Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Jason B]

its like I said if your not a womans number 1 your wasting your time. YOu don't have to be the richest, treat her best, the sexiest you can be dead broke, in an dout of jail, treat her like dirt but if you are her number 1. I'm not saying treat a woman bad, but I've realized through life if you are a womans number 1 you don't have to simp or go over and about.

In actuality, treating a woman like dirt does wonders in making her respect you as a man. You don't have be simping just even treating a woman with some human decency makes her lose respect for a man.

 

[sfgiants]

Im 21, met a chick from class who's 27...Normally i deal with females in the 19-22 range and just chill at each others apartment/dorm, grab some coffee, or drink at the house when we first meet up. Then obviously go for the drawls

Is the game any different for these older chicks? For some reason im trippen over this girls age..Im in the military so im used to a steady job but its still a change of pace going from dealing with a girl who asks her moms for money every week to a girl with her own car, job, and apartment

Stop thinking about it. My friend is 24, met this bad bytch at a bar who was 31. Then he's like "man it sucks she's 31 I only date girls 25 and under"
The fukk kinda shyt u young mothafukkas on
She ain't gona be expecting some outrageous shyt unless you make it seem like you're the type to treat bytches to fancy dinners n shyt. You can prob finesse a free meal or 5 out of her if you play your cards right.

 

[DaRealness]

It's up to you Breh.

shyt is still disrespectful, and its best you nip it in the bud early.

Others may use excuses like your being insecure or its just a joke, but the fact your posting here means it didn't sit well to you. So follow that gut.

When people want to test you, the disrespect is disguised as jokes or "just playing". When they see you let it slide then that's when they up the ante and say and do even more disrespectful shyt.

Ain't no woman gonna get away with calling me a "bytch" or ever get comfortable disrespecting me in any way. I don't care whether she's supposedly playing or not. You let little shyt slide, then next thing you know they're shouting and embarassing you in public and flirting with your friends.

Nah, nip it in the bud and cut them off and never give them a second chance when they get out of pocket.

 

[DrHackenbush]

im interested to know where you read that.

think it might have been Tariq Nasheed who said it

 

[TRUEST]

When people want to test you, the disrespect is disguised as jokes or "just playing". When they see you let it slide then that's when they up the ante and say and do even more disrespectful shyt.

Ain't no woman gonna get away with calling me a "bytch" or ever get comfortable disrespecting me in any way. I don't care whether she's supposedly playing or not. You let little shyt slide, then next thing you know they're shouting and embarassing you in public and flirting with your friends.

Nah, nip it in the bud and cut them off and never give them a second chance when they get out of pocket.

this is very true. u goto nip that sh1t in the bud. i think ol boy already did the right thing. he let her know from jump he aint about that bs when he just left. thats how u goto be.

 

[23Barrettcity]

This is why you just don't do them favours or splash out on them AT ALL unless you're in a relationship, period. Some dudes just have to learn the hard way. I'd rather be single for the rest of my days than ever compromise my principles to please some chick who doesn't give a fukk about me. I pay attention to what they do - the more subtle shyt than the blatantly obvious - and I can suss out a no good thot in very quick time like dolphins can sense each other. I don't get swayed by a phat ass and cute face or the right words. That shyt is for the birds. Seriously, if you as a grown man allow yourself to get used in this day and age, then I lay most of the blame at your feet. Whatever happened to self mastery? Too many dudes are just letting any old chick come in their lives and destroy them.

I don't blame those teenagers who make those simp videos crying for their exes, because they're still young and don't yet know any better. But if you're a big man who allows yourself to get played for a woman you don't even know, then you deserve it. There's more to life than a quick nut, stop being so easily led. It's one thing to do little basic shyt that we do for strangers every day, but all this splashing out on money crap is inexcusable. You ain't doing it from the kindness of your heart, you're doing it because you're weak and have no discpline/self respect....might as well have a sign that says 'sucker' on your forehead.

Of course we all make mistakes, but personally I'll be gotdamned if my legacy ends as the loser who allowed himself to get fleeced and totally fukked over. That shyt is just not happening to me, period. Simple as that.

