Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[duncanthetall]

I've been having a decent amount of sex lately with attractive chicks. But....it's like I know none of them care about me more than I care about them. Like....I dunno how to feel. Haven't smashed any chick in almost 2 weeks and I feel I should hang on until I find someone i really truly care about.

And one chick. We are great friends. But we only fukk when we're both like really fukked up. And...it's like I'm playing the position that I've put chicks in pretty much my whole life. I don't really do relationships but this one chick I thought might end up being more....she is treating me how I treat my fukk buddies. At least that's how it feels. And how it likely is. I know I'll meet someone soon enough but...

It sucks to be fukking someone you actually like but they dont like you the same. Life is weird and circular.

 

[TRUEST]

I've been having a decent amount of sex lately with attractive chicks. But....it's like I know none of them care about me more than I care about them. Like....I dunno how to feel. Haven't smashed any chick in almost 2 weeks and I feel I should hang on until I find someone i really truly care about.

And one chick. We are great friends. But we only fukk when we're both like really fukked up. And...it's like I'm playing the position that I've put chicks in pretty much my whole life. I don't really do relationships but this one chick I thought might end up being more....she is treating me how I treat my fukk buddies. At least that's how it feels. And how it likely is. I know I'll meet someone soon enough but...

It sucks to be fukking someone you actually like but they dont like you the same. Life is weird and circular.

dont worry u can get her to like u more than u like her.
next time, after you've fuccked, dont lay around having any conversations. get up and leave. tell her u got business to attend to. she'll probably start to feel sideways the more u do this. if u sense she's upset or angry, still leave. but next day, take her out to eat.

u goto let them believe ur attitude of take it or leave it. if a woman knows she has u in the bag, she'll act the way this one is acting.

 

[Youseenmywork]

The 1-30 Scale

Here is an explanation of the 1-30 scale I believe was invented by comedian Patrice O'Neal.

The scale is simple and replaces the 1-10 scale. The 1-10 scale seems easy and practical to use but you always find yourself wanting to put a decimal after the whole number. It also gets in a gray area around the 5-7 range because if you give a girl a six, then it seems like she could be uglier than what she is because it's almost a five, which would be average. Anything below a five just is thought to be below average and untouchable, but some fours could possibly be ok. But if you give a girl a seven because you think she's better than a "six", then you kind of bring down the value of a true seven and this is where the 1-30 scale makes up for all that.

Think of the 1-30 scale broken up into three parts:

1-10 = Ugly Women

11-20 = Average Women

21-30 = Hot Women

So you essentially have three 1-10 scales but they are based on what type of person they are. Once you determine what group a certain woman belongs to, you can then give her a rating in her scale. Since you have already determined if she is ugly, average, or hot, there is no need for decimals or devaluing the scale. So for example, you may think that a cashier at grocery store may be cute. Well most likely she will falls into the ugly group, but she's on the high end of the ugly group scale, so a nine or 10. You'd through her a bone, but on a 1-10 scale, you'd probably only give her a 3 or 4, which again, is untouchable. Someone like Natalie Portman would obviously be in the Hot Women category and would most likely in the upper region of her respected scale. I would say some people in this group would consider her a 30. She would be a hot "hot" person. Let's say there was someone in your office name ****** she's the most attractive female in your office, but in reality, she's average, but you'd give her a 18 or 19, because she's a hot average person. This should all be very simple to understand.

Now there is one thing that the 1-30 scale has in common with the 1-10 scale. They both can be shown on a bell curve of hotness against likelihood you're going to hook up with her for one reason or another.



Patrice the gawd

 

[StarGirl]

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[Ohene]

I'm a girl, and I'm new so I don't know if I belong in this thread, but I do have a lot of knowledge of fellow women. I'm going through some things right now with a guy and the thread in the Salon can't help me. It's like the blind leading the blind. Because I don't think females and males get each other. We just think differently.

Now, in terms of how the girl you're only hooking up with when you're drunk treats you, you need to treat her a little cold. I know it probably doesn't make sense, but no cuddling after, ignore her texts sometimes, and be slow to reply. When around her be very active with your phone to show her she just gets ignored for hours. Turn down sex with her. Human nature dictates we pursue that which retreats from us. It's a dirty game to play, but play it and she'll shift. By the time you see the obsessive change, you probably won't even want her. It's a competition of who pretends to like who the least. I know this works because it worked on me, and I was the girl who treated the guy like a fukk buddy.

