Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[StarGirl]

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[Ohene]

messaged that chick to confirm today....no reply.
these girls are something . exactly why i aint wanna wait til Thursday

 

[TRUEST]

messaged that chick to confirm today....no reply.
these girls are something . exactly why i aint wanna wait til Thursday

that's a position of weakness to ask a chick if you're still on. that gives the insinuation that you're used to girls canceling on you. and it makes it seem as though she's high and mighty and her schedule is so important that a lowly person like u has to make sure the spot she assigned for you is still there. nah n1gga. goto be arrogant to a degree with these women.

a better way to confirm, if you really must, is to, on the day off, send her something like:

"what's the address i'm picking u up from?"

even if she doesn't respond to that one either, u should already have other things lined up.

 

[Ohene]

that's a position of weakness to ask a chick if you're still on. that gives the insinuation that you're used to girls canceling on you. and it makes it seem as though she's high and mighty and her schedule is so important that a lowly person like u has to make sure the spot she assigned for you is still there. nah n1gga. goto be arrogant to a degree with these women.

a better way to confirm, if you really must, is to, on the day off, send her something like:

"what's the address i'm picking u up from?"

even if she doesn't respond to that one either, u should already have other things lined up.

Meh...she replied so there's that

Say what you want...but not confirming is setting yourself up to get stood up. Women are passive as fukk. If you don't confirm...or even wait til hours before to do so...more are liable to make an excuse and say "you didn't confirm" than to actually follow through.

To you it may spell weakness/submission...to me it says I got other shyt to do so let me know if you're with it or I'll go forward with my other plans. In fact...my dude @Biggums actually tried to pull the shyt you said (not to be arrogant but because he didn't know any better) and home girl flaked but they rescheduled.

 

[hoodheronova]

Meh...she replied so there's that

Say what you want...but not confirming is setting yourself up to get stood up. Women are passive as fukk. If you don't confirm...or even wait til hours before to do so...more are liable to make an excuse and say "you didn't confirm" than to actually follow through.

To you it may spell weakness/submission...to me it says I got other shyt to do so let me know if you're with it or I'll go forward with my other plans. In fact...my dude @Biggums actually tried to pull the shyt you said (not to be arrogant but because he didn't know any better) and home girl flaked but they rescheduled.

if she got any friends put me on bro

 

[Ohene]

if she got any friends put me on bro

You in Toronto ?

 

[hoodheronova]

You in Toronto ?

shyt nah. You can be my connect out there tho cause I be traveling

 

[TRUEST]

Meh...she replied so there's that

Say what you want...but not confirming is setting yourself up to get stood up. Women are passive as fukk. If you don't confirm...or even wait til hours before to do so...more are liable to make an excuse and say "you didn't confirm" than to actually follow through.

To you it may spell weakness/submission...to me it says I got other shyt to do so let me know if you're with it or I'll go forward with my other plans. In fact...my dude @Biggums actually tried to pull the shyt you said (not to be arrogant but because he didn't know any better) and home girl flaked but they rescheduled.

getting stood up only hurts if u didn't have attractive backups in place. the hotter the woman, the more likely she's to play games. in the case of this girl, let's just hope u fucck her.

 

[Ohene]

getting stood up only hurts if u didn't have attractive backups in place. the hotter the woman, the more likely she's to play games. in the case of this girl, let's just hope u fucck her.

You right

 

[Ohene]

shyt nah. You can be my connect out there tho cause I be traveling

Deal.

 

[UpAndComing]

Whenever you ask a girl a question, and she answers then asks "why?", she a boring ass bird, with nothing to add to a conversation, and needs to be deleted from your contacts

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

Help a brother out!

A lot of girls instantly write me off because they think I'm a "player" or a "fukk boy" and don't give me the time of day.

How do I fix this? This is lowkey messing up my confidence.

Continue not giving a fuxk that's all I can say because on one hand you know they like you and on the other they hate you....been in the same boat ....One day they will wanna know why you act indifferent but not a guarantee but after that the p*ssy is yours (I threw some away cz I no longer felt the girl )

 

[EMainstreet]

You have to give us more details than that. Do you have a reputation for sleeping around or are you very dismissive of women?

Tell me when you guys want me to get out your thread. Until then I'll try to help. It's kind of therapeutic. Now,

If a girl say this, it can mean either one of 2 things:

1. She's not feeling you like that, and is trying to write you off in a way that isn't insulting to you. Rather then telling a guy that he was too short, I told him he was a player. He got mad, but at least he didn't leave with a hurt ego. Honestly think about this. In what world do girls turn down the player? We all pray we have the magic box to hold him from his ways and transform him into a one woman man.

OR

2. She's actually heard about you. There is no private detective as efficient as a woman with too much time on her hands. We know when you lost your virginity, every girl you f***ed, every girl you tried to f***. So if you got with many... then we know. Even if we say we didn't know, we know. Keep people out your business and your business won't spread and f*** girls with more to lose than you have so your business won't leak.

This is all I've got from the info you've given. Maybe added info might give better context.

Continue not giving a fuxk that's all I can say because on one hand you know they like you and on the other they hate you....been in the same boat ....One day they will wanna know why you act indifferent but not a guarantee but after that the p*ssy is yours (I threw some away cz I no longer felt the girl )

Basically it's mainly through social media. Girls judge before they even know me.

In the past year I worked on myself heavy...started lifting, improved my posture, became less awkward overall, got piercings, upgraded my fashion, got taller, etc.

I've been told by many girls that before before they met me in person they thought I was a fukkboy who banged a new girl every week type shyt.

I'm not saying this to brag but they see a good looking light skin and they automatically drop me into a category of "player".

For example I would hit at old crushes I used to have in highschool through social media and they think I turned into a douchebag who only wants to fukk and basically write me off.

The only difference in how I act is I'm way more confident and looser than I used to be.

It's like they want to stop you from growing as a person.

 

[TRUEST]

Basically it's mainly through social media. Girls judge before they even know me.

In the past year I worked on myself heavy...started lifting, improved my posture, became less awkward overall, got piercings, upgraded my fashion, got taller, etc.

I've been told by many girls that before before they met me in person they thought I was a fukkboy who banged a new girl every week type shyt.

I'm not saying this to brag but they see a good looking light skin and they automatically drop me into a category of "player".

For example I would hit at old crushes I used to have in highschool through social media and they think I turned into a douchebag who only wants to fukk and basically write me off.

The only difference in how I act is I'm way more confident and looser than I used to be.

It's like they want to stop you from growing as a person.

something sounds off about this. hope your not talking to these women about other women. that's about the only way i know women will write off a "good looking" dude.

 

[kevm3]

A woman telling you that you look like a player means she finds you attractive but she's afraid she'll get played so she's on her guard.