I needed to read this Breh . I have some unnecessary drama with a female going on and now that I'm moving on she just likes to hit me up and say shyt to mess up my day .
It's like I was raised to be considerate courteous and respectful to women ( and some of them who don't deserve it ) try and take advantage then get mad when I. Stop

 

[Jason B]

I needed to read this Breh . I have some unnecessary drama with a female going on and now that I'm moving on she just likes to hit me up and say shyt to mess up my day .
It's like I was raised to be considerate courteous and respectful to women ( and some of them who don't deserve it ) try and take advantage then get mad when I. Stop

I hate that shyt. Yet women do not try bullshyt with the dudes who treat them with no decency. Oh the irony.

 

[23Barrettcity]

I hate that shyt. Yet women do not try bullshyt with the dudes who treat them with no decency. Oh the irony.

Yup . It's ridiculous that I feel like a fool for trying to be a good guy .

 

[MikelArteta]

If a woman doesn't appreciate your kindness or decency toss her in the trash and move on. I'd rather be single than being something I'm not to impress some chick

 

[TRUEST]

Yup . It's ridiculous that I feel like a fool for trying to be a good guy .

dont. and try not to be resentful. next time, just make sure the girl is putting in as much effort as u are. dont be fool thats always picking her up, going to her, paying for stuff, and all she does is look pretty. she has to be putting in effort. offering to cook for you, offering (without you asking) to do things for you. these are things that u need to check for.

i've met girls that within 24 hours of us meeting told me to tell them what my favorite food is. that they'd like to learn to make it for me. its these types of women id have zero issues spending my bread or energy on. other chicks u just goto give as much as they'er giving. and if they complain, show them the error of their ways.

dont be resentful. take it as lesson learned.

 

[23Barrettcity]

dont. and try not to be resentful. next time, just make sure the girl is putting in as much effort as u are. dont be fool thats always picking her up, going to her, paying for stuff, and all she does is look pretty. she has to be putting in effort. offering to cook for you, offering (without you asking) to do things for you. these are things that u need to check for.

i've met girls that within 24 hours of us meeting told me to tell them what my favorite food is. that they'd like to learn to make it for me. its these types of women id have zero issues spending my bread or energy on. other chicks u just goto give as much as they'er giving. and if they complain, show them the error of their ways.

dont be resentful. take it as lesson learned.

You right Breh . And I knew better too lmao it's the advice I give my other Friends but I guess I got caught up since I was leaving a long term relationship and feeling vulnerable

 

[DaRealness]

dont. and try not to be resentful. next time, just make sure the girl is putting in as much effort as u are. dont be fool thats always picking her up, going to her, paying for stuff, and all she does is look pretty. she has to be putting in effort. offering to cook for you, offering (without you asking) to do things for you. these are things that u need to check for.

i've met girls that within 24 hours of us meeting told me to tell them what my favorite food is. that they'd like to learn to make it for me. its these types of women id have zero issues spending my bread or energy on. other chicks u just goto give as much as they'er giving. and if they complain, show them the error of their ways.

dont be resentful. take it as lesson learned.

That's why it's always vital to watch what a chick does and completely disregard what she says, because anyone can say any old bullshyt when they have ulterior motives or an agenda. I pay attention to the little things which are the major indicators of what you're in for....I've been through way too much to ever be naive again.

 

[Swamp-Thing]

Go read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy"

 

[dc007]

its like I said if your not a womans number 1 your wasting your time. YOu don't have to be the richest, treat her best, the sexiest you can be dead broke, in an dout of jail, treat her like dirt but if you are her number 1. I'm not saying treat a woman bad, but I've realized through life if you are a womans number 1 you don't have to simp or go over and about.

How do you determine if you are a chicks number 1 or not?

 

[PinotNoir]

Stop thinking about it. My friend is 24, met this bad bytch at a bar who was 31. Then he's like "man it sucks she's 31 I only date girls 25 and under"
The fukk kinda shyt u young mothafukkas on
She ain't gona be expecting some outrageous shyt unless you make it seem like you're the type to treat bytches to fancy dinners n shyt. You can prob finesse a free meal or 5 out of her if you play your cards right.

Dude tried that with me except he was two years older