Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

here's a scenario: met her a short while ago but after a week or two of talking, she is setup with a new position and will have to move out there. It's a nice opportunity for her. However, I believe it could be temporary so there's a possibly she could be back around. do I stay in contact or not? She's beautiful and I think we have a lot in common, I would be definitely taking her out if this hadn't happened.

Why wouldn't you unless it takes so much effort you can deal with other women

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Youseenmywork]

^^^^ this includes women.

 

[EffYou]

Lol I got a girl now all the hoes coming out the woodworks wanting to fck with ya boy






Only this time I'm being smart and holding them up as back up just in case my current shawty try something






Your boy finally being resourceful and playing the game how it should be






At the moment I luh my girl and she treating me right so hopefully she stays sane

 

[Youseenmywork]

 

[Atlrocafella]

Dope little video about being stuck on "the one girl"

 

[Atlrocafella]

Lol I got a girl now all the hoes coming out the woodworks wanting to fck with ya boy






Only this time I'm being smart and holding them up as back up just in case my current shawty try something






Your boy finally being resourceful and playing the game how it should be






At the moment I luh my girl and she treating me right so hopefully she stays sane

keep the roster in tact, just not active.

 

[Atlrocafella]

here's a scenario: met her a short while ago but after a week or two of talking, she is setup with a new position and will have to move out there. It's a nice opportunity for her. However, I believe it could be temporary so there's a possibly she could be back around. do I stay in contact or not? She's beautiful and I think we have a lot in common, I would be definitely taking her out if this hadn't happened.

Yeah, if she's great, than keep the contact. You just started talking to her, so no reason to cut her off unless she's being distant with you. If she happens to come back, cool, if not? Oh well.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

From the OBLIVIOUS thread.

Sounds like me.
I had this older woman im cool with at work do the lower back on me the other day but she married and prolly just being friendly. After all, im still new.

This one slim thick chick stay talking to me everyday and laughing at everything i say. She always smiling and shyt and acting like she want attention. I'll be the only one in the stockroom and she'll come in there quiet. Soon as she notice im in there its "oooooo im tired" "ahhhh (while lifting some trash or something)" "welcome to Walgreens" like im a damn customer or something. She got a dude though i think. Its always this dude she leave wit after work.

Then they got this ugly chick with a nice voice and fat booty thats always talking to me and asking me favors. Yesterday her booty rubbed against my hand when we were squeezing by each other behind the counter but maybe it was actually an accident. Then she asked me to bring her an Arizona and i told her to buy my energy drink for me. We obviously both got paid that day but she ended up buying my shyt and im drinking it like she just MIGHT be feeling me since she bought me something even though she know i got money. She proly got a dude too tho.

 

[the artist known az]

What is the coli's take on a girl that mentions her boyfriend every time?

 

[Alfred0Santana]

1st post. Been lurking the Coli for awhile...started off in The Booth and bounced around some other places. Finding out about the locker room and this thread in particular has been clutch. A lot of y'all have been dropping gems and I felt with this situation going on it would be a good 1st post for me.....roast...give advice...do what y'all do lol. If it's long my bad. Just getting some thoughts off.


I've been basically out of this on and off serious relationship since June of this year but I've been keeping in contact with this chick. We talked for a while before we got together and I felt real good about her like she might be the one . Had her over for thanksgiving last year and moms fell in love with her off the first meeting. That was a mistake in hindsight and I will admit I think I was too excited. I broke things off in January but we ended up re connecting and hanging around each other on some do-over type stuff. Only problem was I kinda slipped back into my savage ways and she found out I had a tinder. She came to me one night at my place like she wants me and wanted to know if we gone do this or not. I basically was like "well I got some other things going on". She walked out and I haven't seen her since. You ever been in the moment and feel like you flexed on a broad but later on be like I could have played that better? That was me. I was out here smashing these broads with no feelings knowing it wasn't the same as her. Fast forward to November and my aunt comes down sick with cancer. She friends with me, my mom,sister and cousin on facebook so she knows everything. She starts texting me to check on me with all this stuff thats going on. She had posted a picture on Facebook around this time of a navy dude and her at some military ball. My aunt passes and she texts me the morning of the funeral saying she wishes she could be there with me and ends it saying love you. We never even said love you to each other when we was together so I respond back and say love you too.
Me and some fam went on a cruise to the Virgin Islands after the funeral. We had almost cancelled it with everything going on but it was much needed. Of course a nikka get drunk the first night and start simpin to her textin .. She tells me I broke her heart twice and she trying to get over me and hits me with the cliche "if its meant to be it will be" line. I left it alone but she kept texting me making small conversation and it took me a min to pick up on game. I noticed she would only text me in the morning when she was at work and wasn't around ol boy. This Tuesday she texted me and I put up a pic to show you how that went. I haven't responded since and she hasn't texted anything. I deleted her off everything and honestly once I got over that first day I been straight but something in me just feels like me and her have some story that hasn't been finished. Idk brehs

