Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Right so I guess she was trying to do that callback to get her foot back in the door. Im always conflicted about it. Like why are you calling/texting now when I'm finally making moves.
She was taken though. But its just awkward for her to just hit me up out of nowhere.
 

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So meeting new chicks...... everybody just looking to remain casual, why does that bother me? How do I find a wifey type?

I can't stand dating. I like the parts after.
 

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Hey guys, i recently started my internship for school, and there's some attractive women up here at this newstation i'm interning at. Anyway there's the girl whose a member of my internship group. Persian, very pretty, Senior and i like her, but i'm wondering how should i approach dealing with her. She's in news department and i'm in sales so i'm thinking i'm probably going see her much during the 10 weeks(Nov 20) that we are up here. The next time i'll see her is Tuesday the 22nd(most likely) for this lunch that the interns will have with the general manager. Anyway i'm wondering if i should....

(a) Just continue having friendly conversation with her, don't act pressed and ask for her # (we had a good conversation on monday, and she seems like a friendly person, and that she enjoys talking to me, she even asked me if i was going be working tuesday which was today) and just take it from there

(b) Ask for her # and express any interest in hanging out with because i'd like to get to know her better(i told her i didn't really know anyone out here and like she seems like a good person to know, and maybe she could introduce me to some other people)

(c) Give her my # and express any interest in hanging out with because i'd like to get to know her bette when she's not busy (she's a senior, she's working and doing an internship, so obviously i know how that's like just graduating)

Another thing idk if i should stay the route i went monday, and not express any romantic interest and use her to maybe meet other attractive women, or since it's still early make go the route i usually go when i meet a woman i'm attracted to and try to talk to her :yeshrug:

I'm trying to change my mindset and look at attractive women as people who could lead me to more fish(you can't sleep with every woman i get that) but it's hard because that's not normally how i think and operate.It's harder to think long term, when potentially short term gratification:snoop: could be had
 

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Hey guys, i recently started my internship for school, and there's some attractive women up here at this newstation i'm interning at. Anyway there's the girl whose a member of my internship group. Persian, very pretty, Senior and i like her, but i'm wondering how should i approach dealing with her. She's in news department and i'm in sales so i'm thinking i'm probably going see her much during the 10 weeks(Nov 20) that we are up here. The next time i'll see her is Tuesday the 22nd(most likely) for this lunch that the interns will have with the general manager. Anyway i'm wondering if i should....

(a) Just continue having friendly conversation with her, don't act pressed and ask for her # (we had a good conversation on monday, and she seems like a friendly person, and that she enjoys talking to me, she even asked me if i was going be working tuesday which was today) and just take it from there

(b) Ask for her # and express any interest in hanging out with because i'd like to get to know her better(i told her i didn't really know anyone out here and like she seems like a good person to know, and maybe she could introduce me to some other people)

(c) Give her my # and express any interest in hanging out with because i'd like to get to know her bette when she's not busy (she's a senior, she's working and doing an internship, so obviously i know how that's like just graduating)

Another thing idk if i should stay the route i went monday, and not express any romantic interest and use her to maybe meet other attractive women, or since it's still early make go the route i usually go when i meet a woman i'm attracted to and try to talk to her :yeshrug:

I'm trying to change my mindset and look at attractive women as people who could lead me to more fish(you can't sleep with every woman i get that) but it's hard because that's not normally how i think and operate.It's harder to think long term, when potentially short term gratification:snoop: could be had


dont create any awkward situations. id go with a mixture of option a. and option c. dont ask for her number. be like hey, here's my number. whenever u have the time, i think we should grab a few drinks. or some other thing u know shell be into and it'll be just the two of you. when you give her a number, ease it in.
 

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dont create any awkward situations. id go with a mixture of option a. and option c. dont ask for her number. be like hey, here's my number. whenever u have the time, i think we should grab a few drinks. or some other thing u know shell be into and it'll be just the two of you. when you give her a number, ease it in.

Sounds good. i'll do that.
 

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girlfriend of 1.5 years called me a bytch because i didn't want to pick her up from her crib

threw her to the bushes that same night am I wrong brehs?

we've been arguing constantly for a week over petty shyt, i'm 23 about to turn 24 really trying to focus on my grad school test and my dreams, and seems like this constant arguing and stress is bringing me down. She just turned 20 and seems immature and not ready, don't know if this is worth it but i cut her off brehs.
 

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girlfriend of 1.5 years called me a bytch because i didn't want to pick her up from her crib

threw her to the bushes that same night am I wrong brehs?

we've been arguing constantly for a week over petty shyt, i'm 23 about to turn 24 really trying to focus on my grad school test and my dreams, and seems like this constant arguing and stress is bringing me down. She just turned 20 and seems immature and not ready, don't know if this is worth it but i cut her off brehs.

Worth it. It seems it was headed towards bush status anyway... that was the final straw.

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