I got negged for giving you this advice, but I'm not gonna lie to you. It works. What am I supposed to say?

lol shorty kicking game.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I'm a girl, and I'm new so I don't know if I belong in this thread, but I do have a lot of knowledge and insight to give guys on the other side. I'm going through some things right now with a guy and the thread in the Salon can't help me. It's like the blind leading the blind. Because I don't think females and males get each other. We just think differently.

Now, in terms of how the girl you're only hooking up with when you're drunk treats you, you need to treat her a little cold. I know it probably doesn't make sense, but no cuddling after, ignore her texts sometimes, and be slow to reply. When around her be very active with your phone to show her she just gets ignored for hours. Turn down sex with her. Human nature dictates we pursue that which retreats from us. It's a dirty game to play, but play it and she'll shift. By the time you see the obsessive change, you probably won't even want her. It's a competition of who pretends to like who the least. I know this works because it worked on me, and I was the girl who treated the guy like a fukk buddy. Hope I helped.

....First thing first if your going to post in this thread you better have thick skin...dont take ANYTHING OR ANYONE on this site personally.

Second you LEARN about men from MEN ....period not women.

Third...dont weight you EXSISTENCE next to your VAGINA cultivate other skills outside of how you look and your vagina.

Fourth : A man's happiness HAS TO COME FIRST . If HE is a stand up guy he will make EVERYBODY else around him happy. At worst he will be self-centered like half the women he has meet....but what women dosent like a man who LOVES himself more than any women.

5: WOMEN don't have the skills to talk there way into love. A man shows up and has to....AUDITION. Men have to learn a SKILL level to get the women they want....you know things women like chrisma....funny ....confident....intelligence....stoic... and for some thugged out umm attitude.

6: ALL bytchES IS CRAZY
7: Everything is a man's fault I'll explain this in detail later. A women is a direct reflection of the man she dealing with ( I have a ton of blog type post I wrote ...they'll drop next year). This one of the topics.

8: Learn to except your NATURE. Anytime you try to step outside of your NATURE you will be un happy. ANYTIME you try think like a MAN. You will be unhappy.

9: MEN ARE BETTER THAN WOMEN....the queen will NEVER be better than KING. A man at his HIGHEST LEVEL helps a WOMEN BE at her HIGHEST LEVEL. A man at his LOWEST level will never be attractive....sad thing is I've seen some beautiful women with anit shyt nikkas ....no comment

10. Female Logic- A woman cannot be logical because her logic is based upon her emotional foundation, so as she changes in her mood so does the foundation of her logic.

Good luck to you ....

 

[StarGirl]

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[EMainstreet]

Help a brother out!

A lot of girls instantly write me off because they think I'm a "player" or a "fukk boy" and don't give me the time of day.

How do I fix this? This is lowkey messing up my confidence.

 

[MercuryHayes]

I've been having a decent amount of sex lately with attractive chicks. But....it's like I know none of them care about me more than I care about them. Like....I dunno how to feel. Haven't smashed any chick in almost 2 weeks and I feel I should hang on until I find someone i really truly care about.

And one chick. We are great friends. But we only fukk when we're both like really fukked up. And...it's like I'm playing the position that I've put chicks in pretty much my whole life. I don't really do relationships but this one chick I thought might end up being more....she is treating me how I treat my fukk buddies. At least that's how it feels. And how it likely is. I know I'll meet someone soon enough but...

It sucks to be fukking someone you actually like but they dont like you the same. Life is weird and circular.

Find someone that worships you and admires you while being her own woman breh...Finding the woman on that even wavelength of feeling is a marathon. It may be there initially, honeymoon/getting to know you phase is the best. Then something happens down the line. Things change, but the 1 time it doesn't thats the best fit. You gotta be ready for the long haul

 

[duncanthetall]

Find someone that worships you and admires you while being her own woman breh...Finding the woman on that even wavelength of feeling is a marathon. It may be there initially, honeymoon/getting to know you phase is the best. Then something happens down the line. Things change, but the 1 time it doesn't thats the best fit. You gotta be ready for the long haul

Feel like I need to be real and love myself more. Thanks y'all. Once again

 

[BenevolentGaraad]

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

The Friendzone Theory

The common narrative about the Friendzone is "a$$holes get the girls and nice guys finish last."
I have realized how untrue that is. Those a$$holes aren't really a$$holes and those nice guys are actually simps.