 

[Ooh Marty]

I would have made a thread but I did not want to be accused of attention whoring.

can some of the men give me an honest answer to this scenario:

I've been crushing on this guy that I know for like about 3 or 4 years. I never approached him and told him about it but out of the blue a month and a half ago he offered to take me on a date. It was alright . He was very Much so my type and he has a great personality.

He called me the next day to make plans for our next date. He so called injured himself playing basketball and cancelled.

He hit me up 3 days later wanting to chill at his crib

I agreed to it we never got up tho.

I hit him but no response so I took the L. He hit me today out the blue

Does it mean he was feeling someone more around the time and put me on the back burner or maybe he was going thru some shyt and didn't have the time for me ?

I need answers!!!

 

[EffYou]

@Youseenmywork ever read "The rational male"?

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

What is the coli's take on a girl that mentions her boyfriend every time?

Completely ignore that shyt. As if she didn't even mention him. But if she keeps doing it, tell her "I'm not trying to hear about him. I wanna talk about us."

Control the convo, breh.

1st post. Been lurking the Coli for awhile...started off in The Booth and bounced around some other places. Finding out about the locker room and this thread in particular has been clutch. A lot of y'all have been dropping gems and I felt with this situation going on it would be a good 1st post for me.....roast...give advice...do what y'all do lol. If it's long my bad. Just getting some thoughts off.


I've been basically out of this on and off serious relationship since June of this year but I've been keeping in contact with this chick. We talked for a while before we got together and I felt real good about her like she might be the one . Had her over for thanksgiving last year and moms fell in love with her off the first meeting. That was a mistake in hindsight and I will admit I think I was too excited. I broke things off in January but we ended up re connecting and hanging around each other on some do-over type stuff. Only problem was I kinda slipped back into my savage ways and she found out I had a tinder. She came to me one night at my place like she wants me and wanted to know if we gone do this or not. I basically was like "well I got some other things going on". She walked out and I haven't seen her since. You ever been in the moment and feel like you flexed on a broad but later on be like I could have played that better? That was me. I was out here smashing these broads with no feelings knowing it wasn't the same as her. Fast forward to November and my aunt comes down sick with cancer. She friends with me, my mom,sister and cousin on facebook so she knows everything. She starts texting me to check on me with all this stuff thats going on. She had posted a picture on Facebook around this time of a navy dude and her at some military ball. My aunt passes and she texts me the morning of the funeral saying she wishes she could be there with me and ends it saying love you. We never even said love you to each other when we was together so I respond back and say love you too.
Me and some fam went on a cruise to the Virgin Islands after the funeral. We had almost cancelled it with everything going on but it was much needed. Of course a nikka get drunk the first night and start simpin to her textin .. She tells me I broke her heart twice and she trying to get over me and hits me with the cliche "if its meant to be it will be" line. I left it alone but she kept texting me making small conversation and it took me a min to pick up on game. I noticed she would only text me in the morning when she was at work and wasn't around ol boy. This Tuesday she texted me and I put up a pic to show you how that went. I haven't responded since and she hasn't texted anything. I deleted her off everything and honestly once I got over that first day I been straight but something in me just feels like me and her have some story that hasn't been finished. Idk brehs

Too much texting, breh. That last one was just but I think you realize that already. Shorty is clearly reaching out. Keep them texts short and sweet, 1 or 2 words. Make her want you if you want her. If you don't want her then you definitely shouldn't be doing all that.

Shorty exposed her cleavage and you offered her a sweater.

 

[the artist known az]

Completely ignore that shyt. As if she didn't even mention him. But if she keeps doing it, tell her "I'm not trying to hear about him. I wanna talk about us."

Control the convo, breh.

I have to talk to her in a professional (or supposed to be professional) setting. I talk to her maybe 1-2 times a week via phone call/text & maybe see her once every month or so for work. I just keep getting a vibe from her but I have to toe the line & not make it awkward.