Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

Yea I mean I'll still holla at women and stuff but I'll just be very selective with it lol.

As men we put our ego/self esteem on the line any time we try to interact with women in that way. Sometimes, depending on the way in which a dude is rejected it can be a blow. Typically I recover very quickly... As I have right now. But the way I see it, I didnt get to where I am only to have some chick who I honestly feel would be lucky to have me based on her situation tell me i aint good enough. It relates to that thread about how women can run good game...even if theyre average as shyt. I for one respect this chick for telling me straight up(probably sensed I just wanted to smash or just didn't find me attractive). Nonetheless, I'm done chasing average chicks. If a girl isn't on my level I ain't gonna bother cause at least then if i get rejected its more fathomable lol. Last thing i want to sound like is an egotistical dude but that's how I see it

its fukked up outchea.

you wanna do you and accomplish whatever you want while at the same time tryna satisfy your primal and biological needs....

but hoes outchea ain't cooperating.

 

[Ohene]

its fukked up outchea.

you wanna do you and accomplish whatever you want while at the same time tryna satisfy your primal and biological needs....

but hoes outchea ain't cooperating.

pretty much. dudes say stay in shape, focus on your work, your money etc and the women will come to you but shieeeeet I'm tryna eat now so i hunt.

last thing I'd wanna do is eat off other dudes leftovers ...with leeches who weren't there from the beginning when I wasn't shyt. To be honest, the time in the gym, career drive stuff and all that shyt aint even for the ladies per se. That shyts all for me

 

[El negrito de tejas]

What's the longest y'all waited on a chick to be comfortable enough with you to have sex? It's been a month... we been dating going out... all that good stuff. Met her family and they like me, I been invites to dinner.. everything cool. But I feel like I have been friendzoned. I should cut my losses but I really like this chick now.

Going on 3 months but today I went ahead and told her that I'm removing myself and limiting the amount of time we spend with each other.

Yeah I know I don't want a relationship and don't plan on getting into one anytime soon. But we've both made it clear we're attracted to each other and it's been plenty of passionate kissing that should have led to sex. I can't keep hanging out with somebody that I'm attracted to and they refuse to go there.

Yeah I'm getting p*ssy from other females that I talk to but I want hers cause we spend so much time with each other and enjoy each other's company. Why shouldn't we have sex?

 

[RealAssanova]

pretty much. dudes say stay in shape, focus on your work, your money etc and the women will come to you but shieeeeet I'm tryna eat now so i hunt.

last thing I'd wanna do is eat off other dudes leftovers ...with leeches who weren't there from the beginning when I wasn't shyt. To be honest, the time in the gym, career drive stuff and all that shyt aint even for the ladies per se. That shyts all for me

every woman outthere is someone's leftover breh.

when i hit 30, those same women that rejected us in their prime gonna be the same ones that gonna wanna lay up with us. Those will get fukked and chucked.

At the same time, we gonna be going after em young thangs.

 

[Youseenmywork]

had a chick tell me she was not interested in me at all... and bsascally didnt wanna lead me on
while it hurt, i had to pay respect to her for keeping it real
gotta have thick skin in this shyt but its startin to get futile...time to shut it down and be a recluse ive had my fun

Your playing the game wither you like it or not .

had a chick tell me she was not interested in me at all... and bsascally didnt wanna lead me on
while it hurt, i had to pay respect to her for keeping it real
gotta have thick skin in this shyt but its startin to get futile...time to shut it down and be a recluse ive had my fun

 

[Youseenmywork]

pretty much. dudes say stay in shape, focus on your work, your money etc and the women will come to you but shieeeeet I'm tryna eat now so i hunt.

last thing I'd wanna do is eat off other dudes leftovers ...with leeches who weren't there from the beginning when I wasn't shyt. To be honest, the time in the gym, career drive stuff and all that shyt aint even for the ladies per se. That shyts all for me

How old are you ?

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

If you haven't experienced it why you saying that? I guess besides the obvious ha

Tru......ijs doe....bytches from that background are fukked in the head 4 life. My dude

its fukked up outchea.

you wanna do you and accomplish whatever you want while at the same time tryna satisfy your primal and biological needs....

but hoes outchea ain't cooperating.

Co-sign.....nikka is damned if he does....damned if he don't

 

[Ohene]

Your playing the game wither you like it or not .

You right. Everyone is a part of the game

 

[Ohene]

How old are you ?

24

 

[TRUEST]

pretty much. dudes say stay in shape, focus on your work, your money etc and the women will come to you but shieeeeet I'm tryna eat now so i hunt.

last thing I'd wanna do is eat off other dudes leftovers ...with leeches who weren't there from the beginning when I wasn't shyt. To be honest, the time in the gym, career drive stuff and all that shyt aint even for the ladies per se. That shyts all for me

the reason i dont subscribe to all that "go to the gym, work on your self" talk is really because i've seen n1ggas who dont do any of that sh1t pull the baddest women. im not saying to let yourself go and dont take care of urself, but if ur donig xyz in hopes it'll get u women, my dude, u gon be in for a world of hurt.

some people just have a way with women, and some dont. but what i will say is, if ur a social person thats always out and about, you're bound to interact with a lot of women, some of which may end up in your bed.

nevertheless, when it comes to getting women, if theres any advice to give, its really to learn to know when to back off and when to pursue.