There's a difference between just being friends with a woman and being in the Friendzone.

First, The "a$$holes"
9/10 it's the guys who get stuck in the Friendzone who call the guys who get the girl, a$$holes. In reality they aren't a$$holes they're just confident men who know what they want and have standards. When a man refuses to settle for just any woman it's impossible for him to be a simp, which means it's also impossible for him to be put in the Friendzone. If you as a woman ain't shyt, don't expect this man to cater to you and fawn over you just because you have a vagina. For a confident man, "p*ssy is only p*ssy and he gets it when he needs it." That drives most women crazy. A lot of women love a man who acts as if they are not the world & sun and can do just fine without them, but at the same time shows some interest. Simps/nice guys don't understand that because they are used to dropping everything for a woman etc... So to them that confident man is an "a$$hole."

The "Nice Guys"
In reality "Nice Guys" aren't as nice as they think they are. Most of these simps will jump into a relationship w/any woman who presents one. These are the guys who send mass "sweet" texts/msgs to multiple women waiting to see who will bite. Women are not stupid and they can recognize this.

It's just like a guy never officially making a hoe his wifey. As men we know if you are easily giving up the goods there is a high possibility you are letting a bunch of other guys hit it. All we will use you for is consistent sex and as soon as we actually find a girl there is a good chance we will drop you.

Same thing goes for women. When they see a simp/"nice guy" giving up the goods and doing whatever for her she will realize that you are probably doing this for a bunch of other women. So yeah she will keep you around & sell you the dream for her benefit. She knows you will drop everything and come help her fix her car, or buy her food, or listen to all of her bullshyt problems. You are at her mercy and have given up all your power just to get her valueless p*ssy. So she drops you in the Friendzone and as soon as she gets a confident man, you are cut off from her.
Women love to have their cake and eat it too, so when they aren't with a man they still want to feel like they are with a man without the commitment. Cue the simp/"Nice Guy".

3 Ways To Avoid The Friendzone

• Be Confident
  Show her you're not stopping your life just to make her feel good. Don't be afraid to tell her NO and that you have other important things in your life.
  
  
• Don't Reply
  Stop replying to all of her texts/msgs in under 30 seconds. Sometimes don't even reply at all. Don't answer every call. She is still going to be there tomorrow so stop acting like if you ignore her the world will end.
  
  
• Make a Move
  If you are feeling her, at some point you're going to have to show her. Kiss her, touch her sexually or something. A lot of times girls Friendzone dudes because they take too long. Like I said before, don't be thirsty and profess your feelings and shyt like you're in a lame ass movie, but you gotta show some interest.

 

[Bless't]

I'm a girl, and I'm new so I don't know if I belong in this thread, but I do have a lot of knowledge of fellow women. I'm going through some things right now with a guy and the thread in the Salon can't help me. It's like the blind leading the blind. Because I don't think females and males get each other. We just think differently.

Now, in terms of how the girl you're only hooking up with when you're drunk treats you, you need to treat her a little cold. I know it probably doesn't make sense, but no cuddling after, ignore her texts sometimes, and be slow to reply. When around her be very active with your phone to show her she just gets ignored for hours. Turn down sex with her. Human nature dictates we pursue that which retreats from us. It's a dirty game to play, but play it and she'll shift. By the time you see the obsessive change, you probably won't even want her. It's a competition of who pretends to like who the least. I know this works because it worked on me, and I was the girl who treated the guy like a fukk buddy.

I got negged for giving you this advice, but I'm not gonna lie to you. It works. What am I supposed to say?

Thank god I dont put up with this type of shyt. This shyt here...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Thank god I dont put up with this type of shyt. This shyt here...

Yeah...but just think how many women might have pulled this with you. I'm not EVER gon talk about how these women have a group chat threw text messages and one girl in the group writes the text message for the entire group ....

Women my nikka ...

 

[kevm3]

Help a brother out!

A lot of girls instantly write me off because they think I'm a "player" or a "fukk boy" and don't give me the time of day.

How do I fix this? This is lowkey messing up my confidence.

You have to give us more details than that. Do you have a reputation for sleeping around or are you very dismissive of women?