a guy's girlfriend.
Action Mike
All praise..
[QUOTE="Action Mike, post: 14909693, member: 16060"]But isn't that why he said treat a hoe like a hoe?
You need to stop thinking every girl a guy is with should be a potential girlfriend..[/QUOTE]
You guys always learn the hard way. Why would you "punish"a "hoe" with sex?
You need to stop thinking every girl a guy is with should be a potential girlfriend..[/QUOTE]
You guys always learn the hard way. Why would you "punish"a "hoe" with sex?
Action Mike
All praise..
You guys always learn the hard way. Why would you "punish"a "hoe" with sex?[/QUOTE]
Who's punishing who? Being vindictive is how you lose.
You act a certain way = I don't take you seriously
Next step is bushes or fukk buddy. Breh can choose.
Doesn't mean were still not attracted to her, and that's the disconnect here and why you can't give us advice.
For you if a guy even says the wrong thing your immediately unattracted to him, for us we will smash but will never marry you ever.
(your face was like
reading that huh. Good.)This ain't exclusive to black males so that arguement is null and void.
Back to the topic.
Youseenmywork
KING
Who's punishing who? Being vindictive is how you lose.
You act a certain way = I don't take you seriously
Next step is bushes or fukk buddy. Breh can choose.
Doesn't mean were still not attracted to her, and that's the disconnect here and why you can't give us advice.
For you if a guy even says the wrong thing your immediately unattracted to him, for us we will smash but will never marry you ever.
(your face was like
reading that huh. Good.)This ain't exclusive to black males so that arguement is null and void.
Back to the topic.[/QUOTE]
And thats what I am saying... is not advisable with the type of girl that the he is dealing with. Some women should not entertained in that way at all...thats how men get "trapped" with babies they dont want with women they dont want. This girl doesnt sound like a girl you would want to be trapped in the event that it does happen. Thats a huge risk to be taking for a fling.
Entertain higher caliber women even if its a secual relationship brehs.
Youseenmywork
KING
Action Mike
All praise..
Who's punishing who? Being vindictive is how you lose.
You act a certain way = I don't take you seriously
Next step is bushes or fukk buddy. Breh can choose.
Doesn't mean were still not attracted to her, and that's the disconnect here and why you can't give us advice.
For you if a guy even says the wrong thing your immediately unattracted to him, for us we will smash but will never marry you ever.
(your face was like
This ain't exclusive to black males so that arguement is null and void.
Back to the topic.
And thats what I am saying... is not advisable with the type of girl that the he is dealing with. Some women should not entertained in that way at all...thats how men get "trapped" with babies they dont want with women they dont want. This girl doesnt sound like a girl you would want to be trapped in the event that it does happen. Thats a huge risk to be taking for a fling.
Entertain higher caliber women even if its a secual relationship brehs.[/QUOTE]
She's in medical school with him, ain't some hood rat so the trapping arguement is void. She has a lot to lose.
What she's doing is typical and brehs here have gone through it.
Girl breaks up with you or is flakey, your visibly living your life moving with other girls, now she wants you back.
Want what others want and what you can't have. Its typical and childish.
And if he tells her were just casual or you can bounce, she'll agree. Because now even though she doesn't have all of you, a piece of you is enough.
Because feelings.
thats for the individual man to determine that for himself.
She's in medical school with him, ain't some hood rat so the trapping arguement is void. She has a lot to lose.
What she's doing is typical and brehs here have gone through it.
Girl breaks up with you or is flakey, your visibly living your life moving with other girls, now she wants you back.
Want what others want and what you can't have. Its typical and childish.
And if he tells her were just casual or you can bounce, she'll agree. Because now even though she doesn't have all of you, a piece of you is enough.
Because feelings.[/QUOTE]
Ok, we have a difference of opinion on the subject I respect your position but I respectfully disagree with the idea of FBuddies.
Action Mike
All praise..
My girl was telling me how her friend whose been asking her out for 3 years with no success is mad she's dating 
What a loser, i asked once and got a date
What a loser, i asked once and got a date
Youseenmywork
KING
Oh I knew that already, and that's totally fine.
As long as he disagrees too..[/QUOTE]
....one of the biggest things women just don't get is that us men accept what we are. If we looking for a relationship then that's what we looking for. If we want a team then we want a team. Men we just except who we are because we know we not going to be in that stage of life forever. Women on the other and don't accept who they are ...that is why they so sneaky. That and they really don't take responsibility for a whole lot. Females have more bodies on the low than nikkas do ...they just don't want anybody to know about it. Which is their problem.
Brandeezy
Superstar
Problem with me is that I've rarely had any positive experiences with women in the terms of dating or even on a friendship level and I'm damn near 26. I mean I've never in my life experienced someone flirting with me and it's not like I didn't put myself in situations for it to happen. The 3 times I've been to a lounge/club I attempted to dance with a couple of women but was rejected and the guy I went with had to force a girl to dance with me which was embarrassing.
Went to visit a friend at a big college in the state and hung out a some parties with him. Ended up getting ditched by said friend at the parties and was left by myself for hours with no one to talk to, just posted on the wall. Tried online and got 0, i even paid for sites and that didn't help doesn't help that I'm 5'5" & not that attractive imo.
In high school I asked one girl out through a note, in return I got a rejection hot line number. The 2nd I had a someone try to hook me up but that ended with the chicken trying to sit me down and explain why we couldn't go out. I got a pity date out of my 1st date by a former coworker which was embarrassing, 1st Tinder date quit replying to me after I met her and the same for the 2nd. The only thing I've done female wise this year is ask a coworker if he could hook me up with another co worker. She responded with "no he's too quiet". All these events lead me to believe that something is wrong with me that can't be fixed unfortunately.
Went to visit a friend at a big college in the state and hung out a some parties with him. Ended up getting ditched by said friend at the parties and was left by myself for hours with no one to talk to, just posted on the wall. Tried online and got 0, i even paid for sites and that didn't help doesn't help that I'm 5'5" & not that attractive imo.
In high school I asked one girl out through a note, in return I got a rejection hot line number. The 2nd I had a someone try to hook me up but that ended with the chicken trying to sit me down and explain why we couldn't go out. I got a pity date out of my 1st date by a former coworker which was embarrassing, 1st Tinder date quit replying to me after I met her and the same for the 2nd. The only thing I've done female wise this year is ask a coworker if he could hook me up with another co worker. She responded with "no he's too quiet". All these events lead me to believe that something is wrong with me that can't be fixed unfortunately.