1. after you've fuccked a chick, let her be the one chasing u. u chasing her lets her know she has pucccy power over u. show enough interest to let her know u want to see her again. but dont be hitting her up with them bs good morning texts.
2. if you haven't fuccked a chick, only take her on one or two dates. if she's not letting u making out aggressively with her by the second date(the latest), man, u need to stop hitting her up. she aint feeling u. i know women well. they dont fucck around when they finnd u attractive.

 

[Ohene]

the reason i dont subscribe to all that "go to the gym, work on your self" talk is really because i've seen n1ggas who dont do any of that sh1t pull the baddest women. im not saying to let yourself go and dont take care of urself, but if ur donig xyz in hopes it'll get u women, my dude, u gon be in for a world of hurt.

some people just have a way with women, and some dont. but what i will say is, if ur a social person thats always out and about, you're bound to interact with a lot of women, some of which may end up in your bed.

nevertheless, when it comes to getting women, if theres any advice to give, its really to learn to know when to back off and when to pursue.

1. after you've fuccked a chick, let her be the one chasing u. u chasing her lets her know she has pucccy power over u. show enough interest to let her know u want to see her again. but dont be hitting her up with them bs good morning texts.
2. if you haven't fuccked a chick, only take her on one or two dates. if she's not letting u making out aggressively with her by the second date(the latest), man, u need to stop hitting her up. she aint feeling u. i know women well. they dont fucck around when they finnd u attractive.

real talk

 

[DaRealness]

Someone mentioned this a long time ago, but I've been thinking that the direction and title of this thread needs to change to reflect self improvement as men overall. It's late over here now, but I can expand on this later.

 

[Youseenmywork]

the reason i dont subscribe to all that "go to the gym, work on your self" talk is really because i've seen n1ggas who dont do any of that sh1t pull the baddest women. im not saying to let yourself go and dont take care of urself, but if ur donig xyz in hopes it'll get u women, my dude, u gon be in for a world of hurt.

some people just have a way with women, and some dont. but what i will say is, if ur a social person thats always out and about, you're bound to interact with a lot of women, some of which may end up in your bed.

nevertheless, when it comes to getting women, if theres any advice to give, its really to learn to know when to back off and when to pursue.

1. after you've fuccked a chick, let her be the one chasing u. u chasing her lets her know she has pucccy power over u. show enough interest to let her know u want to see her again. but dont be hitting her up with them bs good morning texts.
2. if you haven't fuccked a chick, only take her on one or two dates. if she's not letting u making out aggressively with her by the second date(the latest), man, u need to stop hitting her up. she aint feeling u. i know women well. they dont fucck around when they finnd u attractive.

It's more to it than this but Im let you cook ...thoe.

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

“She thought that to indulge her passion and take vengeance on her husband was more profitable than to spare her children. It was so; but she was deceived. Show her plainly that she is deceived, and she will not do it; but so long as you do not show it, what can she follow except that which appears to herself (her opinion)? Nothing else. Why then are you angry with the unhappy woman that she has been bewildered about the most important things, and is become a viper instead of a human creature? And why not, if it is possible, rather pity, as we pity the blind and the lame, so those who are blinded and maimed in the faculties which are supreme?

Whoever then clearly remembers this, that to man the measure of every act is the appearance (the opinion), whether the thing appears good or bad. If good, he is free from blame; if bad, himself suffers the penalty, for it is impossible that he who is deceived can be one person, and he who suffers another person—whoever remembers this will not be angry with any man, will not be vexed at any man, will not[…]”

Excerpt From: Epictetus. “A Selection from the Discourses of Epictetus with the Encheiridion.” iBooks. A Selection from the Discourses of Epictetus with the Encheiridion by Epictetus on iBooks

....#GMB...#HOH....

 

[EMainstreet]

These girls be trying to keep a nikka as a "nice guy" forever.

I was texting this girl I've known for a little and she was like "omg you've changed. youre not texting like yourself"

The only difference in my texting was I was being more loose, not giving a fukk, and being cockyish. I stopped doing that nice guy "how is your day going?" shyt.

Anyways she's then like "you were perfect the way you were. never change trust me"...I was this close to listening to her and reverting to my old way until I realized...I ain't fukking her.

If the nice guy shyt I used to do was perfect why did she always curve me when I tried to set something up, or when I tried to make a move on her.

Girls be trying to keep a guy in "simp mode" all their life. Stay sharp fellas!